Why girls like to abandon others

First of all, I want to say that the beginning of this relationship between you is you or she takes the initiative. Perhaps, you care about this relationship very much, but she may just think that falling in love is a very new thing, and with the attitude of trying it out, she begins to devote herself to this relationship. In a word, for her, the relationship may just be a play.

In this case, as a boy, you don't have to worry about it anymore. Because, your care, your dedication, with the wrong person. She is not the person who can be with you for a lifetime, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to be sad and mind for a person who doesn't care about you at all!

What is too easy to get will not be cherished.

Because the manuscript refers to the fact that many women are dissatisfied with their families.

Take your frustration out on your child.

At the same time, in order to better know the wheel in the future, it is more convenient to find the next one, and there are no children.

Some people do not have the ability to raise on their own.

So the child was abandoned.

It is true that there are very few women who choose to abandon their children, and the main Hu Oak is still because of family reasons.

The unhappy life of the family, especially the economic aspect, is the main reason for abandoning the child.

There may be many reasons for those who abandon their children, but these are not reasons for abandoning children, the main reason is that individuals are too selfish, do not consider the feelings of their children, and do not know their responsibilities and obligations to their children.

1. There are many psychological traumas.

This kind of woman is not bad in nature, even simple, full of beautiful fantasies about love and marriage, who knows that she is not ladylike, she is frustrated again and again, she can't find an outlet to vent her emotions, and she can't find an object to confide in and discuss, so she can only drill the horns of the bull by herself, and the situation is getting worse and worse, until she reaches the point where she can't bear it, she gives up on herself, fornicates with others at will, and even lives together. Since then, my husband never wants to see each other again, and the children have become a drag, so I can only choose to abandon my husband and children and live happily.

2. Disharmony in married life.

It is said that women are "thirty like wolves, forty like tigers", and it is also a terrible thing for women's desires to be unsatisfied in marriage, which gives women enough excuses to go outside to find their inner desires and laugh. Over time, this kind of woman will look at her husband more and more unpleasantly, and look down on her everywhere, others love the house and Wu, she hates the house and Wu, resents her husband and dislikes the child at the same time, if the child is like the husband, it gives the woman a reason to dislike. Therefore, it is not surprising that such a woman abandons her husband and children, her desires have become a gap that cannot be filled, and she cannot be satisfied in material and spiritual aspects, and she is swayed by desires everywhere, which is extremely terrifying.

2. Disharmony in married life.

It is said that women are "thirty like wolves, forty like tigers", and it is also a terrible thing for women's desires to be unsatisfied in marriage, which gives women enough excuses to go outside to find their inner desires. Over time, this kind of woman will look at her husband more and more unpleasantly, and look down on her everywhere, others love the house and Wu, she hates the house and Wu, resents her husband and dislikes the child at the same time, if the child is like her husband, then it gives the woman a reason to dislike. Therefore, it is not surprising that such a woman abandons her husband and children, her desires have become a gap that cannot be filled, and she cannot be satisfied in material and spiritual aspects, and she is swayed by desires everywhere, which is extremely terrifying.

Those who abandon their children have their own reasons, such as financial independence, or it may not be possible to do so, of course, it is not ruled out that they have mental problems, etc.

1. Most women are not financially independent, do not have a good economic foundation, or choose to be a full-time mother after giving birth, and are completely financially dependent on men. When the marriage came to an end, he was unable to raise his children alone and was forced to choose to give up his children.

2. Some women are more selfish, and when they divorce, they only think about their future life, and it is very difficult to live with children after divorce, and it is not good to remarry if they remarry, so they choose to give up their children.

3. When most people divorce, the man will do his best to fight for the custody of the boy, the man thinks that the boy is the root of his family and cannot be taken away by the woman, and the woman is not as advantageous as the woman in terms of economic income, housing and other conditions, so she cannot fight for the custody of the child. The family that gives birth to a girl generally depends on the woman's opinion, and the girl can be raised by whomever she wants, but most of them are raised by the woman.

Therefore, I think that men and women should have children after marriage after careful consideration, and both parties are ready to be parents before deciding to have children, so that children can grow up in a loving family, and if the marriage breaks down, they should also consider which party the child is more suitable to live with, so as to minimize the harm to the child.