Would you lend money to passers by who ask you for help?

Yes. In order to be trusted and helped by others one day, I have no fear in my heart, and I live a very comfortable life.

I think it's better not to borrow money, after all, there are too many now. I once donated ten yuan to a beggar, and when I saw him go to KFC for dinner, I immediately felt that I had been cheated.

If you can help, you can help, and you don't need to contribute much money, you can donate a little bit to the best of your ability, after all, this is also accumulating merit for yourself.

It depends on whether you borrow more, and if you borrow less, you can borrow it, after all, if you are cheated, the loss is low, and in case someone else really needs it.

On the bus, an old man said that his bag was stolen and wanted to receive some money to eat, but the money was not much, and he didn't look like a **, so he believed him.

Yesterday afternoon, I met a couple who said that they had no change to take a taxi to the train station, and asked me to borrow some change to take a taxi, and I saw that they were very sincere and gave them the only fifty yuan they had on their bodies.

When I was a freshman in junior high school, I went home from the supermarket on the weekend, and was stopped by two good-looking sisters on the side of the road, saying that I came to travel, lost my wallet, and lived in a hotel a little far from the square, and wanted to ask me to borrow some money to eat, ten yuan was enough, I was too naïve at the time, and I thought about how two people could eat ten yuan, so I gave them thirty, they said that when I went back to the hotel, I would charge the phone bill, and then left each other**, I believed them at the time, but I couldn't get through when I got home, and the phone bill was not charged.

No. Generally, I won't borrow friends who don't have a deep friendship, let alone passers-by?

As soon as I open my mouth, I really won't help, I'm afraid of meeting ** Dozens of dollars also depend on the situation Now there are too many people deceived by society I am afraid of being deceived at Xi'an Railway Station.

Last month, there were just two southerners who said that they couldn't exchange cash, and they had nowhere to live at night, and finally asked me to borrow 100 yuan, saying that it was convenient to transfer it to you, and left Alipay, and I haven't returned it to me until now. It's time to learn a lesson.

There was an aunt in the subway station who said that her wallet was stolen and her mobile phone was also stolen, and she seemed very painful and anxious, and asked me to borrow 20 yuan to leave the station, and I gave it without thinking about it. Later, when I thought about it, it didn't take 20 yuan to get to **.

I have given money to students who have no money to go home, I have donated money, I have lost my mobile phone, and I have not once returned it to a well-wisher, and I am really disappointed in these people.

There shouldn't be much to believe in this easily, after all, I read the news every day to report some news like **. I remember a report that a guy pretended to have a broken leg and was filmed by the camera jumping up and down to a bar. I can't believe these people.

Really difficult and ** don't engrave on the head! A small amount can solve the difficulty, I feel that it can.

After getting off work at 10 o'clock yesterday, I got out of the subway. Walking alone on the road. Suddenly, a girl A (about 28 years old, and a female friend B next to her, pushing a stroller) came over and asked me!

said that he had just arrived in Hangzhou, and the package was gone, and he wanted me to lend her more than 30 yuan to make up a dozen dollars.

At that time, I checked this side to the hotel (it seems to be a five-star hotel), and it was about 80 yuan. Because I was afraid of being deceived, I said that I had no cash. A said that you can also send a red envelope.

What she kept saying throughout the whole process was that she was actually embarrassed to borrow money from strangers. It's really because I have a situation now. So, hopefully I can help her.

When I grabbed and talked to A slowly, I wanted to ask what the situation was. I don't know why, I suddenly said, will I be deceived? Then, she said, if I am really afraid of cheating, then I will not borrow.

After not borrowing it. The girl in the stroller suddenly had a voice. I looked.

Then another girl, B, said to me, do you think we can buy a luxury car or a villa if we borrow a few dozen dollars? We won't borrow it from you, and don't look at us in a strange light.

After listening to it at the time, I didn't reply.

But there is still a pimple in my heart. I don't know, is it right or wrong for me to be suspicious and not helpful?

In the past, when I met the elderly or disabled people on the side of the road, I would help myself. Because they really need to. But now, there are more and more incidents of using roadside help to deceive people. This can't help but make you wary.

But sometimes, I am afraid of meeting people who are really in need, because of my vigilance, so that they do not get help in time.

I feel like I've hit a plateau in my worldview. So, I would like to ask all cat friends for help. When you encounter such a thing, how should you judge it?

Thank you

1. You came just in time, first help me see if there is any problem with this divorce agreement. Why do you want to leave? I can't even afford a bowl of porridge!

