What does it feel like to like someone who can t be together, and what should you do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A feeling that no matter how much you give, you will end up in vain and you can't see hope. The way is to forget about this person, go to the event, and see the world farther afield.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It feels very hard, I look at him every day and I want to say those three words to him, but I can never say it, you know that you are not worthy of him, he is as bright as the North Star, and I am just a grain of countless dust in the universe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Like a love without an ending, the road is destined to have no end, groping in the dark and getting more and more lost, stumbling without direction, and not seeing tomorrow, too desperate. In fact, people who don't belong to themselves are also bitter fruits, and no matter how much they pay for their feelings without a future, it is in vain. There is never right or wrong in the relationship, only worthwhile and not worthy, but there is more hard work than sweetness, and it is difficult for people to believe that it is worth it when happiness is far away, and there are endless hurts and grievances.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's very uncomfortable, knowing that it is impossible, but reluctant to let go. should try to forget her, hide your likes, and silently guard her as your friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I was very entangled in my heart and was reluctant to give up, but I knew that it was impossible, so I could only force myself to try my best to forget.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is very helpless to like a person who can't be together, both like it, but can't be together, and the heart is very entangled, in this case, it should be broken.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The twisted melon is not sweet, since he doesn't like you, let it go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I am very helpless and troubled in my heart, first of all, I should keep confidence in myself and believe that I will be able to catch up with such a person. The second is to find a way to understand the person, his living habits, interests and hobbies.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It feels very painful, because I know that it is impossible for two people to be together, but I just can't control myself to like him, and I know that I can't do it, which is very unhappy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ask for it, but you can't get it. Further disqualified, reluctant to take a step back, no identity to ask about his life. You can only look for other targets and divert your attention.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's very tiring, I know that it's impossible to be together, but I still can't change the habit of liking him, either I don't need time, or I don't need another relationship to forget.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is it like to like someone who can't possibly be together? Further disqualified, reluctant to take a step back, no identity to ask about his life, jealousy is not justified, that's it!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That feeling is really bad, I like it badly, but I know the ending very well in my heart, but I can't let it go, and I struggle every day whether I want to like him or not, but I can't let it go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I like the boy at the back table in junior high school, although more than ten years have passed, although I have talked about a few boyfriends later, there is no boy like him who has always been remembered, he is always in the depths of my heart, I will turn him out from time to time, and think about it carefully.

    It's ridiculous to say that I didn't talk to him very often in junior high school, and his grades were so good that I wouldn't even think to ask him questions, so there was zero communication between us, and there was no spark of love.

    When I was silently in unrequited love, I was stupid and awkward, and when he sent me a message inviting me to a class reunion, I was so happy, and then I pretended to reply with an "oh" word, and later...I didn't know most of my classmates well, so I still didn't go to the party.

    After going to high school, his grades have always been very good, in the best high school in the city, the best class, and my grades are mediocre, only in the city's ordinary high school, three years of high school, although he is not in the same school, but during the holidays, he will see if his QQ avatar is **, whether he is dynamic and laughing, pay close attention to the news of their school, sports meetings, parties, etc., and then find clues about him.

    Time flies, and in the blink of an eye we all graduated from college and are both working, in different cities, in different fields. Now we are just an avatar lying in each other's WeChat friend circle, and I will occasionally post work updates, while he has basically never posted any updates in the past two years.

    But after so many years, I still think of him from time to time, and even meet someone who looks similar to him, and I will have a moment of trance Maybe it is because of his excellent academic performance, average appearance, great sports, artistic cells, and a good personality, so I felt that he was perfect when I was young, and I also regarded him as a template for "ideal boyfriend". If you really want to forget, then you might as well meet again, have a profound imitation of the mountain Han exchange, when you find that the concept and personality of the two people are not the same, maybe you will let go of this so-called "obsession".

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Two people love each other, but for various reasons, they have to let go, and they can only watch each other be someone else's bride and groom.

    It's painful to really like someone you shouldn't like. Because I really like it, I know that it is impossible to be together because I am not the same kind of person, but I will still accompany and like it silently. Even if you look at him more in class every day, you have nothing to talk to him, even if it's an embarrassing language.

    Because I really like it, I am afraid of losing, so I choose to be silent and cherish the time together even more.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's sad, lost, and unwilling.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you fall in love with someone, you can never be together. Please don't be upset, don't pester him, don't hurt him. No matter how much you miss it, how reluctant you are.

    You see, to love someone is not to possess him, but to fulfill him. There will always be someone who will come to you across thousands of mountains and rivers to make you believe in love again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't feel anything, I like whoever I want to like, I just like it, that's it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It feels very bad, there is no way, it is a very lost feeling.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's a sad thing. But fate can't help it. Only I want to open it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I can't see the future, and I don't know what I'm holding onto.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A person, in a lifetime, will always have such a profound emotional experience, unforgettable, unrelenting, unspeakable, unloving, bitter lovesickness, but there is nothing to be done, can only let a deeply loved heart, silently bear, miss, suffer.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First, I looked through each other's space countless times over and over again, but I didn't dare to leave a trace. When I can't see each other, I always remind myself that we are impossible, and when I see him, I forget everything.

    Second, like a moth to a fire, knowing that there is no desired ending or unreserved love. I can't help but make a mistake, and all my heart is sad and uncomfortable. It's heartache, it's sadness, I want to cry, I feel helpless, I really want to be with each other.

    More and more unable to restrain it, almost to the end, but not to the end, impossible but not dead.

    Third, how bitter it is to love someone, only you know best. It's like drinking a cup of unsweetened coffee, which is hard to swallow. I'd rather not know each other if I could, because then I wouldn't be delusional.

