At what point did you feel that the family affection was now very weak?

A few days ago, I had a long talk with the teacher and found out that I was a child whose parents did not give much love, and the teacher asked me if I felt that my parents owed me? I said, "Forget it, I'm grown up anyway, it's too late." Suddenly, after saying this, tears came out.

I just answered my father's call**, and I knew the content of the call before I answered it, yes, except for asking for money, there was no word of concern and greetings. Over the years, my parents have asked me for money not much, but I can't let go of it every time, I am angry, I am angry, I want to ask them why, but no, I know that they are getting older, and I feel sorry for their hard work. But who has ever felt sorry for me?

I have mom and dad, I have an older sister, an older brother and a younger brother. But I have been a girl in Shenzhen for six years, how many grievances and helplessness I have had, I was so sad that when I cried, my family members gave me a trace of warmth, and my parents gave me the most dissatisfaction and blame.

Just now, the kitten at home broke a large bottle of aged vinegar and jumped up and down very squeezingly, and I was locked on the balcony in a fit of anger to reflect. Just when the little one screamed heartbreakingly, the big cat (the kitten's own mother) immediately rushed to the balcony. A piece of poop was quickly pulled from the litter box in the corner of the hall separated by a glass door, buried it, and then walked back to the room leisurely, completely ignoring the small existence.

The little one thought that his mother had come to save it, but he was completely stunned when he saw this scene.

Not wanting to expect anything from them anymore, they wait for me to say thank you, I wait for them to say sorry. We didn't get what we wanted, obviously it was the first time to be parents, but I never reflected on what I did wrong in this role and said the wrong thing, it was they who made me have no expectations for "family", I just wanted to live a good life by myself.

When I was a child, I wanted a Barbie doll very much, envied other little girls, and always watched others play. I didn't want to take the general high school score line, and I refused to spend money for me to change a better environment, thinking that it was the same everywhere, and when my little sister went to school, I tried every possible way to change to a better school, thinking that the environment affected people. Children who want to buy a camera to learn photography are ignored, and even have to have wisdom teeth extracted are ignored Children who grow up in poverty and ignorance can only rely on themselves to change their material and spiritual deficiencies, without any support, they can grow up with enough food, and it is already a miracle that they did not get depressed at a very young age.

When you don't have a boyfriend yet, you talk every day about what will happen to your room when you get married later. When you have a boyfriend and they are not satisfied, you talk about the water spilled by your married daughter every day. When the only son in the family bought a house, they were willing to take out all their savings, but they said to you that I will not leave you a penny when you get married in the future.

When they want to buy something and lack something and are in a bad mood, they will complain and complain to you at the first time, but in their hearts, you will never be the most important. When their son is a little bit unhappy, he always comes to you at various times, wanting you to help guide his only son, without thinking about whether you have also been through hardships. It's as if you're here to help him keep an eye on and protect his only son.

For them, they don't want to share when they're happy, and they don't want to talk when they're sad. When I think about it, it's all bad things in life. The most hateful thing is that I have told myself thousands of times to be grateful and understand, but I still can't find a sense of belonging and true love in my heart, thinking that they will be in a bad mood, even if I know that this is wrong, but I still can't control it.

I hate my own indifference, and I can't get rid of it.

Probably all the negative energy in the body comes from them, probably because they cry until their hearts ache, probably because they don't dare to rely on and love anyone anymore, probably because they won't be happy if they stay by their side, probably no sense of belonging, probably no sense of home, probably no sense of trust in any family, probably precocious.

A person ran to the street and cried, going back and forth in circles, not knowing where to go, looking at the car lights whistling on the street, the little couples playing on the street, the warm lights in the building, as if I was the only one drifting in the world, a word of concern can make me cry.

I also have a big temper and always quarrel with them. Because in my consciousness, even though you are my parents, you can't insult me at will. I resisted not to show that I was better than you, but to be equal.

Actually, it stands to reason that I shouldn't have answered this question. Compared to some of the worse families, my family is pretty good. But compared to some of the better families, my family is even worse.

Could it be that I am too extravagant to hope for peace and joy, and that my family will be equal and harmonious?I've never suffered since I was a child. The pain can be endured, and the pain can be eaten.

Almost no one can hurt me easily, and I can say that it is very tearful and not flicked. But I've cried a lot in my life, because my parents are the only exception.

First of all, I think it has something to do with the current environment, let's talk about our 80s and 90s generation of children, and it can't be said that we are weak about family affection, we can only say that the current life is pressing us, and there is no energy to manage the so-called personal feelings, most of the children in this era are only children, and at the age of about 30, they are all married and started a business, and the children of rich families may struggle less, but they should also be weak for family affection.

After all, their parents were working hard when they were young, and there was no extra time to accompany their growth, so the so-called family affection, I think it should be relatively light, and ordinary children may have a really good relationship with their parents when they were young, but with the start of a family, all kinds of trivial things in life, the pressure of work, when put together, there is really no way to take care of so much, in fact, it is not that they are not filial and do not know how to be grateful, but the times give them no way to stop, this age is old, and there is young, how can you do it if you don't fight! Also, most of them are only children, and sometimes they really can't help themselves.

