What will it be like for a man to go on like this? If you get married, will you be responsible for y

Give it up, such a man is not a good man, cowardly and incompetent, even if you are with him in the future, he will compare you with his first love, he promised to be with you, those bad habits will not be restrained a little, do you think you will be good to you.

It is advisable to leave, because your heart and feelings are not fully put into it yet!

3 years! This is not a very short period of time, if you have been indulging like this, it means that he is not strong-willed, and when he encounters any adversity in the future, he will also indulge himself and suffer you!

It is impossible for him to let go of his first love in his life, and if you marry him, your heart will remember his first love for the rest of your life, and you may be jealous when you mention his first love in the future, then everyone is not good.

He still likes his first love very much, if you have just come into contact, I advise you as a person who has come over to leave him, if you continue to be good with him like this, you will be very miserable in the future.

Marriage events need to be the right person.

Generally speaking, this person's character and essence should not be bad. It should be said that he himself has not yet come out of the emotional experience that he has worked hard to remember in the past. Although it will be difficult to get out, he should know that he must pass this level!

It's still growing, growing up with twists and turns. If you feel that this person is not bad, you might as well date for a while, whether you can really come together, it should be that he should have a clear understanding of his past, present and future, treat your feelings correctly, and have expectations and plans for your future, which is the basic premise. It's better to talk about marriage.

Isn't it the best and final basis for you to consider whether he is suitable to be a partner, whether he is responsible for your future, etc.?

Feelings are not easy to compare, after all, only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not.

Hello this netizen, I'll ask you a question. In real life, andNot all men are married without a sense of responsibility. However, there are also some men who have no sense of responsibility for their families after they get married, such as a certain star who is married, and as the wife of a high-achieving graduate of Columbia University, he also gave birth to three children, but he lacks a sense of responsibility for the family. Below, let's analyze the main reasons why men still don't have a sense of family responsibility after getting married:

One is not to seriously manage marriage. Marriage is a matter of two people, and only when both parties work together and manage the marriage together, can life be happy and happy. However, some men do not seriously manage their marriage after marriage, and do not want to pay for it, but they think that marriage is a shackle and locks their beating hearts.

This kind of reincarnation of men is unwilling to manage their marriage with their hearts, let alone to create a good married life with their hearts. Therefore, such a man has no sense of responsibility for the family after marriage.

The second is not to take responsibility and inaction in marriage。After marriage, the man is the pillar of the family. However, after some men get married, they do not take responsibility, do not act, and do not come out of anything.

However, even if the woman is responsible, he will only blame the other party regardless of whether it is right or wrong, and even only quarrel with the other party. In real life, the male owner of the family must be responsible, responsible, and good at doing good deeds in order to support the family, become the pillar of the family, and achieve a perfect marriage; At the same time, if you blame each other meaninglessly in family life, it will only accelerate the separation of feelings between the two parties. In fact, the reason for not taking responsibility and not acting is because there is no love in the heart and no sense of family responsibility, so they are unwilling to pay willingly for the family.

The third is the reluctance to communicate. As the saying goes, communication is the way to understand. The foundation of marriage is to understand more, communicate more, and communicate more.

Only by communicating and communicating more can husband and wife live in harmony with each other and their married life be harmonious. In real life, some men are reluctant to communicate and exchange with each other, and over time, the two sides will form a barrier, and a wall will be formed, so there will be a rift between the hearts. As time goes by, the contradictions between the two will become bigger and bigger, and the results can be imagined.

In fact, a man with a sense of family responsibility will not intensify the conflict, and communication is the best solution.

Fourth, the relationship is not single-minded. Single-mindedness is the cornerstone of a long-term marriage. Some men go to the end of their day before marriage.

Fourth, staining flowers and grass; After marriage, I still can't change this bad habit, I have a wife by my side, and I still think about other members of the opposite sex, and I have an affair with other members of the opposite sex. This Lazi-like man likes the outside world of flowers, so he will naturally stay away from her and be bored. In fact, this kind of man has long forgotten about his sense of family responsibility.

Review:In fact, men with a sense of family responsibility are basically similar after marriage, while men without family responsibility are different. I think that the cultivation of a sense of family responsibility is not achieved overnight, but is a natural embodiment of married life.

Being responsible and responsible is what a man should do after marriage. Some men do not have a sense of responsibility for their families after marriage, and they must find out more reasons from themselves and make serious corrections, so that their family and married life can be stable and far-reaching.

If you want him to become a group of people, then you should start from the following aspects, and I will talk to you below.

1. Communication. Before you fall in love, I think he is also a person who has no sense of responsibility, after all, there is no sense of responsibility after getting married, which is unbelievable, because I think that a man's step from naivety to maturity is to get married, in fact, after getting married, the pressure on the man will become very great, so he will take on the responsibility of the family.

But he still doesn't care so much about his family, so I think you should communicate with him, because communication is the best way to have a heart-to-heart dialogue between two people, and it is the best bridge to build a relationship between two people.

Hippocrates once said, "There are two things in the world that cure diseases, medicine and language." "So the ability to communicate allows you to better understand the other person.

So try to communicate with him and let him understand where he is and where he is.

2. Pressure. I think the biggest reason why a man has no sense of responsibility is that he doesn't feel the pressure of life and the pressure brought to him by his family, if it goes on like this, it will be very fatal, after all, if a person has no sense of responsibility, then this person will not have the motivation to move forward, if a person does not even have pressure, then his life will be boring.

