Is such a marriage still worth preserving?

It's hard to say, women are all the same!

If you don't have the skills, you don't have the money! Why is she still serving you?

Even if you get divorced, it's the same if you change to another woman! So, it's true that the brother is still trying to strengthen himself... What kind of woman doesn't have that!

Said, although somewhat mean, realistic, and ugly! But after getting married, do we all have this kind of problem? Although money is everything, these problems will haunt you without money.

Is this kind of life still interesting? Give it up, bro. I don't know that letting go is also a kind of happiness.

Don't force it if it shouldn't belong to you. This kind of woman is not for you. It's true..

To be honest, my brother is in a similar situation to you)。。 I started thinking about it, and I really couldn't let it go. But is it still fun to live like this every day?

Ay.. This woman of yours can be regarded as your wife. I don't think of you as her man.

It is said that it is natural for a man to take care of a woman - yes, but only if a woman respects a man. I see, your wife doesn't treat you as a human being at all, what is this kind of woman going to do, cut, be a man to be chic, and be able to afford to put it down. I don't know if it's because there are fewer women in China, but now one is more than a cow!

Don't take what a woman says in anger, pretend to agree, and she will forget it later. You coax her more, a woman's heart is the softest.

Quarrels and divorce are not just a woman's fault, it seems that you did not handle the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to make it so bad, in the early days of marriage, you were too doting on your wife, which led to the current domineering, if you still want to maintain this marriage, you must first solve the problems between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sometimes parents are also very prejudiced against their daughters-in-law, you should actively look for the key points of contradictions, and attack the key points one by one. If your wife is still so unreasonable after working hard, then I advise you that there are many good women, replace her and seek a virtuous lady.

Marriage has been pushed down to the poles of people's yearning and fear, and marriage has a mysterious and mysterious color. It is difficult to grasp the desire of men and women to advance and retreat, in fact, marriage is neither in heaven nor hell, and the truest position of marriage is in the world. Because people have too many hopes for marriage and want to get too much out of marriage, they have moved to marriage and moved to heaven.

And because marriage can't carry so much hope, it often makes the dreams of men and women fall short. Marriage was displaced again, moved to hell. In this way, many people's marriages have never been in their original position.

People's dissatisfaction with marriage is also due to the fact that marriage eats too much fireworks in the world.

Clause. 2. Marriage should bear the responsibility of having children.

Marriage has to take on the task of having children, dealing with oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, taking care of the most tedious housework, and the various colors attached to marriage have been eroded by the ordinary days until only a solid and wearable core --- days remain. As a result, men and women begin to be disappointed in their marriage, blaming all their unhappiness on the marriage, and holding the marriage responsible for their unhappiness.

Clause. 3. Marriage is a mutual responsibility.

There is no responsibility in marriage itself, marriage is just a synonym for the union of a man and a woman, and if marriage is responsible, it can be the mutual responsibility of this man and this woman. Leaving one's own sense of responsibility and letting marriage take responsibility is self-deception. The dislocation of marriage leads to two kinds of psychology for men and women:

One is to believe too much in marriage, believing that marriage can give you everything you want; One is distrust of marriage, always worried that marriage will take away everything from oneself. All men and women are dissatisfied with marriage related to this psychology.

1. Discover problems in a timely manner, and the relationship between husband and wife is firm and strong, and fragile and fragile. 2. Defend each other, if there are no issues of principle, husband and wife should unconditionally protect each other.

First of all, it is necessary to understand each other in marriage. Don't force the other person to do something they don't want to do. Second, learn to share the hardships of life. We must be able to advance and retreat together, and share joys and sorrows.

A good marriage requires both of you to work together. A good marriage requires you to manage it carefully, you have to trust each other, support each other, don't quarrel because of trivial family matters, quarrels often have the first time, there will be a second time, you have to deal with problems calmly, to understand each other.

Where there is a husband and wife, there is a family, and where there is a family, there is a marriage. The family is made up of both men and women, so the marriage should be maintained by both men and women. If you want to maintain your marriage, you must see the essence of marriage, marriage is made up of two people, marriage has an inside, and the other is outside.

It is not easy to be more tolerant and considerate of each other, the most important thing is to communicate, love him more, and usually let the other party have less troubles at home.

The maintenance of marriage requires both parties to work together, manage the marriage together, think of each other, and work hard for each other for the family.

Marriage is the result of two people understanding and tolerating each other, trusting each other, and making progress together, having a common topic and a common language exchange is also the result of twice the result with half the effort.

Be considerate of each other. Working together.

If you use "maintenance" to describe your current state of marriage and future development, then I don't think you need to maintain it. But if you ask, is it necessary to improve such marriages? I'm pretty sure of you:

It is necessary. Because it is much easier to improve the current state of married life than to give up the new choice.

If this is indeed the state you described, then you should think carefully about when your marital status began to become like this, and what caused it? I don't believe that your marriage is in this state of dissolution from the beginning, because such a state cannot enter into marriage, unless the focus of your needs is not emotional, but something else.

Since you can ask questions, at least it shows that you have a positive mindset about solving the problem, which I think is very important and a very good place to start. Since your description is too simplistic, it is difficult to give more specific suggestions to improve your existing relationship. But improving the relationship itself is not difficult, you just need to understand the other person's needs and then meet the other person's needs.

The deeper your inner needs are, the easier it will be to improve your current relationship. Therefore, only by observing and communicating with your heart can you find out that the other party's needs are in the first place, and then it is possible to meet him. Don't feel humbled and flattered because of this, emotional relationships are always a two-way street.

A healthy relationship between the sexes can satisfy both parties at the same time, and your efforts are not only fulfilling the other party, but also achieving yourself. It's really not that hard.