I want to get a divorce, but how can I tell my husband

Marriage and divorce are two different choices in life, and when some people choose to get married, there will also be some people who choose to divorce for various reasons. It is not the original intention of two people to go on the road of divorce, and everyone is looking forward to getting married and wants to spend this life with each other. Two people may have misunderstandings about each other because of some difficulties in life, and sometimes it is easy to go down the road of divorce.

Often, sometimes one party wants to divorce, but it is common for one party to be unwilling to divorce. So how can the husband get it back if he wants to divorce very resolutely? Let's follow me to see what the solution is.

1. Find out why your husband wants to divorce Marriage is actually a practice, many people's married life is a piece of chicken feathers, why do some people's marriages look that...

Marriage is a major event in life, divorce is the same, you have to consider whether there is a good reason not to live anymore, or you can solve the problem through some methods, for example, you can talk openly and honestly about your thoughts, two people together, it is difficult to avoid friction, the important thing is to communicate more, understand more, and tolerate more, if you consider the consequences of the divorce, then show him that the important thing is to express your mature ideas to him to know, calm down and let him understand, if he accepts, You break up peacefully, and if he wants to redeem and is willing to put in the effort, then you can wait for a while before deciding, and the most important thing is to pursue your own happiness.

In fact, every family is the same, they are all noisy, and it is strange not to quarrel, and it is too hasty to divorce just because of this! You should think carefully and find an opportunity to talk.

For the sake of your future path In fact, it will not be easy after divorce, even if you remarry and quarrel.

Repeated, because people have feelings and their own ideas, it is inevitable that there will be times when two people live together.

You should take a step back, understand him, and speak your own thoughts from it, so that you2 can understand the other person's struggle.

If you feel that it is not good to open your mouth, write him a letter or something, don't just say it directly, but it is still recommended to think about it, it is not easy for two people to come together, since marrying him at the beginning, it means that he still has merit, think more about each other. Otherwise, let's separate for a while and see how everyone reacts.

If you say he doesn't listen, then why do you say it? If you really want to say that he is not the one who should say him when he is in a better mood, he will not care about you, and he will listen to it, divorce is not child's play! If you are unhappy in your marriage, you should try to find out the reason instead of thinking about divorce when you are unhappy!

Be a wise woman, as long as he doesn't betray you, everything else is negotiable

You just say"Because of the quarrels every day, you are machismo, you don't listen to what you say, I really can't get by, I want to get a divorce"Just pull it, as long as you think it clearly for yourself, if it's really good for you to divorce, leave! Strive for happiness for yourself, other people always have to accept it, and if you accept it, you will have nothing to pull.

Say it plainly, tell him that you are not happy, you say it well, and he will understand.

You can first learn to adapt to each other, marriage is not easy, divorce is also very difficult, why not think more from the other party's point of view.

Let's talk about it first, and then spend some time apart to see if you're getting used to it without each other.

Think about it carefully, and after that, choose the life you want in your heart. Prudence is for, no regrets, and choosing the life you yearn for is for your own heart.

If you really don't want to live with him, just say it directly.

Don't divorce easily, you can separate for a period of time first! See how each other performs!

Landlord: Husband (coquettish).

Husband: What's the matter, there's p hurry up!

Landlord: Husband, I want to divorce you (coquettishly).

Husband: Grass, why don't you say it sooner, leave!

Her husband opened the clothes cabinet, put on the clothes and come out, I'm going to get a divorce, don't be sneaky (very gentle).

Got a baby? If both of them think about the child, maybe they will change.

If you don't have a local talk, you should hurry up and leave.

You try to be silent for a few days.

Treat him as if there was no him. See how he reacts.

Two people should be calm, not quarrelsome, and stabilize the emotions of the other half. Tell him the reason for the divorce, don't make him feel suspicious, let him understand it clearly and leave naturally. It is understandable that you want to divorce, and husband and wife should not talk about divorce lightly.

Men want to live happily after marriage, so if you can't do it, discuss it with your husband, and depending on his attitude, you don't file for divorce first.

Divorce is not a trivial matter, and both parties should calm down for a while first. His absence is not necessarily a bad thing; If you want to talk, don't talk about it at home. It is advisable to make an appointment at a restaurant or café, as it is a public place and both parties will control their emotions.

It can be noisy at home; It is better not to divorce if you can, and you should be even more cautious if you have children.

Divorce needs to be cautious

Marriage counsellors often warn the parties to the marriage that "marriage is not just a matter between two people", and that the families of both parties will also affect the stability of the marital relationship. As for whether the marriage should continue to be maintained, it is more important to consider how happy your marriage is, and whether this marriage can bring happiness to the rest of your life.

One of the most basic criteria is whether your personality is complete in this marriage, and if not, in my counseling, I will generally advise the parties to choose divorce, and the sooner the better. The longer it drags on, the personality will be numb, and when the other party gets tired of it and wants to divorce, the person's life will be ruined.

I believe that two people are together because they are happy with each other, and if everyone is unhappy together, then separating may be a more responsible way to do it for the rest of their lives. Therefore, I personally am not against divorce.

But you're a little irresponsible on this issue. Didn't you see his parents before they got married? Why didn't you want to be clear at that time?

Married because you are in love with him. It is very worthless and unwise to leave the person you love and the person you have decided to entrust your life with just because of his parents. There is only one explanation that can really be used for divorce - that is, you and him are no longer in love, and it is impossible for you to live together anymore.

It's definitely not that you can't live with his parents.