So in the face of this situation, you should put the current situation of the family and the pressure it is under on him, let him feel the pressure that exists at the moment, and motivate him to move forward, I think this is the best way for him to become family-oriented. But put pressure on him while not using excessive language and not contradicting each other.

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This is a very fatal factor in the bridge, a married man still lives under the protection of his parents, such a man is completely insensitive to family pressure, and completely loses the ability to be financially independent.

This is a complex question that cannot be answered simply. First of all, it cannot be generalized that all men do not have a sense of family responsibility. Everyone's personality and way of dealing with the world is different, which also affects how they feel and behave in their family responsibilities.

Secondly, marriage is a complex interpersonal relationship, in which there are many factors that may affect a person's perception and attitude towards family responsibilities.

Regarding Wang Leehom's situation, we can't evaluate his morality and sense of responsibility based on ** reports and rumors. The marital relationship is private, and no one else can really understand the details and circumstances behind it except between husband and wife. Therefore, we cannot easily make judgments and accusations about other people's family life and life values.

Finally, the sense of family responsibility is not an innate quality, it needs to be gradually formed and strengthened through the accumulation of family education, social environment and life experience. Everyone is constantly learning and growing, and we should also respect the growth trajectory and efforts of others. First of all, it needs to be clear that not all men do not have a sense of family responsibility when they get married.

Some men take family responsibilities very seriously and take every role and responsibility in the family seriously. However, there are also some men who are still unaware of their family responsibilities after marriage, which may be due to their lack of maturity and self-discipline.

For a public figure like Leehom Wang, their behavior will not only affect themselves, but also the concepts and values of others. His actions are not representative of all men, nor can they be generalized.

For a person, a sense of responsibility needs to come from the heart and act from the truth, rather than being driven by external pressures. If a person does not have inner cognition, then there will be no real change even if they are persecuted. Therefore, for men, they need to be aware of their family responsibilities and take this rent responsibility seriously and deeply down.

At the same time, you also need to show your importance and sense of responsibility for your family through actions and words.

Men's way of thinking is different from that of women, and the secretion of a certain hormone is significantly less than that of women, so that they are more inclined to rationalize and profit when thinking about problems, people are selfish creatures, and most of the economy in the family he bears after marriage in the male dusty thinking, and the same amount of substitution is replaced by the ancient emperor's friendship and filial piety, and he is more and more negligent in emotional responsibility.

"It's really helpless for a woman to marry such a husband, so she can only treat her body in the way of others. ”

If the above reasons are excluded, it is true that he no longer takes marriage and family seriously, and when you need him - he ignores it, and when there is a problem at home - he chooses to escape and disappear. Although you and your husband disagree, it doesn't matter, you can run, three points of view are more important, if you are okay, communicate with him more. Everyone has their own independent ideas.

Think from the perspective of you and your original family. A man's sense of responsibility determines whether he will be happy in his married life or not. A person who has no sense of responsibility is usually confused and does not fight for the family at all.

So a woman can't marry such a man and enjoy a happy life.

He really doesn't take marriage and family seriously anymore. He doesn't care when you need him, and when the family is in trouble, he chooses to run away and disappear. If what you want is a responsible man and he's not what you want, you can choose to leave if you know he can't make changes in the future.

When a woman shows weakness, a man will realize that without his support, it is difficult to maintain a family and will not shirk his responsibilities. If a man is irresponsible in the eyes of the observer, at least he is not your cup of tea, you can give up and choose again, which can only make you change slowly, and if you can't rely on your own strength, try to get your mother-in-law to do something.

<> when he is happy, he can say some good things and promise him any request, but when he meets these requirements, the idea that he is happy first will make him unable to do it at all, they can also live together and maintain their marriage, children and family, he will not be careless to you because of his sense of responsibility, he will play the role of husband and father, although marriage has no temperature, it will not be so bad, getting married and starting a family means that the two of you have to face difficulties together.

Divorce. Because if a man is not responsible for the family, he will not be happy in the future, so you should divorce him.

Hello dear, sorry to hear this. Dear, how did you decide to marry this person at that time? Isn't his rhetoric confusing, your irresponsible man is very bad.

When I asked the question, I wanted to have a home.

I regretted my decision at that time.

In this case, I recommend pro or try to keep the man's heart.

Ask how to stay, he has no heart, and he doesn't care about his own children.

If he doesn't even care about his own children, then there is no need for such a man to continue to live with him.

Do you still love him.

Question: I don't love him anymore, and I don't know when I started to stop loving him.

Dear, I'm also very uncomfortable to see you like this, since I don't love it, it's better to let it go, this is also the ending we don't want to see, because the harm to the child is also quite great if you are separated.

Question: It was very good to me before I got married, and after I got married, I always cared about him, and then I found out that I was taking the initiative, and I gave up.

The relationship itself is to be paid by both parties, if he doesn't pay, you will be very tired, I understand the feelings of the pro.

Question: yes, now it's about thinking about the child, her mother is very good to me, if it weren't for his mother, we might have been separated a long time ago.

There's no way you can get your mom to help you win back your husband's heart.

Help me convince you.

I can't tell his mother when I ask questions, I used to help me talk to my son no matter what I said, but now no matter what I say, it will only excuse him.

Just now you said that her mother was very nice to you, and I thought he was very nice to you now.

I didn't expect to be with his son.