Have to face the family that loves you and hurts you

First of all, you have to make it clear that they really love you, and there will be no one in this world who treats you so sincerely as they do. The generation gap is inevitable, but the words of the old man sometimes have to be listened to carefully, it is really beneficial, if you encounter a conflict, calm down first, perfunctory them for the time being, don't make them sad, and then think clearly for yourself, if you really feel that you are right, then insist, as long as you don't regret it in the future, no matter what, don't hurt them.

Loving you and hurting you just means that the way they love is wrong or that you don't agree with the way they love you, then you can only keep your distance as much as possible and have a certain amount of independent space, in order to try to dilute your contradictions, of course, it would be better if you could communicate and solve the problem.

It's sure to get grumpy, but you can find a way to get away from them, and it's not too far away, it's better not to live together.

I'm in this situation right now, it's annoying.

Which one loves you the most, the most considerate, knows you the most, and is most liked by your family, the person you can hurt the most, the person you can't hurt the most, do you feel guilty about him or do you feel like you want to make it up to him? I feel the most important, but it's not bad to listen to my family's advice; After all, your family loves you and won't harm you, they are all from the past, and they must have more experience than us, right? They will consider the sail erection very comprehensively.

To be honest, this question is very tangled, in fact, you should have the answer in your heart but you can't face it, it is recommended that you toss a coin, because you will have the answer in your heart at the moment when the coin is spinning, and you will expect it to be heads or tails. I hope Minyin can help you

Bless you!

If it were me, I would choose the one I love, and since I don't love it, don't force it. I can't hurt it, but for the sake of love, I still have to hurt it with all my heart. Because of the wrong step of the right code chain of the wrong step, sacrifice one, get what you really want to get it, and you won't regret it in the future...

Choose the one you really love, at least you won't regret it in the future, you didn't miss what you love, you will be happy together, the other one can't hurt, it's not quietly together, you can be a good friend, and you won't regret it for some reason.

If, the person you love also loves you, then you have to repent and be with him without hesitation. The hurt will always fade over time, and that person will find someone they really love. Late cover.

If "love" can hurt people, then? How do we explain and cherish love in the face of love? Love, which in itself is beautiful and sacred; There are many things, it is because of love, so we live a happier life, and the world will be better.

If loving and being loved is like a weighing rod, you love me, see what you go to the flat end! It is not love that hurts people, but human selfishness and lust and greed.

Let's give you an example. The family is afraid that your ideas are too radical and don't want you to take risks.

Love and friendship may be unpredictable, but family is definitely always there for you.

Adolescent boys and girls are like that.

But at least they won't lie to you and can be trusted to rely on.

Yes, but we have to think about them.

Love you and won't hurt you.

Dirty words hurt also don't mean unloved.

What about the character. When provoked.

But in short, the personalities that can scold you are already very extreme

If he really loves you, he won't say anything to hurt your family and you.

Hello, generally not, because a person who loves you cares about you very much, so he will try to cooperate with you, instead of scolding you, if it is like you described, then he doesn't love you very much!

No, what I hate the most is that others use dirty words on me, this man has already changed his ways.

No, it means that the man who loves you doesn't love you!

Death is just an escape from the problem and can only bring harm to your family. The key to the problem is to face it, and if you can't let it go, you have to do something that makes you feel happy and interesting.

If you choose someone who loves you deeply, you will be more comfortable. And choose one you love deeply, and you may have a hard time. Compare fairy tales to those who love deeply, and those who love themselves deeply are the same people.

The reality is brutal, depending on how you choose. The first consideration of happiness is whether the two of you will live happily, and the opinions of your family are just for reference, most of the time it is the two of you who live your life, not your family to marry you instead.

I would politely refuse, I had to be with the person I loved.

If you don't like it, let it go, and the more you drag, the more it hurts.

You don't like her, and you have to be with her, which hurts her even more.

You're a boy, right, you like someone very much, why wouldn't your family agree?

If you don't have a marriage blessed by your family, you should give up.

You left her unhappy.

It's not that I don't love at all, it's that I haven't raised my love for you to the level of family affection.

I don't think so, maybe there is some misunderstanding between you, it's natural for him to be good to her family, in fact, you should also be good to her family, if there is, it's good to be good not to send carbon in the snow, and don't fall into the well, you can't stop her from being nice to her family.

It's not about giving up, ......If you do what she does to her family, you won't feel like she's giving up on you Think about what she has to do for you without any obligation Do self-reflection You have to do it right yourself before you are qualified to ask others Now ask yourself how good you are to her family?

No! It shows that she is a good woman who cares about her family! Fight for it.

It should be that the level of love is not as deep as that of family.

Learn to refuse harm, to take care of yourself, and to learn to love yourself.