For example, myself, my husband and I are only children, although I am not too far away, about 40 minutes by car, but if there is anything at my mother's house, there is really no way to separate, especially when my parents are sick, I have to work, the child is still young, my husband and I can only drive back and forth, the hospital, the unit, the family, the body and energy are going to run empty, at that time I really want to have one more person to share how good it is, outsiders may say when they see it, your mother is hospitalized, why don't you accompany it all day, In fact, my mother is a minor operation, and I want to accompany me all the time, but real life can't make me quit my job, and I can't let me ignore the newborn baby.

There will definitely be similar experiences in the future, my parents understand us very well, but when they really grow old, can we resist the burden on our shoulders? 80 and 90's of us are a lonely generation, when we were young, there were no brothers and sisters to accompany us, when we grew up, there were no brothers and sisters to filial piety to our parents, and when we were old, there were no brothers and sisters to move around the family, we in this era are eager for family affection and cannot be sought, it is selfish or wronged, anyway, we really have our helplessness, we can only say that each has its own life, and fight against its own life to the end, for their parents, filial piety or filial piety, for those who need to be grateful, we should say thank you or need to say, These are all personal opinions, don't spray if you don't like it.

The pace of life is fast, and there is less time to spare, even if there is time, the Internet is so developed, there is so much entertainment, there is more time to go to recreation, and there is less communication, and less communication, less communication, and less affection.

Because today's society is under great pressure, they are all focused on their careers and want to have a better life, so they ignore the family and family around them, and we should immediately improve this behavior.

Because the pace of life is too fast, the work is too busy, and it is normal to have no time to contact their relatives, and it may be that everyone takes money too seriously.

Because life is more realistic now, rich is a big man, after all, people now pay more attention to their own careers, hoping to have certain achievements in their careers.

Because there is too much news about indifferent family affection in society. So other people were affected. But I think family is still a very important part of your life.

Because technology is becoming more and more developed, everyone spends their time on these electronic products, and they will care less about their families, so family affection is getting weaker and weaker.

Because people nowadays spend most of their time looking at their mobile phones, there is no communication with their relatives, so family affection is getting weaker and weaker.

Because people are getting busier and busier to know how to pursue their own spiritual feelings, they ignore family affection.

Xu Yan. An epidemic has made the relationship between brothers fade unconsciously, which makes people feel so troubled.

A few years ago, on the twenty-fifth day of the lunar month, the children of the Daqiang brothers got married. This is a policy and an order.

I don't know what the third child of Daqiang's family thinks, he has to hold a wedding, and he has to do it big. The guests who came could not sit down. Let him go to the hotel to hold it, but he is too expensive, so he has to hold it at Daqiang's house to entertain guests.

Daqiang is a decent person, he said to the third child: "At the moment of the epidemic, so many people are having dinner, in my house, what should I do?" Who is responsible if there is a positive case? ”

Besides, at the end of the year, the family is busy buying New Year's goods, and the yard is small, so I don't want messy people to gather here.

Da Qiang's refusal directly offended his brother, saying that Da Qiang's family was not close to people.

During the Spring Festival, the daughter-in-law married by his brother's family did not go to Daqiang's house to pay New Year's greetings, and when their children got married, although Daqiang gave thousands of yuan of worship money, no one in his brother's family took care of Daqiang's family.

Daqiang and his family felt that his brother's children were less taught. The family relationship between the two families has become weaker and weaker because of an epidemic.

This has to make people sigh: people, there is no education at all. Do you think it's okay to harm the interests of others for your own benefit?

In the era of market economy, there is no going back to the era when a vegetable and a little fruit were handed over through the wall.

At that time, the family was sick and dead of a chicken, shedding its hair, and doing it in the pot, and would send half a bowl to the neighbors. Now there is no such simple picture anymore.

People's hearts have changed. Now, people's hearts are becoming more and more greedy, more selfish, and more inflated. One day, that swollen heart will burst with greedy desires. The fading family affection may be revived from the explosive desire.

Getting weaker and fainter, and even the family affection that no longer exists, are you **?

In the train of life, we will all meet different people. These different people have their own characteristics and bring us a variety of lives. Maybe when you are far away, you feel that family affection is very valuable.

Youth and ignorance when we are youngIn the time of youth and ignorance, most of us are based on friendship. I believe that when you are rebellious in your youth, you are very troubled by the nagging of your parents, and you think that you have no common topic with them. In fact, the love of parents is only expressed in different types, and occasionally they will cause misunderstandings between each other because of love.

Some parents and children are not good at expressing themselves, and this misunderstanding is getting bigger and bigger. In the end, it leads to the fading of family affection in our hearts when we are young, and friendship becomes more and more important in our hearts. When we grew up, we discovered the importance of family affection, and when we went to high school or college to work, we found more and more that the world is very realistic, and there is nothing more important in the world than family affection.

So now when we look back on the mistakes we've made in the past, we become more and more annoyed, so much so that when we want to make up for something, we find that we can't fix it.

In fact, as long as our parents are alive, we still have a chance to get along. All the love in the world can't resist the sinister love of relatives, and all love can't resist the love of family is real. Too many things in this world are complicated, and the love of our relatives for us is the simplest, purest, and most selfless.

Especially when we are far away from home to work or study, we miss this love very much. Therefore, we need to be kind to our parents in a timely manner.