Playing with my classmates today, I made my classmates anxious

He shouldn't be beaten. Like you said, you also want to have a good relationship with him. Everyone is playing, why take it seriously, maybe your classmate will regret beating you.

Friendship requires mutual understanding. You are the one who has provoked him, so you should take the initiative to talk to him and stop pursuing this matter. As long as everyone can be happy, it's OK o( o

You tell him that I have gone too far in this matter, I hope he doesn't mind, these two slaps should make amends for you, you should ask for his understanding, after all, you provoked others, and everyone is angry.

No, you should go to class as usual and let him think calmly. Oh, why did he hit you? After figuring it out, sit down and talk, no matter how you can't hit someone, discuss it carefully.

If it's a friend, it's something to forget. How can there be no friction in the process of becoming a good friend from a stranger, and whether you can become a good friend in the end depends on how you resolve the conflict. Moreover, since you didn't have a seizure on the spot, you don't have to mention it afterwards, otherwise you will look stingy.

Why not return it? If it's me, I'll pay it back, and if it's a true friend, I'll mind, and if it's not a true friend, I'll reconcile immediately, so let's see what I do.

It doesn't matter if there is a fight between brothers, if you don't say it quickly, he must feel guilty about you afterwards. Think differently about what you would think and do if you were him.

Flatten him and use your fist to tell him why the flowers are so red.

What do you want to do when you make people angry?

Take the initiative to admit your mistakes and apologize, ask the other party not to be angry with a sincere attitude, and pay attention to the next time you speak.

There are generally no major conflicts between classmates, but everyone bears a different bottom line for joking about this kind of thing. Maybe you think it's a joke, but in the eyes of the other person, it's a hurt, even an insult.

Sincerely admit your mistakes to the other party, and never say that the other party can't afford to joke. Joking between classmates is not a big deal in itself, even if you go too far and the other person gets angry, it's not a big deal.

But to solve this problem, you must quickly admit your mistake and apologize, and this kind of thing cannot be delayed. If you don't apologize at this time, this matter will become an obstacle in the relationship between the two of you, and the matter will accumulate more and more serious, and you may never be friends again in the future.

Another very important point is not to say that the other party can't afford to make jokes, because jokes have no specific boundaries, the standards are different, and the jokes in your eyes may be the other party's sore spots.

After apologizing, make a promise that you won't make such jokes in the future. In fact, this sentence has little specific significance, and you may still not be able to control yourself in your later life, but it is necessary to say this sentence at this time.

After you say this, you can make the other person feel the sincerity of your apology, not just perfunctory. As for whether you can do it in the future, that's a matter for later, at least for now, your relationship won't be affected.

A lot of jokes in life are easy to make, because you don't know what other people have experienced, and you don't know if the joke in your eyes is poking at someone else's sadness.

This is true for classmates, and so are friends. When you're with someone, pay attention to proportions and scales when joking. There are many things that cannot be joked about, and the other person's experience is different from yours, which may lead to different laughter from you.

When you hurt someone, you must be brave enough to apologize, there is no shame in it.

Learning to respect others is the true respect for oneself in life.

Jokes should also be moderate, depending on the other party's personality, if it is indeed overdone, sincerely apologize to the other party, and be careful not to make similar jokes next time.

Hurry up and coax, explain to her that you didn't mean it, and next time you have to pay special attention to this kind of joke, you can't make it in front of him.

Then you don't have to joke with him in the future, like some people he doesn't want others to joke with him, or he can't tell the difference between a joke and the truth. For everyone's convenience, you don't make such jokes in the future.

Xiao A's attitude may be related to her growth environment, she is afraid of losing, including relatives and friends, and is very afraid of others' betrayal of her, as long as you tell her your feelings for her and will never betray, she should accept it.

You can go to her, or in QQ.

Tell her that you value her very much, regard her as your best friend, and the person you value most besides your relatives, so she ignores you and you feel very unhappy. You want your friendship to last forever.

I read it about it, which means that she doesn't want to pay attention to you in the last few days, I'm a very introverted person, and if it were me, I'd wait a few days, be silent for a few days, and then smile and face her, and it's boring to pester every day.

