How I should treat him, how I should decide my life

Some people may say that if real life is too far apart, maybe these two people may not go too long, although I also agree with some of them, but from another point of view: maybe at the beginning this kind of person will feel very chatty, there are a lot of things that can be said together, but I haven't really thought about it, when you know too much, the topic is too the same when you feel very boring, because there is no freshness for both parties, but if the life circle is not quite the same, At first, you will feel that there is less common ground and common language than the former, but later on, when you feel that the topic is not from the same angle, you will feel that the other party has a lot to share with you. Don't think too much, it's good for everyone to open your heart like this, maybe he doesn't look like it but you think too much, and misunderstandings arise.

At that time, you want to save this again. You can only hide in the corner and cry because you didn't cherish it at that time.

True love is only once in a lifetime, and at that time, you will give all your feelings and energy, and once you lose it, that kind of feelings and energy will never appear in another person again. Maybe you have already given that "only" feeling, I hope to be practical now, think more about the future, whether it is marriage or life, if he can give you all kinds of happiness now, then, cherish it, be content and happy. He's gone, and you'll probably be even sadder.

Don't think too much about loving someone, and don't dare to do anything if you think too much! Don't be afraid of what life circle is far behind, it is not an obstacle to love at all! As long as you're happy with him, and have something to say, as long as he's someone who can spend your whole life with you!

That's enough.

Don't let the shadow of your previous love stop you from pursuing your own happiness, spend every day happily with him, this is what you have to do now!

Do you know why people are always in pursuit of happiness? Because they can never see the happiness in front of them!

There is a poem that is well written: Once the sea was difficult to water! Now that it's all in the past, why bother thinking about the past? You have such a good boyfriend now, you should feel happy, cherish everything now, you will feel happy!

Your experience is not exciting, but the ending is very good!

I hope that I will eventually have this life myself.

Be brave enough to accept it!

Even if you lose it later, at least you have it.

Besides, such a good man, how can you lose him! Have faith in yourself!

It's because you're so afraid of losing that love.

There is no such thing as perfection in the world.

How life treats us depends on how we treat life.

Every day, I always feel very tired: I am stuck at work during the day, even if I don't have any work, I am still in the office, and I have to sit for 8 hours; When I go home at night, I have to deal with some chores, family, life, friends, and myself, go on the Internet, greet friends, and write blogs.

The only free time I have every day is at night. I was busy in front of the computer, and it was late at night in the blink of an eye, so I lay down and fell asleep groggyly. While she was still asleep, her wife had already gotten up and started cooking; Then the children get up, wash and clean up, and then eat and go to school.

I can hear all their voices, which means that I am awake; But I don't want to get out of bed unless my own phone's alarm wakes me up.

As a result, I often have inexplicable pain: why does life treat me like this? I want to find happiness.

Writing, I'm happy. When I am in the mood, I turn the mood into a sentence, type it on the computer, organize it into an article, and then recommend it to my friends, or send it to the mailbox, so that it can become a matrix in the newspaper to attract people who love it. Friends who know friends love to read, and after reading, they called** and said:

Congratulations, seeing your masterpiece is quite infectious. So I got a kind of happiness because others appreciated it. When I'm not in the mood, I want to write poetry.

In the chaos of my thoughts, some inconsistency sentences would pop up in my head, so I wrote them down with a pen. Unlike writing an article, I staggered each sentence to record it. So in my case, the concept of poetry is that there is no mood.

I don't want to be in the mood all the time, so I don't become a poet, and I will never be a poet. Moreover, I said that writing poetry is not writing, it is venting, venting inner pain, loneliness, nothingness, and of course, maybe sometimes venting happiness.

Chat, I'm happy. In the office, the object of the chat is colleagues and friends, open your heart, and talk about some pleasant and unpleasant things in your life one by one, in fact, you are very happy in your heart. And in order to have fun chatting with my friends, I always pay attention to who I am chatting with:

Male colleagues, I want to talk more about the international and domestic situation, the current economic development status, the news around me, and at most how to make money; Female colleague, talk about the shortcomings of parents, how to shop, consume or something. But don't make a fuss out of nothing. In this age of advanced technology, there are too many examples of chatting for nothing.

Yesterday, I received a call from her husband from a female teacher I knew, which surprised me: the female teacher has not been home for more than 20 days, and it is likely that she disappeared with the netizens chatting. Hey, just chat, so what should you really do, you have parents, lovers, children, jobs and friends, why do you play with netizens and disappear in the world!

You can't treat life like that.

Hello friends, it's best to do what you like, just have fun by yourself, enrich your own life, keep a good attitude every day, and be in a good mood like anything else.

For example. Listen**.

Watch TV series. Read comics.

Watch a movie. Go out shopping.

Find a friend to chat with.

I think it's all good.

Just be happy. Find something you're really interested in and get into it. Everyone has their favorite things, just some people.

I found out and do a good job seriously, and some people don't know what they should do, to find that the most effective way to find out that the interest before you take it is to take seriously the seemingly boring and monotonous life on weekdays, listen more, watch more, do more, make more friends, and communicate more. As long as you're happy, it's fine. Tired, tired, have tasted the suffering of the world, ups and downs, ups and downs, people have no hurdles that cannot be overcome, you have to be strong.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, be optimistic, adjust your mentality, relax yourself, laugh, laugh, breathe the breath of nature, open your heart to communicate with your friends, and you will have a world. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and face everything with a normal heart, life is in your own hands. You have to believe in yourself, and then become more mature, people have to learn to give up, since you can take it, you have to let it go, don't lose yourself, don't let the pain control yourself!

People don't live for troubles, people have pursued happiness and happiness for so long, don't let yourself be destroyed, be strong, don't be too fragile, persistent, and never forget will only pull you to the abyss of pain. To give, to give, to be happy for yourself, but also for a better life, you can not change the world, but you can change yourself, you can not surpass the soul, you can surpass yourself, people are always in continuous efforts to make progress, improve themselves.

Everyone lives not only for others, but also for themselves.

This is how the road of life has come out, I wish you a safe and happy journey!!