Am I going to give up? But I really don t want to give up

I understand your mood very well, I hope you will get better slowly, I think you should find her, find a quiet corner to talk about you and her, you have to express your love, why don't you say it if you like people?? Crush? It's out of fashion now!!

You have to be bold and brave to express yourself!! Don't be afraid to fail, if you do fail, it's better than you are now! Don't trust your ears, trust your own heart!

If I were you, I wouldn't give up so easily! Maybe she's testing you!! What do you think?

I watched the show I guess I guess I guess yesterday.

There was a couple inside.

The guy has been pursuing the girl for more than 2 years.

In the end, the girl was moved and accepted.

So, I think you stick with it.

It will definitely move her.

-It doesn't matter if you have any non-dividing thoughts, just chase a word...

All I know is that you are genuinely infatuated with her She has already shown her rejection You should respect her How can you love someone in a short period of time?

Don't give up. Maybe she's testing you?

Didn't you confess to him?

In my experience, maybe she's already had other boys!

At least you can't give up until the truth is revealed, it's so boring. Have a chance to ask, if it is really the situation that her classmates say, she will need to be taken care of, and you don't keep saying that you love her. Hold on!

May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Brother, I know you don't want to give up.

But put it on, from your description.

I don't think she takes you seriously at all.

You're 4 years older. Just in love? I graduated right away and engaged in p....Don't try the love that will leave soon. Hurt others and hurt yourself. Unless you are absolutely sure, you can no longer be absolutely sure that this love can stand the test. Good luck.

What you don't get is the best.

If you love her. You have to fight for it. Go find her. Show your heart!

It is estimated that it is a girl's trick to get away with it. , brother, be careful...

This mindset may be due to the fact that the other person is useful to them in some way, or has a special meaning or emotional dependence on them. For example:

1.Emotional dependence: It may be because of factors such as time together, experience and emotional experience, which cause the other party to have a very special emotional meaning in their own life, even if they don't like each other, they are not willing to lose these emotional dependence.

In this case, you need to slowly adjust your emotional state and re-examine the value and meaning of the other person.

2.Profit factor: It may be because the other party is beneficial to you in some aspects, such as financial, social, etc. In this case, you need to think rationally about the value and meaning of the other party, and whether you really need to rely on the other party.

3.Psychological factors: It may be because in some cases, one's emotions are affected by the other person, so there is a feeling that is difficult to let go. In this case, you need to focus on self-regulation and find more support and help.

In short, if you obviously don't like the other person, but you are reluctant to leave the other person, you need to think carefully about the reasons, understand your needs and desires, and seek help and support from a professional psychological counselor to help you deal with emotional problems and further develop healthy interpersonal relationships.

Then wait, of course I don't want to give up, although I have such thoughts in my heart, but in the end I am still reluctant, what can I do?

Then wait a little longer

Last year, a friend of mine had such an experience, she was married but not unmarried, and the husband and wife were occasionally in different places because of their work.

At home, I still live with my parents, and sometimes the conflict is more obvious, but because the relationship between the two people is better, there is no major contradiction.

Just last year, probably because I felt more independent after I came out to work, and then the conflict with my family became more and more obvious, so I wanted to separate from my husband.

But because she has children, and there are many such and such problems, the old man in the family is thinking about it on the one hand, and also looking for reasons from herself, and finally she decided to wait a little longer.

Don't want to make a regrettable decision on the spur of the moment.

Just this year, the relationship between the two gradually eased, and then changed from occasional long-distance to two people living in the same city.

The husband and wife worked outside together, left the original family, and the relationship was getting better and better, and she never mentioned separating from her husband again.

In fact, I learned a lot from her things, feelings are not impulsive, and marriage is not impulsive.

So don't be impulsive in the face of any feelings, as long as you are reluctant in your heart, don't let yourself make a decision right away.

Give yourself a certain amount of time to find a way to mitigate the situation, and if the final result of your efforts still disagrees with you, it's not too late to make a decision.

A lot of times, in fact, we are just a spur of the brain, and we don't really want to cause the result of separation, give each other a little more time, everyone calms down, and finds a solution, many things are actually not as difficult as imagined.

What if you ask me? I think you're going to wait. If you are reluctant, why are you in such a hurry to make a decision? Although Zen talks about emotional matters cannot be forced, you can go with the flow, so treat them with a normal heart and don't rush to make a decision.