After Tang Wan was divorced by Lu You, who did she marry?

Zhao Shicheng was a royal family of the Song Dynasty.

Because Lu You's mother didn't like Tang Wan very much, she wanted the two of them to separate and let Lu You remarry, but Lu You listened to his mother's words, so they divorced.

Lu You's favorite person must be Tang Wan, mainly because Lu You's mother beat the mandarin ducks and broke them up, making them fly apart.

Because of love. When Zhao Shicheng and Tang Wan met, Tang Wan was immersed in the pain of Lu You's separation, but Zhao Shicheng didn't care about her past at all, let alone that this woman couldn't have children, and passed on to her family. So the two young men got married.

When Zhao Shicheng took Tang Wan to the garden, he met Lu You, an old man who Tang Wan couldn't let go. At this time, after Lu You divorced Tang Wan, he had already married several concubines, but he didn't bring him a different love affair like Tang Wan back then.

What makes people sigh is that this Tang Wan died depressed not long after seeing Lu You, but Zhao Shicheng never married her for the rest of her life. On the other hand, Lu You married several concubines after Tang Wan.

The world is thin and gracious, and the two songs "Hairpin Phoenix" have exhausted the love that Lu You and Tang Wan begged for.

In ancient times, when men and women got married, they followed the words of their parents and matchmakers. Parents who love their children, for the happiness of their children, often choose familiar people.

Why? Because of the auspicious song, only familiar people can understand each other's character and family, and can reduce the unhappiness of marriage to the greatest extent. This is the reason why there are many people who marry brothers and cousins.

The marriage between the great poet Lu You and Peiyan's wife Tang Wan is also in accordance with the words of the matchmaker according to the orders of their parents, but there is a sincerity in it. Tang Wan is said to be the only daughter of Tang Hong in Zhengzhou, the Tang family and the Lu family are familiar with each other, the two children are about the same age, and when they grow up, they naturally marry the two families.

When they reached the age, the two families discussed their relatives, and the Lu family used an ancestral hairpin phoenix as a token to set Tang Wan as a daughter-in-law. And Lu You and Tang Wan's childhood sweethearts grew up, and they are also happy about this family affair.

After Lu You and Tang Wan got married, the husband and wife had a deep relationship, and they were truly in love. Everyone is quite satisfied with this marriage, but only Lu's mother is dissatisfied.

Even later, Lu's mother gave a death order and let Lu You take a break from Tang Wan. Lu You loved his wife and was reluctant to do so, but his mother forced him to do so, and filial piety pressed him, and in the end, a pair of mandarin ducks were broken up.

As for why Lu Mu had to let Lu You take a break from Tang Wan, later generations speculated that there were several reasons.

First, Tang Wan married Lu You for three years and never got pregnant, so Lu's mother was dissatisfied with her, and finally let Lu You leave his wife.

Second, after Lu You got married, he had a good relationship with Tang Wan. He is obsessed with his husband and wife Dunlun, and he and Tang Wan are in love with each other. Therefore, he delayed his studies for the sake of affection, and Lu You was pinned on by Lu's mother, who did not want her son to abandon his studies because of Tang Wan, so he asked Lu You to leave his wife.

Third, it is also said that Tang Wan's style of acting may be more enlightened. After marrying Lu You, some behaviors made Lu's mother very unaccustomed to it, so she forced Lu You to divorce his wife.

Fourth, in the end, it was said that Tang Wan did not get along well with her sisters-in-law, and finally forced Lu's mother to forcibly divorce his wife.

There are so many reasons, no matter which one is the real reason, in short, Lu You and Tang Jin Zheng Wan are separated. Lu You was forced by his mother to marry Wang, and Tang Wan also married Zhao Shicheng under the influence of his family.

After marrying Zhao Shicheng, although he did not have the same hot relationship with Lu You. But Zhao Shicheng's gentle care also gave Tang Wan comfort in her emotional failure.

Under Zhao Shicheng's care, Tang Wan gradually walked out of the pain. On the other hand, Lu You also started his new journey, entering the imperial examination, adding officials to knighthood, and experiencing political fluctuations.

After the two separated, Shen Yuan met by chance. Zhao Shicheng generously allowed Tang Wan to meet with Lu You, so that Shen Yuan met, Lu You left "Hairpin Phoenix", Tang Wanying and "Hairpin Phoenix".

The two poems are sad to ask for love but not love, but life is impermanent, fate is inseparable, and the moment Lu You chooses his mother, it is no longer possible to be with Tang Wan.

It's just that there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Lu You's mother doesn't look at Tang Wan, Lu You is a dutiful son, and he can only obey his mother.

Tang Wan and Lu You are cousins, and they often play together, so they are childhood sweethearts, and their relationship is extraordinary, and they have set up family affairs since childhood. Because Tang Wan is a talented woman, she knows Lu You's articles very well and knows his needs. After the two of them are together, the relationship between the young couple is very good, and they stick together every day.

But Lu You's mother was not satisfied, her daughter-in-law didn't seem to be very sensible, and she should have persuaded her husband to focus more on studying, so that she could gain fame and glory to her ancestors. However, she took care of her own enjoyment, and now the two of them spent most of their time on fun, forgetting to study, and naturally her mother-in-law was very dissatisfied. Later, this mother-in-law must divorce her wife by Lu You.

In ancient times, most sons were very obedient to their mother's words, and if they were not filial, they would be pointed at and scolded by others. In the end, Lu You chose to give up love, gave up his favorite, and gave his cousin a divorce. After Tang Wan was retired, she was taken by another man, who was still a royal nobleman.

The man loves her very much, and even if there are no children in common, the relationship is still very good. Later, when Lu You visited Shen Garden, he met Tang Wan, remembered the story with his cousin, and wrote a poem.

Actually, I think some of our marriages are similar to the marriages of the two of them. If your wife is not compatible with your mother, some of them are more stupid and filial, or they are more mother-in-law, and they should choose to give up their wives and choose their own mothers. Therefore, when choosing an object, don't choose a mother's man, don't choose a person who has no opinions, otherwise you will ask for hardship.

Women are all vulnerable, and when choosing the other half, keep your eyes open.

The credible claim is that Tang Wan has been infertile. In ancient times, unfilial piety was the greatest, and Lu's mother couldn't accept the reality that Tang Wan couldn't continue the descendants for the Lu family, so she strongly asked Lu You to divorce his wife.

Because Lu You's mother doesn't like Tang Wan. In addition, Tang Wan did not give birth to children for Lu You, and Lu You's mother used this as an excuse to ask Lu You to repair Tang Wan.

Because Lu You's mother was not satisfied, this couple would end up in divorce, I think it's really a pity, if it weren't for his mother, a series of tragic things wouldn't have happened later.