I have a crush on a guy, but his conditions are a thousand times better than mine, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The conditions don't matter, the important thing is how he feels about you, confess, see what his attitude is, if you are together, try not to spend his money, or it is impossible to make him think that you are a gold worshipper, if he refuses, whether to continue to love or give up, you choose

    -Hope!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, you have to be confident. Boys like confident girls. Find a friend and ask him out to play.。。 If he likes you, he will make a date with you next time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all you need to know

    You can start as friends.

    I used to have a crush on a guy too, but we knew each other's names.

    Later we were in the cafeteria, but he called me by name.

    After that, I took a chance to talk to him.

    Because we were out training together in the arts.

    But I heard from my friends that he likes me too, and he comes to see me every day.

    He's also very good in every way.

    As a result, I have low self-esteem, and I refused to go out when he asked me out.

    Now that I think about it, I really regret it, because I don't think I deserve him, and I didn't say I like him until the end.

    Finally, after the college entrance examination, he went to the United Kingdom.

    He is the regret of my life.

    So, I hope you can cherish it, be proactive, and at least you won't regret it, no matter what the outcome is.

    I don't want you to be a second me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't have low self-esteem, I'm the same as you, and the boy I have a crush on is better than me. When I started to like him, I went after him (because I'm a man of action). Later, I didn't know why.,Stopped pursuing him.、Maybe I found out that the girl had to be a little more reserved.、But then he didn't pay attention to me.。

    So once you decide to chase it, don't give up halfway. Otherwise, it will be like me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really like it, then take the initiative, maybe you think his conditions are much better than yours, but maybe he still thinks your conditions are also good, he likes your type, no matter what the ending is, it is recommended to try, and miracles will always appear.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When his conditions are so good, one is to choose to give up, and the other is to see clearly whether he is really a thousand times better than himself, maybe he is not as good as he thought.

    Excuse me, are you going to school, if you are going to school, then it is a thousand times better that is an illusion.

    If not, it's already work, so forget it. I don't think I can rely on this kind of man.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ahh!!h

    You're underestimating yourself too much.

    You have a thousand times more tenderness than he has.

    Your love quotient is a thousand times higher than his.

    The fire of your love is ten thousand times hotter than his.

    There's really nothing you can do.

    You can only show your charm.

    Pay attention to him and help him secretly.

    As long as you pay attention, there is a place (to start, haha) to help.

    It's worth it for your crush.

    Also willingly.

    Show off your innocent face.

    Fade into his eyes.

    Delicate posture.

    Silently funny.

    Inadvertent sight.

    There is a chance to get close to him.

    There's no chance to create an opportunity to get close to him.

    If so, step by step.

    We look forward to hearing from you.

    Continue to send it after the praise, haha.

    Why worry about it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As long as he likes you, he doesn't have to think about it that much. If he doesn't like you, it's useless to think about it too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Confess, don't leave regrets, if he doesn't like it, give up completely, good luck.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's simple, go buy two-color balls, maybe you can get 1000 500w after you get it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone has the right to love, love can't be measured by everything in money, what if the conditions are good, as long as 2 people love each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you like it, you have to say it、Who knows what will happen tomorrow。 lest you regret it later

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay, if you love him, you have to say it out loud, love is not high or low.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Improve your abilities, cultivate yourself, let him notice you...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just ask one question! How beautiful are you among the girls around him?

    It doesn't matter if the conditions are good, as long as you are beautiful, show some temperament that other girls don't have! Just charm him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't feel inferior. Believe that the girl who can do it is the best!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    G confessed to him. Then go for it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Study hard, and he will be yours.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello: You have to find a way to know if he likes you or not, and if he likes you too, then you will be happy, there are no conditions for love!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Boys like cheerful, lively, little girls. What if you have money, you can't study well. Having money is given by your parents, not by yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as you can attract him, that's fine, what conditions are you talking about?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to get his attention.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After understanding the other person's preferences first, care about her. Invite her to dinner and sing. then pretended to be crazy with wine, and took the opportunity to confess his sincerity.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Get to know her first and have more contact with her girlfriends. Then send something she likes, and find a chance to confess.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's very simple, don't chase blindly, get ripe first, and be good to her. When she thinks of you when something happens, let's do it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on whether the girl likes you or not, if.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't dare to look at you directly, my face is red when I see you, my heart beats faster, and I stutter when I speak.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone's different.

