How to understand Lu You, Tang Wan and Shen Yuan s recollection of this love tragedy more than 40 ye

A hairpin head phoenix leads to a love tragedy that makes future generations cry, which can be said to be sad for those who hear it, and tears for those who listen to it. Lu You's biggest regret in his life is the love tragedy between him and his wife Tang Wan. Lu You and Tang Wan grew up together, and the friendship between the two was laid down in such a relationship, and the Lu family had already set a family affair for the two with a phoenix hairpin as a token, and the two families were quite satisfied with this marriage.

But the so-called happiness is sad, Lu You's mother wants her son to gain fame, after Lu You and Tang Wan got married, there was a delay in learning, and Lu's mother blamed Tang Wan for all the responsibility, plus Tang Wan was a stone girl, and dissatisfied, Lu's mother ordered Lu You to take a leave of absence from Tang Wan.

Lu You has always been filial, and he had no choice but to divorce Tang Wan, and soon after, Lu's mother arranged a wife for him, and Tang Wan was also in charge of the family and remarried Zhao Shicheng. A pair of loving mandarin ducks were broken up in this way, but the two did not let go of their feelings for each other, seven years later, Lu You met Tang Wan in Shen Yuan, this was the first time the two met after separation, but everything has long been different.

Looking at Tang Wan, who was a little emaciated, and Zhao Shicheng who was accompanying him, Lu You was heartbroken, and after they separated, he wrote the song "Hairpin Phoenix" on the wall of Shen Yuan, and Tang Wan later also inscribed a poem "Hairpin Phoenix" next to Lu Youci.

Decades later, Lu You was seventy-five years old, at this time Tang Wan had been dead for decades, he revisited his hometown, the last time he met Tang Wan and Zhao Shicheng here, now forty years have passed, under the touch of the scene, I only feel that the feelings of longing have increased unabated, so I wrote a group of "Shen Yuan Two Songs".

The first poem is to recall the encounter in Shen Yuan that year, and the words reveal a deep sadness, "The sun on the city paints a corner of mourning". "The sun is slanting on the city", this is the time, indicating that the poet went to Shen Garden in the evening, the sun was bleak, and when the sun set, Shen Garden began to become sad; "Painting the horn" is a musical instrument, and "mourning" is the poet's state of mind, which is an auditory image.

Shen Yuan is not a restoration of the old pond", this is a beautiful sad scene, the poet has long cast a tragic color on Shen Yuan, Shen Yuan is no longer the original Shen Yuan.

Shen Yuan is a place of happiness and a place of sadness for poets, but as long as you can see Tang Wan's face again, what is it even if it is sad? But Tang Wan has long passed away, and the poet can only relive the old dreams and talk about comfort, so the poet tries his best to return to the old scenes.

Sad spring wave green under the bridge, once a shocking shadow came", "spring wave green under the bridge", as in the past, it seems that the old people came, but this scene caused not joy, but sad memories. More than 40 years ago, Tang Wan appeared in such a landscape, and more than 40 years later, this shocking photo is gone, leaving the poet in the world to miss it.

First of all, Lu You and Tang Wan are deeply affectionate and like-minded, and the husband and wife spent the happiest time of their lives. It's like the first love in everyone's heart, it's always the best.

Secondly, after Lu You and Tang Wan were forced to break up, Lu You had ups and downs in the sea, and there was no way to serve the country. Even more sad.

It is difficult for people to let go of their best love.

The love tragedy between Lu You and Tang Wan is because Lu's mother feels that Tang Wan will affect Lu You's exam and will be detrimental to Lu You's career in the future. Because Tang Wan is a talented woman, and Lu You is a talented woman, the talented and beautiful two people have a common topic together, and all the best things are literary things all day long. And the Lu family is a famous family, Lu Oak's mother hopes that Lu You can gain fame and become a member of the court, how can she allow her son to be affected by her children's personal affairs and find it difficult to enter the office.

So the arbitrary mother Lu forced Lu You and Tang Wan to divorce.

In order to completely cut off the thoughts of the two, Lu's mother immediately arranged another marriage, and let Lu You marry the virtuous Wang as his wife. Lu Yousheng was born in a family with such a strict family education, and he had no choice but to give up his love.

A few years later, Lu You met Tang Wan and her husband Zhao Shicheng while visiting Shen Garden. At this time, only those who have loved can experience the sadness at this time, and in addition to the sadness, the song "Hairpin Phoenix Red Crisp Hand" that has been handed down to this day was inscribed on the wall of Shen Yuan. "Wrong, wrong, wrong!

Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and tears are red and silky. "Sang the past in the hearts of many people.

Five years later, Tang Wan died in depression, Lu You was grief-stricken, and later sang poems to remember Shen Yuan many times, and Shen Yuan became the place where he missed Tang Wan. Shen Yuan is famous for this to this day.

The dream has been broken for forty years, and Shen Yuanliu does not blow the cotton. This body is a mountain and soil, and it is still a trace of it. This is the "Shen Garden" made by Lu You forty years after Tang Wan's death, which shows that Shen Yuan has become the carrying place for Lu You to place his thoughts on Tang Wan.

The love story between Lu You and Tang Wan is completely a tragedy produced under the oppression of feudal etiquette, and the idea that "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented" respected by the ancients has been passed down for thousands of years.

And this kind of "almost getting married, the idea that feelings are slowly cultivated, is still very popular in many places". There is a high probability that such a compromise will be regretted for the rest of our lives. Lead is stuffy.

Life should be born free, to live happily, not to live numbly.

If I'm not mistaken, it was Lu You's mother who disagreed.