If you break up with your ex boyfriend, whether you don t contact or become friends, which one has a

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't contact you, you want him to take the initiative to contact you, if you are friends, you have a better chance of becoming a lover. If you still love him, just contact him, twist and pinch what to do, do what you want, so as not to keep a heart in your heart and feel uncomfortable, everything is confessed, isn't it better? .

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The odds aren't up to you. The key lies in him. So it doesn't matter if you're friends or not.

    What matters is whether you want to have him or whether you want to possess him.

    But it takes a lot of work. Heartache, memories, and loneliness are inevitable.

    But you can still see him and know his news. Sometimes you can eat and chat.

    Isn't that nice in a way?

    The emotional thing lies in oneself, and if even feelings have to be calculated as probabilities, it is the computer.

    PS: Good luck and happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friends, of course.

    Being friends also allows him to continue to understand your goodness, your strengths, chat more, and always be reconciled.

    If he's in love with someone else, don't worry about him, it's not good for either of you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The odds of being friends and getting along are great.

    If you continue to love him, care for him silently.

    Let him doom you to love him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas, we are in the same situation. If you want to reconcile, there are no two chances (I've experienced it). If the other party really breaks up just because of anger or discord, if he still loves you, then no matter what you do or contact, you will still be reconciled.

    So, let it be, what's yours is yours.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's better not to get in touch, because after a breakup, you won't be able to get back the feeling you used to have. Bless her silently in your heart, and wish you to find your true destiny as soon as possible!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Break up, break up, what else is there to be nostalgic about.

    Unless this man is worthy of you to do this, otherwise, the more you are like this, if you are reconciled in the future, you will not cherish you and feel that you can't do without him at all.

    It would be awkward to break up and be friends suppose he found a girlfriend again and appeared in front of you, what would you do if you were angry or .

    The odds of being friends and getting along are slightly greater, (I personally think).

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    See how the other person reacts. If I hate you, I can't be friends. If the other party is a more optimistic or open person, maybe they can still be friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is often said that you can still be friends if you can't be a lover, that's all a lie, unless you haven't loved, you won't want to see him again after a breakup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I see this question as contradictory.

    I can tell from the question that you don't want to break up.

    So why not start with a breakup?

    Why do you want to think about how to get back together after a breakup?

    Even if they are reconciled, there will be estrangements.

    Remember, you can't regret doing anything.

    I may not be very old, but I've been thinking about this for longer than the average person.

    If you want to let me answer further.

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  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can't be enemies when you break up, because you once loved each other deeply, and you can't be friends because you hurt each other! Let's be a stranger!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Break up and think about reconciliation, and reconcile and think about breaking up.

    How can you reconcile without contact.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Does reconciliation mean reunited?

    It's best not to get in touch for a while.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's all divided, and it's still hairy! ~~

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, why did my ex break up and refuse to be friends? First, it shows that when it comes to love, it is decisive and dragging.

    Due to the special status of your ex, it is impossible to get along like an ordinary friend, and even if you can do it, others will not believe you, so being a friend can only be a mediocre person. Second, explain that you know yourself very clearly, know what you want, and what you should do. After some people break up, they are still struggling, as if they can't live without anyone, since they broke up, it means that it is not appropriate, after being sad, sort themselves out and start again.

    You will eventually find a life partner that suits you, and becoming friends after a breakup will affect your progress. Because that means you haven't completely let go of the past, and if you let go, you'll turn him into a stranger. Three, after a breakup, not being friends is a kind of protection for him or herself.

    It can avoid secondary damage and can meet a new life better and faster. Personally, I think that no matter whether the love is deep or shallow, it is best not to be friends after a breakup, which can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles, and it is also a respect for the next lover!

    Wrong. Asked the wrong question.

    is why he broke up with his ex, he had to be a good friend, and he had to break the connection.

    Hello, why did my ex break up and refuse to be friends? First, it shows that when it comes to love, it is decisive and dragging. Due to the special status of your ex, it is impossible to get along like an ordinary friend, and even if you can do it, others will not believe you, so being a friend can only be a mediocre person.

    Second, explain that you know yourself very clearly, know what you want, and what you should do. After some people break up, they are still struggling, as if no one can live without them, since they let the blind break up, it means that it is not appropriate, after being sad, sort yourself out and start again. Eventually, you will find a life partner that suits you, and if you become friends after a breakup, you will be frank about affecting your progress.