I'm sure you've talked to your husband about it. What was his reply? As a person who wants to give you happiness for the rest of your life, it is impossible for him to ignore and not care about you. Try to negotiate a solution with him, and he will definitely take care of your feelings.

If he prefers to be a turtle with a shrunken head and let you fight with his parents, then he will not care much about you. Weigh yourself if you have considered your husband's situation. If you still think that he can't give you happiness, then divorce can also be included in the options.

In any case, I hope you think it through, give yourself and your partner more time to think.

In our country, there are two ways to get divorced, one is registered divorce and the other is litigation divorce.

1. In accordance with the provisions of Article 31 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, a man and a woman who divorce voluntarily and who have made appropriate arrangements for the maintenance of their children and the division of property may register their divorce at the marriage registration office without the need for litigation. When registering a divorce, the following documents are to be provided:

1. Hukou booklet, ID card.

2. Marriage certificate.

3. The divorce agreement signed by both parties.

It is recommended that you first try to persuade him to register the divorce with him and try to resolve the divorce issue in a peaceful way. If he really doesn't want a divorce and you insist on leaving, then the only way to do it is to go through divorce proceedings.

2. Divorce proceedings. Divorce litigation refers to a lawsuit filed by one of the spouses with the people's court based on the statutory reasons for divorce, and the people's court makes a judgment on whether the marital relationship is maintained or not.

The formalities (process) of divorce proceedings are as follows:

1. Go to the people's court to file a lawsuit application with the court. Generally, they go to the case filing hall, and the case filing hall conducts a review, and for those who meet the requirements for case filing, they are given a case filing. If both of you do not live in the same place, you will have to file a lawsuit at the man's place of residence according to the principle of "plaintiff against defendant".

When filing for divorce proceedings, the following documents must be provided:

a. Petition for divorce (in triplicate).

b. Hukou booklet.

c. ID card (temporary ID card, household registration certificate, military officer certificate, non-commissioned officer certificate, military civilian cadre certificate, etc.).

d. Marriage certificate.

2. After the case filing hall reviews and meets the conditions for case filing, and the case is approved, the case filing court will issue a notice of case filing, and you will pay the litigation fee (50 yuan) with the case filing notice. The court formally accepted the case.

3. After accepting the case, the case filing division of the court will transfer the case to the civil division for trial.

4. After the civil division accepts the case, it issues a summons to the man, requiring him to appear in court at a certain time to respond to the lawsuit. At the same time, the court will also notify you to appear in court.

5. After both parties arrive in court, the court will mediate (this is a necessary procedure). There are 3 types of mediation outcomes:

a.If both parties are willing to maintain the marriage after mediation, you will withdraw the lawsuit and the marriage will continue to be valid.

b.After mediation, if he agrees to your divorce request and deals with the children and property issues, you will withdraw the lawsuit and both parties will go to the marriage registration office to register the divorce.

c.After mediation, you insist on a divorce and he does not agree, or if both parties agree but there is a dispute over the handling of the children and property issues. The court will hear and make a judgment.

6. The court makes a judgment to grant or disapprove the divorce through the ** trial.

The court takes whether the relationship between the parties has indeed broken down as a legal condition for a divorce. Article 32 of the Marriage Act provides for the following exemplary statutory grounds for granting a divorce:

a.bigamy or cohabitation of a spouse.

b. Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members.

c.Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse, and who do not change their ways.

d.Separated for 2 years due to emotional discord.

e.Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife.

1.I don't know when we became less intimate and our marriage was on the verge of breaking. I think you can clearly feel that the relationship between the two of us is not what it was when we first got married.

Divorce is a matter of time, it's just that you don't speak first. In order not to drag on like this purposelessly, I want to tell you, let's divorce, it's good for you and me. It won't drag each other down, we've been stumbling for so many years, it's better to get rid of it as soon as possible.

2.I know you don't love me anymore, just like I don't love you anymore because our moods have all changed, so much has happened. We can't treat each other the way we did when we got married.

Now I am very depressed every day, and I always wonder what would have happened if I hadn't gotten married, and would I have been happier than I am now? Maybe we weren't suitable at the time, so we were in a lot of pain for so many years before, so in order to end this pain as soon as possible, let's let it go. Only by letting go as soon as possible can you make yourself happier, and long-term pain is better than short-term pain.

3.For so many years, we gave up our happiness and chose to maintain this marriage, and now the child has grown up, he understands what he needs to do in the future, and there is no longer much need for us to give up too much for him, we can also divorce smoothly, I hope that after the divorce, you can have a better choice.

Divorce needs a reason, and your husband will not agree to it for no reason, whose specific reason is it, two people make it clear, divorce can not only consider themselves, the important thing is the children, divorce hurts the children a lot.

Therefore, it is not easy for two people to walk together, and cherish it.

Divorce itself is a matter of both parties, and it can also be said to be a family matter, so if you want to divorce your husband, you just need to tell him truthfully and clearly, and you unilaterally file for divorce, which means that there must be a problem in the family, is it your own or your husband's? If it's your own, you can ask for a divorce, if your husband agrees, then you can divorce peacefully, if it's your husband's problem, then you can ask why you want to divorce him? What's wrong with your husband?

You can't bear it, these are all things that can be explained, as long as the things are made clear, what procedures should be done.

Directly say that I don't love you anymore, break up, don't be a husband and wife just be a friend, in fact, marriage is a kind of responsibility, married to have a home, the two of them struggle with each other to be responsible for this destination, so as to create wealth and live a happy life, I don't want to be in charge of this family anymore, so I have to break up.