Should I let my boyfriend meet his former girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you can let him go, and since he told you that he was going to meet her ex-girlfriend, it proves that he is sincere to you, but there are still some things between them that are not clear.

    If he has anything else to ask of his ex-girlfriend 1, does he still have to ask you?

    He can run on his own. So if you love him, you should believe in him. I wish you all a long life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You are not allowed to go, you tell him, there is her, there is no you, there is you without her.

    You have to know that men are easily influenced by women.

    You'd better tell your boyfriend not to pay attention to his ex-girlfriend for the rest of his life.

    Listen to me, really.

    And men are different from women, and it's not easy to see the change in men's hearts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let him go and see him, if he is really so easily influenced, it can only mean that he loves you enough. Deliberately letting him avoid solving any problems!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why did he go to see his former girlfriend.

    If it's my boyfriend, I'll decide whether or not to let him meet him based on his character and trust in him. I think he's still very honest with you, you should trust him and let him go to see him, otherwise he won't tell you at all, can't he go secretly? Sometimes be generous to him.

    Otherwise, if you care about him, he will sometimes find you annoying.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Respect his choice, if he wants to see you, he can't stop it! Let him decide for himself!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can say to him, "I don't mind if you go to her, but if you really want to, I respect you," and that is a sign of your attitude and respect for both parties.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really love him, and he really loves you, why should you care about it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe it should. Otherwise, he always has a knot in his heart that he can't untie.

    Maybe it shouldn't.

    What if they rekindle their old feelings?

    Who knows. Let it be.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell him that you will be sad to go, but do not stop him and let him choose. And if he went,。。 If you want me to break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go with the flow, love you and you won't change.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it tells you he's going to meet his ex-girlfriend.

    I don't think it's dangerous.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to understand what is the situation of your boyfriend going to meet the girl you like, if it is to help, it is okay, but if you go on a date casually, it is not allowed to meet, which will affect the relationship between the two of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Should your boyfriend be allowed to meet a girl he has liked before? Of course not. Why would he want to meet the girl he liked before, doesn't he care about your feelings.

    Don't you care. Even if they may just eat and chat with each other. But why did he go to see it.

    I want to rekindle my old feelings, or do I want to do something.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Boyfriends should not be allowed to meet girls they have liked before, nor should girlfriends be allowed to meet boys they have liked before, but it is relative, because it is especially unreasonable to meet alone, and there is no thinking from the other person's point of view.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't let him see him, because some people will rekindle their old feelings. Unless he has no feelings for this girl he used to like, he has let go. But in this case, there is no need to meet you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is to protect each other, love each other, love is in each other's eyes, only each other in the heart, no longer accommodate other people, their love must work hard to protect well, if their boyfriend to see his former girlfriend, that is disrespectful to himself, the heart is not really love yourself, such love is not worth us to wait, to pay, will only make us feel hurt and pain!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it should be allowed, after all, it's in the past, but I just liked it, and I don't like it now, if I don't let him meet, it will make him still have thoughts about that girl in his heart, so it's better to let him meet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This must be in a state of full understanding before you allow him to go, his ex-girlfriend to meet, if you don't know him, like what the situation between them is, you don't know.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on what the situation is, if they meet just um, to solve the problem or something, I will agree to meet him, but only if I am on the side, if it is just because of some emotional thing, I will not let my boyfriend meet his ex-girlfriend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I feel that unless I go with you to meet the girl he liked before, I shouldn't let him do such a thing, otherwise it will be easy for you to regret it. Because of the girls he liked before, it is very likely that he will still be excited.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is selfish and requires possession, and for anyone, they don't want their love partner to spend their emotions on someone else. You shouldn't have such generous thoughts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sometimes the more things are opposed, the more curious people will want to do, it is better to go with the flow, follow his heart, if he wants to meet, it is better not to let him go alone, you can accompany him to go, not only to fulfill his wishes, but also to declare himself as a girlfriend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Whether or not it should be allowed depends on the reason why your boyfriend is going to see his ex-girlfriend, if he really needs help or something like an emergency, it is understandable, if it is just two people catching up, it is definitely not allowed.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it depends on your feelings, if your relationship is solid enough, and you trust her enough, I think it's completely OK to allow him to meet the girl he likes, but if the relationship is not good, it is recommended not to meet.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think if your boyfriend really loves you, he won't go to meet the girls he used to like at all. Even if he goes to see him, he will take you, and if he really wants to meet on his own, then you should also consider your relationship, should you continue?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It should not be allowed. Just look at your boyfriend's attitude, and if he quarrels with you just because you don't let him see that girl, then just break up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's better not to allow it, if you want to let go of your previous feelings, there is no need to meet your previous girlfriend. Or maybe you ask what the situation is.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you have faith in your boyfriend, you can let him meet, but as your boyfriend, I don't think he should be either.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think it's okay to allow your boyfriend to meet the girls you liked before, because you can't stop it, so it's better to go with her.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think it's allowed, because this kind of behavior may rekindle the boyfriend's old feelings for the girl he liked before.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't think there's any need to stop him, he just goes if he wants to, if the heart is not on you, you can't stop it if you want to.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should allow it, since he has chosen you, you must also believe in him, he will not betray you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    They shouldn't be allowed, I think they can easily rekindle old feelings and make themselves feel uncomfortable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. It's also possible that this is different from person to person, your ex-boyfriend invited you to a friend's wedding, or he thinks you're mature enough to attend an event together as friends. Or maybe he just thinks you're going to enjoy going to the event and doesn't think too much about it.

