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Anonymous users2024-02-06Don't talk nonsense, that sentence is very hurtful to people's self-esteem! However, if he really loves you, it will also have a positive effect, such as doubling his work to make money! See what he thinks!
No matter what, love is not the whole of life, love is not something to fill the emptiness and loneliness, love needs sincerity and patience, I feel that the two of you are not very suitable, no matter what the result is, you have to work hard to enrich yourself, I believe you will find your own happiness! Come on!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I read your question!
In fact, you have quarreled many times and have met well, and that is because you still love each other! Your boyfriend may be dissatisfied with you in some aspects of his life, or the grievances that accumulate in the course of a fight! When he accumulates more, it will explode!
It's not that your words are too heavy, it's that he's about to explode! Needless to say, I think you should be a little dissatisfied with him by now! In fact, when two people are together, they should tolerate each other's shortcomings, understand each other, and say sorry more, and they will live better!
Now do you know how to solve this problem? He fights with you, and that's because he still cares about you! If: when you stop arguing, stop talking, face with silence, or smile, then you will break up!
Remember, no one is perfect, as long as you are good at discovering each other's worries and praising each other, then you will live a happy life!
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Anonymous users2024-02-04It seems that you care about him ... If he really cares about you, he won't say break up, at least if you want to be together in the future, you can't say that breaking up hurts feelings! Make a boyfriend to have a minimum of the principle of communication, it's definitely not that you talk too hard...
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Some things are decided early, and in the end, the man is unreliable.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02When a man is tired in his heart, when he is annoyed, when you say something, your boyfriend is anxious, maybe this is what he cares about. That is where he has the most inferiority complex. If you want to reconcile, you have to restrain your eldest lady's temper and talk to him well.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Summary. My advice to this question is: first of all, be clear about your position, firmly state your willingness to break up, and express it clearly, don't hesitate, don't let the other party have a chance to pull you back.
Secondly, respect the other person's feelings, try not to disappoint him too much, and give him some comfort to let him know that you are also sad, but your relationship is irretrievable. Finally, give him some help to help him seek psychological counseling, or give him some ** methods for depression to let him know that you still care about him, but your relationship is irretrievable. In short, during the breakup process, respect the other person's feelings, try not to disappoint him too much, but also stand firm in your position, clearly express your desire to break up, and give him some help to let him know that you still care about him.
I didn't know that my boyfriend was depressed after I proposed to break up, but he didn't want to break up, he kept pestering me, I couldn't stand it, what should I do?
In response to this problem, my advice is: first of all, you should be clear about your position, firmly express your willingness to break up, and express it clearly, do not hesitate, and don't let the other party have a chance to pull you back. Secondly, respect the other person's feelings, try not to disappoint him too much, and give him some comfort to let him know that you are also sad, but your relationship is irretrievable.
Finally, give him some help to help him seek psychological counseling, or give him some ** methods for depression to let him know that you still care about him, but your relationship is irretrievable. In short, in the process of breaking up, you should respect the other person's feelings, try not to let him feel too disappointed, and at the same time, you must also be firm in your position, clearly express your willingness to break up, and give him some help to let him know that you still care about him.
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
First of all, I would like to say that you should respect your boyfriend's feelings, but also give him a clear answer so that he understands what you think and that he stands by your decision. You can express your thoughts as gently as possible, but also be firm in your position and don't give him a chance to continue pestering you. Secondly, you should try to help your boyfriend to make him aware of his depressive symptoms and seek psychological counseling in time.
You can help him find a professional counselor or help him find a depression support group so that he can communicate with other people with depression for more support and help. Finally, you can also try some self-regulation methods, such as relaxing, participating in fun activities, hanging out with friends, etc. These can all help you relax your mind, reduce stress, and better cope with the pain of a breakup.
In short, you should respect your boyfriend's feelings, but also stick to your decision, and try to help him make him aware of his depressive symptoms, seek psychological counseling in time, and also pay attention to your physical and mental health, try some self-regulation methods to reduce stress and better cope with the pain of a breakup.
Since you have seen that he is not a responsible person, and you have been disappointed, and you have discovered many of his faults through your interactions, if you feel that you can go further, then be tolerant, understand and cover everything, communicate with each other when appropriate, and give each other their opinions. If you also have the heart to let go, there is nothing to be reluctant to, willing to be willing, willing to be willing to gain, and then entangled for a long time, you may suffer the grievances will increase, and your feelings are constantly degenerating, he is kind, good people have their own place, rather than so tired to maintain this relationship is better to be a little simpler, just like in the end there will be no beautiful results, why bother to keep chasing it......You are also very kind, otherwise you wouldn't care about the emotional foundation that went through ups and downs in half a year, people always have spirituality, and it is inevitable to have emotional interactions, if you have another him, everything will fade away.
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