    Because that means you haven't completely let go of the past, and if you let go, you'll turn him into a stranger. Three, after a breakup, not being friends is a kind of protection for him or herself. It can avoid secondary damage and can meet a new life better and faster.

    Personally, I think that no matter whether the love is deep or shallow, it is best not to be friends after a breakup, which can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles, and it is also a respect for the next lover!

    Broken silk because of each other's relationship with each other is emotional, when they break up, they also break up peacefully, and do not hurt each other's feelings because of the breakup, besides, after the breakup, they have no new object for the time being, the relationship is in a blank period, and Fan Shi has a long time, they are used to Fan Ru and each other together, so after the breakup, they will break the thread, when one party has a new object, they will definitely break up completely.

    He told me that I probably couldn't go back, he asked me to forget about him, and he talked to me every day, and asked me to find someone else to fall in love, and told me to keep the empty match, and this kind of friend relationship is just like having a problem, he made me forget while chatting with me every day, and sent a circle of friends, he asked me for a long time, and I was jealous, and I couldn't understand him.

    It's just to entertain you and deliberately you.

    Just ignore him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No. After a breakup, you generally can't be friends with your ex, because when you have this kind of doubt, you actually have the hope that two people want to continue to love each other. Breaking up has brought harm, but it is always more nostalgic than reluctant, paying for a relationship, who can generously say that it will be put down.

    And often what we want to get is not whether we can become friends with our ex, but whether two wounded hearts can get closer again, and whether we can have another opportunity to pour love into each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Four reasons not to contact your ex.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Once a partner, will never be a friend now.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Little fool, that's because he wants to use you as a way out.

    is why he broke up with his ex, he had to be a good friend, and he had to break the connection.

    Little fool, that's because he wants to use you as a way out.

    He told me that I probably couldn't go back, he asked me to forget about him, and he talked to me every day, and asked me to find someone else to fall in love, and told me to keep the empty match, and this kind of friend relationship is just like having a problem, he made me forget while chatting with me every day, and sent a circle of friends, he asked me for a long time, and I was jealous, and I couldn't understand him.

    On the surface, his behavior seems to be very distressing for you and asks you to find someone who likes you.

    In fact, he is deliberately hanging you.

    I could see that I knew if I could ignore him, or I could ignore him and go as he wished.

    It depends on what you mean.

    If you still want to continue with him, you can be an infatuated girl, continue to wait for him, and wait for him to come back to you.

    I'm really tired, I can't love anymore, I can't like it.

    Then just break it.

    It's good for you and for him.

    Yes. It's better to feel sorry for yourself.

    Find someone who loves you in the future, don't look for the <> you love

    I know. Feel sorry for yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. If the two are single after breaking up, there is no need to separate completely, after so many years of acquaintance, in addition to love, friendship must be very deep, as an ordinary friend, there is no problem.

    Two people have been together for so many years, a relationship cannot be said to be let go, and there will be each other in their hearts, but they are separated for some reason. Break up for a period of time, give each other a space, a chance to breathe, and also let yourself and the other party think about why you have to break up with each other, and think about where you didn't do well.

    After thinking about it, as long as one party puts down his body, the emotional foundation of the two is still there, and there is still the possibility of continuing. If it is completely broken and no contact is lost, once it has been a long time, it will never be able to be recovered.

    2. After breaking up, it's okay to be an ordinary friend, but once you have a boyfriend and girlfriend, then you have to break off with your ex, if you can't let go of your ex, then you are unfair to the current one, since you can't let go of your ex, why do you want to find the current one, if you continue to maintain an ambiguous relationship with your ex, then you won't get anything.

    Regardless of whether it is a boy or a girl, if you have a good job, you must forget your ex, break off with your ex, and don't procrastinate. People will be jealous, and once they get to the bottom of it, it will be a huge challenge to the relationship between the two, and even break up.

    Some people don't think so, thinking that it doesn't matter if you have your current and ex as ordinary friends, so I'll ask a few questions: If your ex is in the same city as you, and there is no one around him (her) to take care of, he (she) calls ** and asks you to go, do you go or not? What if your ex is still interesting to you and asks you for help again and again?

    Once there is a conflict between you in the future, this matter may become the last straw that overwhelms your feelings.

    If you really break up peacefully and be an ordinary friend, or in the case of the current one, this distance is more difficult to grasp, it depends on how the individual deals with the relationship with the ex, but also the trust and understanding of the current one, if you are not sure, then it is better to separate completely.

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