How can I be willing to give up on you, I can t give up on you!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Just like your question, how can you give it up? If you are not willing to give up, there are many examples of regret after impulse, if I were you, I choose to give him a chance, rather than impulsively to give up, I advise you to talk to him well, let him tell you what is in his heart, maybe you have a lot of gains.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Reason is the most important thing at all times, if giving up can make the person you love happy, then give up, sometimes it is not happy to force it, let yourself live.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This time to give up, perhaps the biggest gain in this life, if you really can't have, then decide to give up as soon as possible, give others a chance, but also give yourself a chance, people always have to continue to live, always should have a better future, reluctant, after a long time, will eventually be willing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is giving up a necessity for you? If you are, then give up, although there is. Reluctantly, but you have to understand that letting go is also a kind of love!

    You're doing your hair for the people you love. Does he love you? If yes, no, you have to understand more about people's choices and trade-offs.

    Sometimes, you have to ask yourself if it's worth it. Give yourself a little more love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are not willing to give up, don't give up!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't give up if you can't bear to.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are not willing to do so, see if there is any way to save it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    See why you gave up to make him happy??

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since Lin Feng got a girlfriend, Xia Lu has often been in a state of anxiety recently, Lin Feng is Xia Lu's best friend, and the two have nothing to talk about, but Lin Feng once said that the two of them will only be good friends, and it is absolutely impossible to develop into boyfriend and girlfriend. At that time, Xia Lu smiled and said to Lin Feng that they would be good friends for life, but they were bitter and sad in their hearts, Lin Feng had no intention, but Xia Lu was affectionate. Xia Lu is the kind of person who can sacrifice herself, so she will definitely not let Lin Feng know her heart, and would rather endure the torment herself.

    When Lin Feng didn't have a girlfriend yet, even if Xia Lu knew that the two of them were impossible, she still had hopes and fantasies. But having a girlfriend is a completely different situation, the day I knew, Xia Lu locked herself in the room, didn't eat or drink, let herself be uncomfortable, and all her emotions suddenly exploded at that moment. Xia Lu thought that her tears would burst, but she didn't expect that not a single tear would fall, but her heart hurt to the extreme.

    Xia Lu told herself that she had to keep her distance from Lin Feng, he was someone else's boyfriend now, and he couldn't spend as much time with him as before, and he couldn't have unrealistic illusions about him anymore.

    Xia Lu began to endure not to contact Lin Feng, when she had something good to share with Lin Feng, she still hesitated when she was about to press the send button, and the excitement she had before was gone. Lin Feng, who is willing to listen to himself, now has to take care of another girl, he can't be greedy, and if he likes someone, he must let him pursue his own happiness.

    Xia Lu reminded herself every day to give up early and be decisive, as if Lin Feng had never appeared. However, it is so difficult to give up, because it is reluctant, so it is much more difficult to give up than to insist on selling bright. Giving up is not out of the heart, but there are too many last resorts.

    Endure the heart of missing, restrain the heart of liking, on this road, Xia Lu may have to walk for a long, long time, some feel sorry for her, but there is no way to help her. One day, she will finally get out of this predicament, no longer hesitate, no longer hesitate, no longer suffer, no longer force herself to give up, but let go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is a kind of love, with teardrops, but it is very poignant, and it is called giving up!

    Is giving up really another kind of love? Is giving up really another kind of happiness? To be exact, giving up is another way of possession!

    I quit in embarrassment, this is not great, but because between letting go and not letting go, I understand that feelings can't be forced, and they can't come reluctantly, even if I hold on to it, what is it that I grasp? It's a scar, it's pain! Hold your hands tight, there's nothing in them, let go of your hands, all I have is everything.

    The most painful thing is the period between letting go and not letting go. If you really make up your mind to give up, on the contrary, there will be a sense of relief. Since then, pain and love have been buried deep in my heart.

    Life is like this, there will inevitably be pain, it is inevitable that there will be injuries, whether I have ever grabbed or gone away, those things cannot leave me, although some things can not be looked back, some memories can not be sorted out, and some people can only be buried forever.