I once had a falling out with my tablemate, and she was so angry that she tore over my desk, and then I talked to her for a week, and somehow we reconciled, but all I could say was that my tablemate was a very nice girl.

It's all personal opinion, and it's unlikely to work for you.

Didn't you tell the male classmate? You can't be blamed for that! Since they are good friends and know each other well, you treat her as well as you always and talk to her. After a long time, she forgot about it, hehe.

It's really a good friend who will naturally reconcile after a break in time, and there is no need to think too much about how to apologize.

No matter who is afraid of a word "entanglement", it is only a matter of time before she is pestered every day to forgive.

Most of the junior high school students are in adolescence, and their personalities are more rebellious, first of all, he didn't change the password to prove that things are not irreparable, you can pretend to be depressed for a few days, and sincerely apologize in person on the last day of the final exam, after all, you did not do it right.

If he continues to ignore you. Then I think you can give up and let it be. If you are a person, you should have a bottom line, and if you exceed this bottom line, I'm sorry, how much love is, and you don't have to destroy your bottom line in order not to take you as a friend.

On the other hand, if he treats you as a friend, then all problems will not be a problem.

That's all.

He is annoyed and angry, his privacy is clearly seen by you, will you not be angry if you change someone's password? Take your time, his anger will disappear, you just take the opportunity to talk to him first, just say boring things, don't take the initiative to mention the number theft, and you shouldn't let your classmates discuss it in the group, so it's so difficult for him to **, the things that should be angry are endlessly mentioned, and I can't forgive you. Can you tell me how I stole the number?

Because you're good friends, maybe you were angry with you on purpose. Is he a man or a woman? What about you? If it's a girl, it's not easy to solve. The relationship between boys and girls should be carefully **.

If you are a girl, you may be really angry, so you can ask a good friend to inquire about the military and then solve it. It's much simpler.

If you want a boy, ask him privately, or follow the above method (which is the best way I can think of).

I don't know if it's useful.

Did you trouble him a lot by stealing his number? This kind of joke is actually not very ......If you do, he won't forgive you because of his emotional intelligence, or he doesn't see you as a friend at all.

Retaliation: Prepare the evidence, prepare the language, tell the teacher.

Optimistic: If he provokes you, you should change your attitude and face it with humor, so that others will recognize you more and think that you are broad-minded.

Battle: Defeat the opponent with powerful words, such as: Humph!

Look at you like that! Waste of air alive, waste of land when you die, waste of life coins if you are half-dead! When I see your head, I think of the surface of the moon, when I see your face, I think of the scene of the car accident, when I see your body, I think of Transformers, and when I see you, I want to vomit!

Metaphor: Let me tell you a story, there is a zoo, there is an orangutan in the garden, it is very ugly, one day, I go in, after a while, I throw up, the next day, you go in, and after a while, the orangutan throws up.

Silent type: ignore him, do your own thing, and don't bother to care about him.

Torment: Set a trap and fix him, e.g. put something on the door and when she (he) comes in, the thing hits him or her head.

Bright type: Just find a few people and a few meals!

1.If it is a matter of principle, it cannot be tolerated. Equality and respect are the first principles of interpersonal communication.

In the interaction with classmates, there is a principled problem and still tolerate, that is, it is too much concession, which only reinforces the inappropriate behavior and attitude of others, which is equivalent to teaching the other party not to take the feelings of the person concerned.

At this time, there are many ways to solve the problem, individuals should be calm, and it is not recommended to use radical means to solve it! Because solving problems in this state must not be the best state to solve problems, and what is done is often not beneficial to both parties, and it is not a rational way to solve problems.

2.If it's not a matter of principle, laugh it off! Don't worry too much! In communication, students should have a tolerant heart. Sometimes it is necessary to make timely and measured forbearance and compromise.

If he does it on purpose, even if he is really angry in his heart, he must pretend to be calm on the surface, because he provokes you just to see you angry, to see you make a fool of yourself, and if you are angry, it is to fulfill his conspiracy. But if you behave uncharacteristically, he will be depressed and unhappy. It's you who wins.

But if he is unintentional, then find his own reasons first, and then forgive him, after all, no one will really take pleasure in making others angry, so we have to be calm, otherwise, it will hurt...

Hope it helps you ...