    For me, it was unintentional listening to what the woman wanted or needed from the conversation. Send the right thing at the right time, in the right place. These gifts don't have to be roses, chocolates, bags, boutiques.

    This gift will confirm that you care and listen to the other person. I once won a woman's heart by giving a pineapple bun.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't have experience in love, then start with some small things, so that the other party can face you up and know your heart. Girls are very sensitive, and they will also notice your concern for her in some small details and know your heart. The relationship between the two will be different when it starts slowly.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't confess directly People don't know you yet, or just treat you as a friend, if you suddenly confess, it will be very embarrassing, but you can't do anything, go and let him get familiar with you first, don't show too much understanding, girls generally notice it, otherwise she will feel uncomfortable.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There are different ways to pursue different girls, depending on what type of character the girl you want to pursue, first you have to get to know her through various ways, and wait until you are sure that you like this type of you and then take the way to pursue, if you still want to continue to pursue from her preferences, do it according to her preferences, don't be too anxious for quick success, chasing girls should take their time and move them slowly.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Boys who have no experience in love will generally tell their friends about the person they like, and they like to pretend to be forced in front of you, but most things will accommodate you, and he won't feel much if you don't behave well.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Appear frequently around him, don't show how interesting it is to her, and be far away from her. Do you want to get away with it?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Simple and rude, I don't know how to consider each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Direct confession, text message, QQ, you can tell him sincerely.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Chatting, going out, playing, holding hands, kissing and sleeping!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In my personal opinion, you have to get to know her, know what she is thinking, you have to think of her in front of her, you have to show this girl your positive energy! She will feel that you are a reliable person to be trusted for life.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The matter is complicated. It's possible that you're handsome, or it's possible that you're weird! It's possible that he likes you.

    But I can't express it. Looking at your face, just trying to express something? But it's hard to talk about.

    Or maybe it's him. I don't have any feelings for you. But.

    You've done a lot of things that are not good for her. Look at you and hope you can understand him. Like he apologized for not.

    CICC will either be able to come together. Either you can't get together. Among them, there are only those of Dayuan.

    You know it yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The matter is complicated. It's possible that he likes you. But I can't express it.

    Looking at your face, just trying to express something? But it's hard to talk about. Or maybe it's him.

    I don't have any feelings for you. But. You've done a lot of things that are not good for her.

    Look at you and hope you can understand him. Like he apologized for not. CICC will either be able to come together.

    Either you can't get together. Among them, there are only those of Dayuan. You know it yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    A girl doesn't speak, looks at your face. Girls often don't directly express what they think in their hearts, some are things that can only be understood and cannot be spoken, you have to judge her meaning by how you feel about girls, people are advanced animals with complex feelings, observe more, make judgments correctly, otherwise there will be a big joke, think about it!!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This girl looks at your face for several meanings, one is to appreciate you again, how can I get close to you if I think the young man is so handsome. One is that your words and actions attract her attention, either favorably or disdainfully. The other is to guess what the boy in front of him does, whether he has any ill will towards her, and whether he can harm her.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You never know that she wants to keep it like this for the rest of her life, girls like you, want to look at you quietly, it seems that she has seen the future of the two of you, with a warm home, lovely children, and the happiness of living in a big house!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think that this girl doesn't talk and looks at your face, it's possible that this girl likes you and is embarrassed to say it, so I just secretly look at you, what is your reaction, you are also watching her, this may be a crush! Maybe you might have offended her by saying something, so she didn't speak. I think that this girl doesn't talk and looks at your face, it's possible that this girl likes you and is embarrassed to say it, so I just secretly look at you, what is your reaction, you are also watching her, this may be a crush!

    Maybe you might have offended her by saying something, so she didn't speak.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    What does a girl mean by looking at you all the time without talking? In my opinion, she has a good impression of you, likes you, and wants to make friends with you, but she is introverted and afraid of being rejected by you, so she has not been able to take the initiative to approach you, but hopes that you will be aware and take the initiative to approach her. So, she can only look at your eyelids silently.