    Third, I don't dare to chat with each other, so I can only look at the battle record of the king to see what time the other party sleeps. I knew I would be poisoned, but I was still addicted. It's like a gambler, who knows that the odds of winning are slim, but still wants to give it a try in case he wins.

    Fourth, reason tells me that I am wrong, and sensibility makes me stubborn and wrong. What I desire is out of reach. It's like being only one point away from the undergraduate line, it's still impossible to be together after all, maybe it's the so-called fate without a part.

    Fifth, I insisted on being a friend and then my friend drifted apart. I want to give up countless times, but I still overthrow myself again and again because of love, thinking that it doesn't matter if it doesn't work out, it's good to love, although it is myself who suffers in the end.

    Sixth, sometimes I have to wait until midnight for the other party's reply, and I am very tired at work every day, but in order to chat with the other party, I continue to stay up late at night, knowing that in the early morning, and later, the other party left, and the habit of staying up late can never be changed. I thought about giving up 10,000 times, but the real giving up was quiet, and the fanfare was a bluff.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's really very sad to like someone who can't be together. When I say this, most people will think of some scenes after the rain at night, which must be in the alleys and streets, looking at each other's text messages alone, and then sighing.

    It's not that he doesn't have the courage, but he knows that he can't do it. There is no way, it's not that there are tigers blocking the road, but there is no road at all. People are on the mountain, you are by the lake, although the pool scenery is beautiful, the beauty is meaningless.

    I have to describe it, it's probably separated by a river, this side of the river is lonely, the other side of the river is fiery red, you find that you are not a lamp, or even a moth, if you want to put out the fire, you also have a vigorous opportunity.

    The more pretentious, the more comfortable. To put it bluntly, you think about him and yourself, but what you want most is for him to look at your loneliness across the river. This is understandable, you always want him to know your suffering, but also know your helplessness.

    In order to meet one day, under the osmanthus tree, beside the side of the road, at the corner, you will show him so many years of suffering.

    You hug your head and cry, but in most realities, you don't have this opportunity, you just watch him get married and have children, and post ** in the circle of friends, that's all.

    Someone else's vigor will always be someone else's. You think, this is the love I used to have, whether it's love, whether it's love, or God, if you can't be together, just bless you.

    People are actually very good at pitying themselves, thinking of themselves as small, becoming a small person, walking on a long road, seeing the glory of the tower in the distance, hearing some lights and people's voices, making a lot of noise, and having nothing to do with themselves, at this moment, it is a compromise, but also self-comfort, and the heart will feel better.

    People are the best at pitying themselves, giving birth to a kind of tragic beauty, so as to comfort themselves, which is also the reason why people are not paranoid. I have to say, this kind of thing is really not very beautiful, and it is not great, because it is the story of the ants and the sun and the moon, and it is the story of the poor man, and it is also the story of the helpless.

    This is the end of fate, not in the timing, but in the pattern. Yes, that's right, some people just can't, it's okay to talk about it, it's even worse to talk about it, it's just a drama of self-deception, this moment is a moment of joy, you have to think about the next moment of parting, this kind of thing is not very pleasant anyway. But, what can I do, after all, I like it very much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love, there is always no eternal definition, because everyone's experience and perception of love are different, love is very beautiful, but there are times when it fades, like fireworks only leave a short period of beauty, happiness is not easy, should be cherished more, do not waste time, only understand the same love needs to be tolerated.

    I can't love it, I feel sad and like it when I think about it, but when it comes to love at first sight, I laugh and laugh, because I don't believe in these at all. I didn't have this personal experience until it actually happened to me. I remember that in the second year of high school, I met the first person in my life who made me blush and heartbeat, and I couldn't speak, I still think it's funny, and it's funny to say that I really didn't see this person in this year of high school, just because this person is like a junior high school classmate of mine, I don't know why I have an inexplicable liking for him.

    He is really like the hero in **, he is a good learner, but his personality is not as cold as the hero in **, but he is a comic image. It's just out of control.

    I like it, it's just strange to be chasing him, and I can find him at a glance in the crowd. Maybe it's because he's tall. At that time, there was a rope skipping competition for the whole school, and every class had to go to the playground to compete, and I found him in this way, but I didn't dare to say a word to him.

    It's just that I've been chasing him with my eyes.

    I like it, but I don't dare to say that's it, I just follow his pace with my eyes, I don't dare at all, I know that the gap with him may be the inferiority complex at that time, the gap between the top student and the scumbag. He was number one in every exam, and I was the one to look for from the bottom up. In order to keep up with him, I took a shortcut to the art exam, and finally found that I had lost him.

    Still haven't been able to tell him I like you. If I had been given another chance, I wouldn't have said it. This is who I was then, and I am much braver now.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Falling in love with someone is a mystical and free experience, and many times falling in love with an impossible person is a crush.

    Sometimes silently.

    Wait for him to look back, be it a smile, a text message, or anything related to the topic.

    Sometimes I torture myself silently, thinking that the world related to him and others is beautiful and pure, and I can't disturb and shouldn't appear.

    No matter what the experience is, love is freedom, you can have that experience, and you have to get it.

    Some people can sublimate, look at others and others in the distance, will bless, and then self-improvement, become a better version of themselves.

    Some people may give up on themselves, slowly watching each other get better and better, and they seem to be less and less suitable.

    In any case, it is happiness to be able to get it, and there are many small blessings to not get it.

    Be the original self, a better self, and if you can disclose your love one day, you can also deserve this kind of love

    Wishing you happiness!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I feel hopeless but I can't control the heart I have been missing, tormented and tortured.

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