Is it easy to be a good person, and is it easy to be a good person?

It's hard to be a good person. So be a good person.

It is more difficult to be a good person than to be a bad person, because doing bad things often only requires thinking about yourself, balancing the pros and cons, and considering the gains and losses; But being a good person is different, sometimes things happen suddenly, and you don't have time to evaluate personal gains and losses and consider risks. In your daily life, you will feel that it is difficult to be a good person if you help others but are taken for granted, you are asked for help unjustly, and you are kindly accused of helping others. 1. Take the initiative to help others, but take it for granted, at this time you will feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

Under normal circumstances, when you take the initiative to help others, you should get the other party's kind thanks, but sometimes, when you take the initiative to help others, you will take it for granted, and even think that it is wrong for you not to help him. 2. Being excessively demanded when helping others will make you feel that it is difficult to be a good person. Generally speaking, when a person receives the help of others and their difficulties are solved, they will express their gratitude to the other party and no longer accept the help of the other party, but some people ask for too much when they accept the help of others, and turn the help of others into their own improper profits, at this time, it will make people feel that it is difficult for a good person to do the idea, 3, originally he was kind enough to help others, but he was accused for no reason, and he will feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

Sometimes, when we help others with good intentions, we get unwarranted accusations instead of gratitude, and the other party ignores our help and pesters and blames them for what they are not satisfied with. This situation can be very chilling and lead to the idea that it is difficult for good people to do it. The above situations are not uncommon in interpersonal communication, so when we want to help others, we must first think about how to protect ourselves, so that we can be a really good person.

It has become a social fact that good people are difficult to be, and some news that has been seen on TV in the past is disheartening, and good people often have to pay a lot of costs.

For example, if you are walking on the road, you suddenly see an old man falling, you can't help it, in fact, everyone should want to help out of kindness, but there are too many examples of being touched by the old man in front of us, we should quietly learn from the lessons of the past, so the hand that was just about to be stretched out was withdrawn, because we don't have so much money in our pockets, and there is no way to help others, which is really ironic.

It's no wonder that people are becoming more and more indifferent now, because those who have done good deeds have not received due honor, but have been pitted very depressed, so more and more people have chosen to be silent, and when someone needs to see unevenness on the road, everyone has become a silent lamb. One day, I finally encountered such a thing, of course, not because I was brave, but because I did good deeds that made people unhappy, and let me see what Mr. Dongguo and the wolf, and what the farmer and the snake are.

Here's the thing, I'm a car family, when I go to work, I usually drive, because there is a colleague is on the way, so he takes my car home every day, at the beginning he was always very embarrassed, and especially thanked me, but over time it became a habit to get in the car, and then there was no need to say thank you, I even became his full-time driver, one day I had other things without waiting for him to go directly, When I got home, I received his **, expressing great dissatisfaction, and even asked me why I didn't drive him when I went home, I said that I had something to do and left first, and he complained that I didn't tell him in advance, is my own car I want to go and ask you for leave? It's really hilarious.

It can be seen that it is indeed difficult to be a good person, you are a good person 10,000 times, as long as one day you are not as good as his mind, you will become a bad person, if you are a bad person every day, one day you are a good person, that person will be grateful to Dade for remembering your goodness.

There are very few good people in the true sense, and it is difficult to do, most of the time as long as we can do it with a clear conscience, it is very good! 1. What is a good person? A good person should be a degree of recognition in people's hearts after a long period of communication, or people's reputation and evaluation of him.

But in any case, a good person must have the following three basic conditions: Be kind at heart and sympathize with others; Be kind and don't ask for anything in return; Honesty and integrity, tolerant of problems;

In addition to having these basic conditions, I think it should be divided into: talented and good people; Usually good guys; mediocre good people; Incompetent good guys. Talented and good people.

Be reasonable and tolerant of people, distinguish between right and wrong, have talent and knowledge, and be able to truly seek good deeds for others, do good deeds for mankind, and be famous for generations. This kind of good person can accept the results (gains, losses, good and bad), do moderately, adjust things after accepting, cross the good and the evil, and go up as good as water, so as to nourish all things and accommodate all things. The result is to save others, save oneself, and complete merit, which is revered.

Usually good guys; It is what we call a good person in the general sense, who is honest and kind, charitable, compassionate, willing to listen to the suffering of others, and willing to stretch out his hands to help others without asking for anything in return. There are also certain talents and standards of right and wrong, but they often have good thoughts and are good at themselves.

This kind of good person gives money to the outside world, understands himself, can only accept one-way results, do what others need, save others with kindness, and have compassion and compassion. The result is to save others, sacrifice oneself, and achieve good fortune, which is likable. mediocre good people;

Personality is clear, people are difficult to accept, simple-minded, self-willed, external pressure, unclear balance, all kinds of results can not be accepted, others are pressured to be good to themselves, bad to themselves and angry, do according to their own ideas, morality, but not too much. Imposing on others, imposing on oneself, hating others and hating oneself cannot be balanced. The result is no harm to others, no harm to oneself, no virtue and no blessing, and it is tireless.

Incompetent good guys. That is to say, the good old man, this kind of person is more negative than positive; Sigh a lot, too little fierceness, talent and work mediocrity, right and wrong, see people are good people, dare not openly say different opinions, no virtue, I still can't feel it, why do you say that there is no virtue, you are not according to the needs of others to help people, but according to what you think is good or bad to help people, not good or wrong, is you not found good, others do not need your help, you have to help others, is that good? Take your own reason, treat others, treat your family, and treat the world.

In the end, when the result did not match the expectations, I was sad and disappointed, feeling that my kindness was not reciprocated, but I didn't understand what kind of heart I had. This kind of person has no opinion and vacillates. The result is no benefit to others, no benefit to others, and no good reward People's instinct is self-interest, and to be a good person is to take into account the feelings of others when doing one's own thing, minimize the harm, or remedy it from other aspects.

In fact, being a good person is also a way of dealing with the world, and you can reserve your own network, and the so-called good person is that all aspects of the relationship are handled more harmoniously. Thank you.