A little angry, do you think I m right?

In fact, you should be angry, because you think of him as a good friend in your heart, and you want him to do everything as you want in your heart. But everyone's personality is different. There will definitely be some disagreements in the relationship.

Good friends and good brothers are not judged like this, good friends are to comfort you when you are sad and sad. Support you in your difficult times to help you. Good friends are still good no matter how far away they are, how long they haven't seen each other, and they are still happy and excited to meet.

Marriage He just said that it was too early for you to draw conclusions, why don't you wait until you get married and ask him to see if he is like him? Hehe.

I suggest that you better talk to him about the conflict between you, for example, if you always say good things, because you won't come, I'm very unhappy, don't do that next time. It's better to just say it, you don't say it, he may not know all along. Because probably he took you as the best brother in the first place, he felt that you could forgive him for these actions.

Because for the good people around us, we will be so freewheeling.

I hope this helps you, o ( o Don't be angry, good friends, why bother.

Personally, I don't recognize you as a friend.

One, life and marriage are like this, they all hope to get the blessings of their best friends, and they all want to share as much as possible with their friends, and he obviously doesn't take your matter seriously at all, at least he doesn't care so much, to put it bluntly, no matter how big things are, they are still not as important as his own business.

Second, your friend's ability should not be so strong, the work is not very prominent, if he is very capable, it should be very valued by the company, if his company values him, he will never quit him because he took a day off, then I can show that your friend is more selfish and not very prominent.

Third, since your friends say so, you are bound to be embarrassed to force others again, and you can follow him when he gets married in the future.

In fact, being friends is all about giving each other. If he's so self-centered, you'll be hurt later. After all, it's a friend, not an attendant, so of course I don't want to revolve around him.

For the sake of your friendship, you need to communicate well, otherwise he will get used to understanding this in the future, and you will only be sad.

Let's communicate well, and I wish you a long friendship.

I'm a woman. I don't agree with you. It's not just you guys, we don't have this situation very often.

Please, friend, not a slave, he will do whatever you want him to do. Right?

Think about it ... If you were him, would you really give up your job to attend his wedding on the occasion you are talking about? After returning, the boss said that if he delayed the customer's business, he might lose his job.

Although there is still a friend of him, don't you think it's a loss?

Because he's your friend, he's telling the truth. He didn't lie to you that he would do it. This kind of friend, not bad! You know, don't lose it.

Also, once in a while, I think about how others felt and how they felt at the time, and I'm sure you'll be happy about it... Thank you.

Just looked at the head, I thought you were a girl or something! If it's all boys, if you're a little angry, it proves that you care about this friend very much, and what he says is also from a personal point of view, and if you have a different personality, you think that his leave is taken for granted, but he doesn't think it's too necessary!! If you look at it from his point of view, you can be relieved!! Hey.

This kind of person is the kind of person who says that he sticks a knife in the ribs for his friends and brothers, and he stabs his brothers twice for a woman, as long as he has a small benefit, he can sell you, and self-centered people are very selfish.

I think he's the kind of person who puts his interests first. If it were a brother, I wouldn't say that.

What kind of friend is that? It's better to make a light friend, and it doesn't have to be him.

Alas! There are no friends forever....Only forever benefits!

Hello! When we are angry, our emotions are often in a negative state such as anxiety, agitation, nervousness, etc., which may affect our judgment and decision-making ability. Therefore, in a state of anger, it is easy for us to act irrationally, excessively, or absurdly, and when we calm down, we will find that these behaviors are somewhat ridiculous or incredible.

In addition, emotional behavior is different from the behavior under rational thinking, which is often out of control, blindly pursuing emotional catharsis, satisfaction and expression, resulting in irrational behavior. When we look back at our own behavior, we are usually in a calm state of sensitivity, able to think rationally and evaluate our behavior, and thus recognize the ridiculousness and irrationality in it.

Therefore, when we feel angry, we should try to calm down, control our emotions, and think and express ourselves rationally. If emotions are difficult to control, they can be alleviated by exercising, listening, etc., to avoid unwise behaviors and unnecessary trouble.

Because when you are angry, there are some behaviors that do not go through the brain but after a knee-jerk reaction, but after thinking about these problems, you will be sleepy and change your mind, and these problems will not occur under normal circumstances.

Hehe, you should indicate your gender, so that the analysis is more targeted First of all, I think you are a delicate person, think about it yourself, delicate thinking is an advantage in many ways, you can use this advantage to analyze yourself, why do you want others to enlighten you, why don't you calm down and analyze yourself, why do you have this situation.

When someone offends you, you didn't have a seizure at the time, but you hate yourself afterwards: you didn't have a seizure at that time, this is because of your personality, maybe the incident itself is not the aspect you care about, because there is no reaction time at all in a short time, and the reaction at this time is the best reflection of your own nature; The more you think about it afterwards, the more angry you become, and then you hate yourself: it's because you've thought about it for a certain amount and mixed with the rational factor, and then you're angry because your subconscious tells you that you should be angry, and when someone else encounters something like this, you'll get angry, okay, then your brain will be obedient and angry.

But you have to know that you are not the real you at this time, you are what you should be in the eyes of everyone, and you should face this problem.

If you really realize this problem, you will not make this mistake again in the future Through your problem, I can feel that you have a shortcoming, that is, lack of reason, deep thinking, when you have a problem that you don't understand, you should calm down, to analyze the event itself, through this phenomenon to associate the essence of things, in this way, you can solve many similar problems at once, not one problem, if you can't learn to think rationally, even if everyone enlightens you with this problem, Then other questions will come up to haunt you, so I suggest that you try to change your perspective and think deeply, I hope my answer will be helpful to you!!

You should be an honest person, if it's bad, no one will offend, enlightenment is not good, you have to figure it out for yourself, keep your mentality, your character is natural, and you can only grow up with age.

Take it up and put it down, and your personality should be adjusted slowly, you can ask this question, I personally think you still know your own personality quite well, and you have to rely on yourself to control it.

I've got that too, but it's good to open it yourself.

If a person grows up in the midst of the accusations of others, there will be nothing else to fear.

Some things will pass, but the important thing is that the next time he can make him want to offend you and have nowhere to speak, then you will really practice at home.

Don't zoom in on things ......It's over.

People are doing it, and the sky is watching! There is good and there is bad! You are right, tolerance is the greatest virtue ...... in the world

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Always keep yourself in a good mood.