    If you also have a good impression of her and like her, you break the silence, take the initiative to approach her, talk to her, and slowly it will come naturally.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    This girl should have a good impression of you, and she doesn't know what to say, so she looks at it, because she doesn't know what to say, what to say, and wants to know the boy's attitude and thoughts, so she looks at the boy's face and doesn't speak.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If a girl has a crush on another person, she will not be able to directly pierce her heart. Instead, give some hints. inadvertently revealed, revealing her own true thoughts.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It is normal for students to focus on their studies and have feelings when they study together, but it should not affect their learning. It's still a long time to finish school first, and as long as the relationship is good, they will be together.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Do you need to figure out what this girl's expression is?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's a pleasure to associate with people you care about, after all, there aren't many people who can come into your life and heart. I like it for a while, and I don't like it for a while, because this relationship is not very stable, which makes people feel like they are suffering from gains and losses. If you are sure that this is the most cherished relationship in your life, then try to give the other person a sense of security so that it doesn't stop at the stage of liking it or not.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This girl, looking at your blush, he just has you in his heart, he is embarrassed to say that if you have a heart to heart with him, the boy should take the initiative to pick her up, that is, to propose to her to fall in love, this girl will agree immediately, if you don't like him, then needless to say.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Yes, it is recognized.

    Girls? If it is recognized, then there are multiple meanings that can be associated. If you don't know her, then there is only one possibility, that is, you look like someone she knows, and maybe 1 is interesting to you; May 2 doubts ; May 3 Sample revenge on you sooner or later Generally speaking, it may be 1 and 2 big points, the ratio of 50 40 10 Generally, it is normal for boys to provoke girls or something, they don't know how to express their emotions, but they want to attract her attention Rather than worrying about themselves, it is better to observe more and then simply ask clearly.

    The girl you pursue should first of all be what you like, since you like it, you are willing or involuntary to contact her, if the other party also has a good impression of you, she will also respond to you, so that you will not chase success. Pursuing a girl or falling in love is based on the equality of both parties, otherwise the relationship will not be strong.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Your face looks better! She may be shy, she may be interesting to you, but she is afraid to come to contact you! If she looks at you for a long time, or often looks at you, she may be used to you. If you like her, take the chance.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Crushing on someone is like singing a song that you like but can't sing well, humming when you like someone, saying two sentences when you're happy, and taking it out and listening to it when you're lonely.

    That's what a crush feels like. The time of any song will always end quietly in a melodious ending, maybe the ending is really something we can't change, but we must seize this short and beautiful time, I agree with your idea, greeting must be beaten, and the beginning must start ......(I'm sorry, but after all these sad tones, in fact, Lord Ben also missed a love, and it ended before it started).

    Well, back to the topic. There are actually many ways and methods to say hello, and your main problem is how to face and express yourself naturally in front of someone you like, don't let a girl know what you are going to say as soon as you open your mouth. The probability of success is almost zero (women are creatures who focus on the first sense), so it is important to start with a suitable, comfortable and good impression.

    Here's how it works: First, simply saying hello, is the easiest and stupidest way to do it, but in some cases, it's also the best way to use. It may give people a sense of abruptness, but it is not excluded that it is with some magical power that will make a girl fall in love with the way.

    The second is pick-up. To put it simply, it is to go up and start looking for topics directly, and keep chattering. This method is actually very divisive, if the girl belongs to the talkative type, it is okay to say, if it is the cold type, even if you tell the best joke you have heard in your life, she will feel bored.

    So in a comprehensive comparison, this kind of risk is greater, and if you are not an old driver, it is recommended that you do not try it).

    Third, create opportunities. The beginning of everyone's contact with people is inseparable from one point, which is the intersection of life, for example, she just happens to take things, which is very difficult. And you happened to be passing by, so you came quietly when you met you.

    Of course, many times this opportunity is not what it is waiting for. When you're older, you'll need to strike decisively. Of course, the possibility of opportunities cannot be ruled out, and you must always pay attention to him and believe that this is what you often do, this is not a shameless act, (like innocence) but your ability to detect opportunities.

    Back to the theme of this article, create opportunities. Of course, the former kind of waiting opportunity is also placed in this piece, which can be regarded as a kind of opportunity creation. The specific way is, (this is a friend's case, I hope you can refer to it) for example, you see her in the scene, causing trouble by yourself, and then, she can help you, and then she helps you, and take this opportunity to get close to her in a way of repayment, which is simply the perfect way.

    It's very dark, hahahaha).

    The beginning of all love is rarely love at first sight, and love and dislove sometimes depend on your efforts, which is what the so-called man-made means.

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