Can you still be friends after breaking up with your boyfriend?

Do you think it is still necessary ... I don't know if you still have nostalgia for him in your heart, and you still have concern...

Shakespeare has a classic saying:

After breaking up, you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other;

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

I don't think it's necessary, even if you're friends, can you guarantee that you won't have that little shadow in your hearts... Can you be sure that you will not have a grudge ...

Can you guarantee that this "friendship" can still be as pure as an ordinary friend ...

Girl, let go when it's time to let go, don't drag mud and water; Be chic when you should be chic, don't be hurt again...

If you missed it, keep it as a memory... When I think about it occasionally, I still have an endless aftertaste...

Zhuang Shengxiao dreams of butterflies, and hopes that the emperor's spring heart trusts the cuckoo. . . Think of it as a beautiful butterfly dream...

Leaving behind the past is the only way to start anew ...

Generally speaking, it's really difficult, because after all, it used to be so familiar, and I couldn't help but ask each other in the way of the original lover, and if it was really because it was not suitable to break up, I think, it would be better not to have contact again

Okay, do you want to be happy, so that you don't have too much pain.

It is not recommended anymore.

Unless you want to get back together.

Otherwise, the injury will be deeper.

It depends on how both parties deal with the relationship. Isn't there a ...... saying?Love is more than deep, and hatred is more ......This also varies from person to person......

It's hard, it's just a chance to see you again, and then it's painful, what's the picture?

I think it's up to you.

You say, did you ever love him?

Love, can you still watch him be nice to other girls? Don't pretend to be decent, you don't need it!

Listen to that song, we said okay.

Whether two people can still be friends after breaking up mainly depends on the following factors:

1.The reason for the breakup. If you break up because of the different life directions and values of both parties, then a positive friendship is still possible. If the breakup is caused by a broken relationship or mistrust, then it is more difficult to build a friendship, at least in the short term.

2.The need for friendship. If friendship is equally important to both parties, then there will be a better chance of keeping in touch after a breakup. If either party does not have much interest in continuing to connect, then the likelihood of friendship is not high.

3.Thoughts after a breakup. If after the breakup, both parties do not have much resentment towards each other and can still understand and appreciate each other, then the conditions for turning into friends are met. If there are too many negative thoughts after a breakup, it is difficult to build a sincere friendship.

4.The degree of emotional relief. If the relationship has been completely dissolved, and there is no extra affection for each other, then it will not be troublesome to become friends. If the relationship is not completely unraveled, and there is still a certain amount of attachment, the friendship may be difficult to maintain, and it is easy to re-develop feelings.

5.The degree of overlap of life circles. If the life circles do not coincide at all after the breakup, and there will be basically no intersection, then the motivation and foundation for the two to be friends are relatively lacking.

If there is still a certain overlap in the circle of life, and there are more opportunities to meet, then it is more natural to form friendships at the right time.

To sum up, whether you can be friends after a breakup mainly depends on the wishes and living conditions of both parties. If both parties still have a good impression of each other and their lives overlap to a certain extent, then it is more likely to become friends. But the premise is that the relationship needs to be completely dissolved, and there is no ambiguity or attachment.

Only on the basis of complete renunciation can a sincere and lasting friendship be established by selecting a group to break the selective ties. Otherwise, it is easy to have feelings again, making the relationship between the two complicated and contradictory.

So whether to be friends or strangers after a breakup depends entirely on time and mentality. When the dust settles and you feel relieved about each other, you may want to consider being friends again. Otherwise, keep a moderate distance and let your heart open naturally when the time comes.

It's better not to get back into contact after breaking up.

Although the two have loved each other, since they have chosen to break up, it means that the two have chosen to end this fate, and it is best not to affect each other's lives and add some trouble to their lives.

In this case, although it is acceptable to be friends after breaking up with your ex-boyfriend, you don't consider what it will bring to your future relationship. If you don't realize this problem all the time, it will definitely make your current boyfriend jealous and sad, and mistakenly think that you can't forget your ex-boyfriend.

Originally, I just didn't care about the previous relationship, but if I didn't break off the relationship in time, I would be regarded as intentional by others, and this would only cause a lot of trouble in my life for no reason.

So, since the two of them broke up, it's better not to get along. No matter how beautiful those memories of the past are, we must choose to make them a thing of the past, a past that will never be mentioned again.

Don't say that you'll miss him from time to time; Not to mention, you can be friends after you break up. Because, since you have left a place, the scenery there no longer belongs to you. The same is true for missing someone, and that person will have nothing to do with you in the future.

The path for two people to meet again will not change, but the hearts of two people have long changed. What is the point of two people like this becoming friends? Is it to pay tribute to the love that was lost, or is it reluctant to give up the beauty that once was?

Whatever the reason, it has lost its meaning.

Love is like this, when two people are in love, they are like shadows, and even the air they breathe feels sweet. Once they break up, they will be strangers, and they will even complain about this relationship and regret the meeting between the two.

It's just that in love, there will always be some people who are reluctant to leave that person, and they are reluctant to give up that relationship, so they let themselves be trapped in it all the time, and they still have illusions about this relationship. I always feel that as long as I can persevere, I can impress the other party and make the other party change their minds. Even if the other party has decisively proposed to break up, it is necessary to keep pestering the dust.

If you choose this way after breaking up, it will not only affect the other party's life, but also belittle yourself, making yourself a humble person for love, and you will never get the initiative in love.

You can also be friends. My boyfriend and I separated, but we're still friends. My boyfriend is my first love, I like someone else's first, and I talked about marriage for 3 years, but I still broke up.

The other party proposed, the overall reason is that the personality is not suitable, and they break up peacefully. At the beginning, when he said that he was breaking up, I was so confused that my mind was so blank that I even forgot about the opposition, and after the breakup in a daze, I cried every day in front of my parents and colleagues as if nothing happened, in other places that they couldn't see. This continued for 2 months, and I gradually returned to my basic normal state.

But it's strange that after the painful period of the breakup has passed, I began to think about the fragments of us together, and when I broke up, I felt so difficult to recall the days together, but then these fragments became more and more clear. In the process of him constantly jumping out like this, I usually calm down and take these as good memories.

Until one day, we passed**, because there was something wrong with the computer, so the other party called ** to give me technical support. The voice that has been absent for a long time has been very touching when I first hear it, but when I really discuss the problem, I feel like a friend. Hang up the **, I think that's it, be friends as you wish.

After all, I am still reluctant, it is rare to meet in life, it is a great fate, and the other party is a good person, I understand this. So let's be friends with ease! So I started my own life, basically I felt that I had completely let go, and there were some new emotional opportunities around me, although I was not very interested, but I felt that life was going in a good direction.

How to say, my attitude towards feelings does not seek long-term success or inevitable success, but two people who like each other naturally come together, get along with each other and learn from each other to become better people, if there is a gap, they will be separated early, and the days will be long in the future. What's more, the person you loved at the beginning must not be a scumbag or a bad person, so why bother not to get along with each other.

When you meet, you should say hello, you can help where you can reach out, and no one can see the difference when the party is generous. Connections are consciously distancing, and many topics can no longer be discussed.

I don't think it's okay, after all, it used to be a romantic relationship, and it's good to be in touch after a breakup, and it's really difficult to be an ordinary friend again.

Why be friends?

Waiting for the old love to rekindle.