How can the father be silent, how can he get into his heart?

Fathers are very hard, they are under the pressure of work outside, and they also have to take on the responsibility of supporting the family, so some fathers are silent. We should try to understand our father, care about his work, ask him if he has encountered any difficulties in his work, and let him take the initiative to say what is in his heart. To spend more time with his father and accompany him to do what he likes, Wall takes him on a trip to relax himself, so that he can better enter his heart.

Fathers tend to be reticent because they have a lot of family burdens. If you want to enter your father's heart, the most important thing is that you have to become the child that your father wants to make him proud.

Then you have to make yourself more active and express your love for your father directly.

Most fathers are like this, and they have too many responsibilities for the sake of their families. There are too many burdens on his body, maybe you can help him share the hardships of life. Some family matters are discussed with him. Father's experience was always rich. That way he will have a lot to say.

1。Everyone has something in their heart that interests them.

Find his interest.

2。The pressure of life will make people not easy, and if it is not easy, it will be easy to be silent. Make him happy more.

I think it's good, my dad is like this, he may not say a word all day at home, and I don't like to talk to him, so I feel quite comfortable.

In the face of a father who is silent all day long, there will be infinite apprehension in his heart, it is estimated that because his father doesn't like it, he will treat himself like this, and secondly, he will feel that such a father is a strict father, and there is a lot less interaction between him and his father in life!

This kind of father is more reliable, unassuming, although he doesn't talk much, but when you encounter problems, he will give you a lot of particularly useful help, he is very strong.

Father's father is a taciturn person, in addition to silently cooking for the family, to express his love for his family, usually not smiling, at the dinner table, a large family is quietly picking up the rice, at this time there is a fart sound, and continuously, grandpa eats with a calm face, no one dares to laugh, the whole house is quiet, except for the sound of fart.

The experience should be not bad, it is said that father's love is like a mountain, and the father's love is not reflected in words, but in the actions he does.

Even if two people sit face to face, they don't have anything to say, and it feels like the other party is not around, and it's a little embarrassing.

There's no need to do this deliberately, father and son have been between him for so many years, and his father is taciturn, this is his character, it's hard to change, maybe it's a little unnatural, don't you say?

Do you want to close the distance between you because you feel that there is too little communication between you? Do you crave communication with your father? Maybe you can drink some wine with your father, take the opportunity to make friends with your father, or you can work with your father, if the language communication is not ideal, you can also use the form of words, although this is an ancient way of writing letters, but the letters can be kept for a long time, and it is also suitable for communicating with the older generation.

If he likes to read newspapers, you just go to the newspapers and find something to talk about.

Spend more time with him when you have time, that's all.

More practically, see what he lacks and buy him something to show filial piety.

He should know you like him......He didn't accept it, did he? ......In this case, you can only slowly get closer to him ......In the ...... to melt himStick with it ......Female chasing man next to wallpaper.

When he's hurt! Especially feelings! ...

Sincerity for sincerity, pay and return are proportional.

Be a quiet guardian and slowly make him feel that you are the most suitable partner for him.

It's good to be a smart and real woman, but don't remember to be smart.

Getting along with him slowly blends into his inner world.

A sensible man will make a rational judgment, and the so-called sanity is the truth. A sane man, it's hard for you to get into her heart. But once you have a place in his heart, then it is deeply ingrained.

Heart-to-heart. Spit on a stone and it will be wet at last. Do what you want to do most.

Don't deliberately let yourself do something? Because deliberate is sometimes a practice against one's will. At the same time, deliberateness is also a manifestation of hypocrisy.

He was sensible, she could tell. Once he sees your intentions, then he will be more or less suspicious of your sincerity. True love is an instinct.

Go with the feeling. If you have done a lot for him and paid a lot, but you still can't get into his heart, then you should let it go. Maybe she thinks you're not a good fit for him, or maybe he's really not a good fit for you.

In short, give up. Let others go and free yourself.

Be kind to him silently and be sensible!

Give up, or you'll come into my heart.

You don't necessarily get into his heart.

Finally, there is the possibility of the child itself. Prefer to communicate with mothers. Because children generally have more contact with their mothers.

After a longer period of communication with the mother, there may be less communication with the father. In general, it is usually the mother, not the father, who actively communicates with the child. Over time, it may lead to less and less communication between the father and the child.

In fact, fathers are such a character, this is also the nature of a man, although they are not good at talking, but they will always choose to love themselves silently.

Father's love is like a mountain, fathers are not as emotional as mothers, they are embarrassed to show their emotions, they will not say that they love you, but they can only reflect it in the details, so most fathers are silent.

Because most of them are more talkative, it is the girls who can let go, and the boys are more calm.

Many fathers are always silent in front of their children, because they are not good at expressing their feelings and only give practical actions.

That's because many fathers are relatively cold and macho, so some gentle words are unspeakable.

Because ordinary men are very serious, when they have something in their hearts, they are reluctant to say it, and they are always so taciturn.

Because the role of the traditional father has always been reticent, and the boys are not as talkative as the girls.

Sometimes psychological problems are more serious than physical problems, and it is very difficult for people who are addicted to alcohol and smoking to quit, and it may be difficult to really convince them of reasoning. Just because he can't talk doesn't mean he can't listen, take him out for a walk more, after dinner or whenever, and then talk casually, even if he doesn't communicate much"Hmmm"、"Ugh"It's always going to be said, which also shows that he's listening, so the main thing is that you say more yourself. Walking outside is easy to be attracted by external things, and it is good to divert attention.

In short, it is easy to think too much when you get older. You said that your father is silent, and you can see that you are in a melancholy mood, so you have to communicate, whether he says it or not, you have to enlighten him. It's easy to get overwhelmed by mental burdens.

Well, to sum it up, it's to talk to him more, take him out for a walk, and hope that your dad will become cheerful in the future (*

Console. Do a good job yourself to reassure your family.

In fact, quiet girls are generally very lonely. She craves friendship even more. Because she is quiet, she asks others to take the initiative to chat with her.

She would never take the initiative to find someone else. So when no one talks to her, she's the loneliest. Although she is superficially indifferent.

So such a girl is actually very good at making friends. As long as you touch it more, you can cook it. If you don't know her, she won't pay attention to you.

Cooked is the only criterion by which she feels safe!!

Slowly approach her! More manufacturing points are unexpected!

Find more fun together!

I think you should have a good conversation with your dad, but I don't know how old you are, if you are an adult, you can talk to your dad formally like a man, if not for anything else, just for your mom. You can talk to your dad and ask him to pay attention.

My dad is also such a character. But as I grew older, I learned more and more that my father's reticence has always been a kind of silent dedication and selfless love. Maybe your dad is the same, he looks cold on the surface, but he may love you in his heart behind your back, maybe he will cry secretly without you knowing, but you don't know ...

You wake them all up in the same way that your dad did 3 times, and seeing how they react is your solution.

Take the initiative to talk to Dad or write a letter!