    Falling in love with someone is a very troublesome thing, especially if you unconsciously give up a lot of things for her and do a lot of things for her. And when she insists on something and refuses to give up, then you are going into a hell, very bitter and bitter. Especially in the end, she said that it was you who was wrong, and you brought it all on yourself.

    A person can fall in love with many people in his life, and when you get the happiness that truly belongs to you, you will understand that the previous renunciation is actually a kind of wealth, and giving up allows you to learn to better grasp and cherish. Not because you get what you want, but because you're living for yourself, you have to learn to give up.

    Giving up is an art, it is not for you to blindly escape, but to understand that it is better to give up than to maintain pain! Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back. Bury yesterday in your heart and make the best memories.

    Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable! To love someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, to make that feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, let it go!

    Giving up is not another kind of beauty!

    A touch of the morning sun and clouds dissipated, Fuqin complained melodiously, through the sky, who knows that even if it is ruthless, there are many things, and it is always understood after experiencing it. For example, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with.

    Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

    Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back. Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable! This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way. I once said I loved you, and I still love you today.

    It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. As he loves the fire of the wilderness, he loves it, but he cannot return with it.

    Asking what the love of the world is, it is called life and death ......

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Bring your heart down and bear the heartache yourself. In fact, it is very reluctant... Even if he is reluctant and can't force it, he doesn't need you if he loves you.

    of reluctance, himself.

    I can't bear you.

    Left.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten. No matter how much you love, there will be a day when you will go away. No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when you wake up. What should be given up will never be kept, and what should be cherished will never be let go.

    Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you know how to protect yourself and repentance; After rushing forward stupidly, I know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. In the process of gaining and losing, we slowly come to know ourselves.

    In fact, life doesn't need such meaningless attachments, and we really don't have anything that we can't give up. Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you!

    Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Learn to give up so that each other can have an easier start. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go, pack up and keep going!

    Let them pass away with the wind of memory, you will find another side of the sky, you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life, and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander around the door anymore or hit your head and bleed until you wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is nothing wrong with love, it is only us who is wrong, because we demand too much from love, too perfect, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, because everyone has the right to love and the right to be loved! If you really look at this love, go on bravely, you will find that life is so beautiful with love, because when you love someone, whether you are worried about him or miss him, it is a very good thing in the world! However, if you don't love, or this relationship has no result, then you have to give up decisively, because giving up is also a kind of beauty, if you don't give up your life, there may be only one possibility, that is, pain, if you let go, your life is 10,000 possibilities, I believe you will understand!

    Your life is in your own hands. What do you think?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, Qi Xuling When you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    Gao Qi. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover, the honorary hand always knows you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it really requires both parties to be careful.

    Patience. Careful management can be maintained.

    When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

    Understanding, Ridge Rock Attendant Understanding, and Trust.

    These three factors are indispensable for a cherry blossom, is the essence of Zaoling in all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have a long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely come true.

    Here's a little trick:

    If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

    When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    In fact, the most precious and important things in the world, that is, one's own family affection, one's own feelings and heart, one's own life and health, one's own happiness and joy, one's own life and career, one's own personality and dignity, it can also be said that the five kinds of people that should be cherished, namely parents, siblings, friends, lovers, and oneself, these are the most precious things and the most cherished things in their own lives, which cannot be lost.

    Because only one's own family affection is eternal love, it is a love that cannot be let go, it is a love that blood is thicker than water, and only family affection is eternal love.

    In the world, only one's own feelings are one's own things, nothing can be lowered, and only oneself is the most real.

    In the first judgment of a person, life is precious, health is the capital, as long as you cherish yourself and cherish life, it is the most precious.

    As long as we face life with an optimistic attitude, happiness will be everywhere, happiness is a feeling, happiness is a wisp of floral fragrance, when the flower blooms in the depths of the soul, as long as the breeze blows gently, the chaos can exude a leisurely, intoxicating fragrance.

    Life and career is the ideal we pursue and the goal of struggle, one thing, if you figure it out, it is heaven, if you can't figure it out, it is hell, since you live, you must live well. If you know how to live, if you can enjoy yourself in a world where colors, sounds, lights, scents, and beautiful scenery are always available, life will become an endless journey of fun.

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

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