    In any case, only he knows how he feels, and you'd better communicate with him clearly before attending the wedding to avoid any misunderstandings.

    I am a co-teacher who is good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, and tell me about your specific situation in detail if it is convenient for you to be next to Bigao

    Hello, can you tell the teacher in detail?

    1) He wants to keep in touch with you and wants you to be a friend of his friends; 2) He wants to introduce you to his friends.

    It's my ex-boyfriend who has a girlfriend who asked me to go to a friend's wedding.

    It's whose name is written on the gift money.

    His. He wanted to prove how good you see me, stepping on two boats, showing off something.

    Is it just eating in the bowl and looking at the pot?

    The teacher thinks so, and there is also a possibility that this matter varies from person to person, and your ex-boyfriend invited you to a friend's wedding, or that he thinks that you are mature enough to attend the event together as friends. Or maybe he just thinks you're going to enjoy going to the event and thinks too much about it if you don't do it. In any case, only he knows how he feels, and you'd better communicate with him clearly before attending the wedding to avoid any misunderstandings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. Dear, he may have wanted to learn something about you from your girlfriend, or they were friends too, and this was just their normal relationship.

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, why did he see my girlfriend.

    Dear, when he saw your girlfriend, he probably wanted to learn something about you from your girlfriend, or maybe he was also a friend, and this was just their normal coming-and-going.

    They made an appointment to meet, and my friend told me to go too, but I didn't go.

    Stopped talking? He should be trying to get closer to you again through your friends.

    As for whether your girlfriend sees him or not, it's a matter between the two of them, and you can communicate your thoughts with your girlfriend.

    Do you mind if your girlfriend meets him privately? Afraid they'll be fine? Or do you not want your girlfriend to have something to do with him?

    I don't know what his purpose is.

    Did he say anything to your girlfriend?

    He's in love with my friend again?

    The teacher said that this is just a possibility, it may be that she wants to understand you through her, or it is possible that they are in a normal relationship, depending on what he and she say.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello, I don't know how you and your boyfriend met. They used to have love, but they were separated under the opposition of their parents, and they had a certain emotional basis.

    Your boyfriend now says that the two are no longer in love, but this wedding photo should have been taken before the breakup. But I think men understand what a wedding photo means, it could be a woman's request, but the problem is that he still agreed, and it was in the case of an imminent separation. From this point of analysis, their feelings are still very deep.

    Is your boyfriend treating you well at the moment? People behave differently due to their personalities, and it is possible that they have become friends after having loved, which often happens in life because they are reconciled. Men are sometimes really a little concerned about a little nostalgia to see their former girlfriends, and the problem is not very big because people are on your side.

    But if you go beyond a certain boundary, the problem is difficult to say, and the direction of the mind will deviate. Therefore, you must be clear about your boyfriend's "pulse", see what his movements are, and occasionally knock on the side, so that it is not easy to make a lot of noise, so as to take the next step.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What's the worst in mind? - After the two of them met, your boyfriend broke up with you.

    As long as you can accept this ending in your heart, I don't think you will be so painful.

    Because you can't control your boyfriend, instead of trying to prevent him from meeting his ex-girlfriend, or having an affair. It's better to be nice to him now.

    The best way to treat him is to trust him. Accept everything about his past: taking wedding photos with his girlfriend, the original experience. These are things that can't be touched. You can only convince yourself to accept everything. Trust him enough.

    Heartache is caused by your infinite speculation.

    You can ask him: if the two of them are okay, they can introduce you to his ex-girlfriend, and since it turns out to be his friend, you can also become good friends with her.

    When you get in touch with many things, you find that they are not what you think. That woman may have a partner now, and she will marry that partner in the future.

    Don't give yourself so many bad hints and let go a little. Women live in style

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's sad again, protect yourself.

    It's the opposition of the parents, and it's not the ones who divide it.

    If he cherishes you, let alone an ex-girlfriend, or any other woman, you should not be in contact with again, and you are sad and painful, you have to talk to him.

    Don't be afraid to lose.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This man is very attentive, and very possessive, he may really not love the woman, but he just likes the feeling of being needed, looking for a sense of existence.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think this man is a little unreliable, a little bit of a broken feeling, you figure it out first, otherwise it is you who will suffer from the revival of the old love, if he really loves you very much, he will think about it, depending on how much he loves you, if he is like this again, I think it may be a very good choice for you to let go, because no one can stand the people who are with themselves thinking about others.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    This kind of man always makes excuses for his own heart Don't follow him Even if he is always by your side I can't take care of you Find another one There are many good men The more you care about him, the less he will cherish you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Well, the most important thing for you to be together right now is trust. Don't give birth to so many suspicions, it's not good for the relationship between you.

    This can only be said that the timing of her appearance is better than yours, and men always know how to cherish what they can't get or lose, and they will never be satisfied when they are around.

    Therefore, you have to be considerate and more tolerant, who doesn't have a past, since it is the past, let it pass!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    We haven't met your boyfriend and don't know who he is. So, you should learn to see a person clearly, and if your boyfriend is sincere to you, you should be generous, understand?

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