2. It's not that I don't borrow, it's that my money is all in my dad, my mother, my grandparents, my grandparents, my grandparents, and my object, but it's not in my place, and it's not under my control!

3. I just checked the balance and found that I haven't done anything in my life. It's enough money to spend, and only on one condition that I have to die tomorrow. You can't live another day.

4. If it weren't for the free air, I wouldn't be alive now.

5. Excuse me! I've been short of money lately!

6. I don't care about the accounts, and I will ask the owner if I can bend the money to check a little living expenses.

7. I can't decide it myself, I need to discuss it with my daughter-in-law or husband.

8. At present, I am in urgent need of money, and our family is preparing to renovate a new house, and we are also preparing to borrow money from you.

9. I'm sorry, brother, my wife took the little money from our family and lent it to my mother's family. I really can't help it.

10. There is really no way to lend you money anymore, and you need to repay the car loan and the housing loan.

In the unit, I have also encountered cases where colleagues have borrowed money from me, and I have lent them all of them, and I have not met a colleague who borrowed money and did not pay it back.

And sometimes when my colleagues are in trouble, I will take the initiative to give them the money. I remember one time, the eldest sister of a colleague of mine, who was having some difficulties in his family, said that he was now borrowing money to deal with these things. When I went to work, I had money in my pocket and gave it to him directly.

He was very moved, and often mentioned this matter in front of others in the future. He also returned the money to me in time when he had it.

If it's someone who often has nothing to do and borrows money, that's a different story. Because we are paid every month when we go to work, it is impossible not to spend enough every month. So when I meet such a person, I won't lend it to him easily.

The main reason is that people should pay attention to integrity, they must do what they say, and it is okay to borrow money, but when you say you should pay it back. Even if you repay it and borrow it again, it can be regarded as no private message to anyone. This is what people often say, borrowing is good, borrowing is good, and it is not difficult to borrow again.

So if you meet someone who often borrows money from others and doesn't pay it back after borrowing it, there will definitely be no one to lend him again, and I might as well lend money to such a person.

However, from a general point of view, there are many reasons why people might choose to lend money to others. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Help a friend or family member: Sometimes, people may borrow money from their friends or family members so that they can get through a difficult time or achieve certain goals. In this case, borrowing money is a way to support and help each other.

2.Receiving interest: If a person lends money to another person, then the person may ask the other person to pay a certain amount of interest. In this case, borrowing money is a way to invest and get additional income.

3.Build trust and relationships: Sometimes, by borrowing money from others, you can build closer relationships and trust. This will help the two sides to have more mutual trust and cooperation in future cooperation and exchanges.

In conclusion, lending money to others is a mutually beneficial relationship, but it also requires careful consideration of risks and responsibilities. In any case, the borrower and the lender should clearly agree on the borrower's purpose, amount, interest rate, repayment time and method, and ensure that the borrower has the ability to repay the loan on time.

Lend money to others This is a very common thing to call for love, first of all, those who can lend money to others are people with a good face, they can't bear to refuse others, and there is also a situation that this person is relatively kind, and wants to lend money to others to let him get through the difficulties, in short, such people are very popular.

There is a concept in psychology called the loss effect, and studies have found that the pain of losing something is twice as great as the joy of feeling Sakura when he gets it. In other words, if you lose 100 dollars, then you will have to pick up at least 250 dollars to balance the damage you have suffered inside.

The loss effect is nothing more than a human nature.

When those people borrow money for a long time, they will feel that the money is their own. So, when you need them to pay it back, they feel like they've suffered a huge loss. Psychologically speaking, they are very resistant to paying back, especially the relatively large number of mausoleum sites, which is tantamount to making them suffer like flesh and sores.

They must have a strong sense of self-discipline to overcome this nature, but most people borrow money often because they are not able to manage themselves financially, which essentially means that they are a very undisciplined person.

We can conclude that asking the borrower to repay the money is tantamount to making an undisciplined person self-disciplined. What is self-discipline? The essence of self-discipline is to kill a decadent self with your own hands, which is originally a very difficult thing, which is why many people borrow money and do not repay it in reality.

If you cherish friendship, then it is best not to have any financial dealings with your friend, especially not to lend him money, because the person who borrows money often will most likely not pay it back.

As the saying goes: making money is like picking up soil with a needle, and spending money is like water washing sand. No one's money is blown by the wind, and it is not easy for anyone to save a few dollars.

Some of those who lend money to others should cherish this friendship, not everyone is willing to lend you money, especially in the past two years when the economy is very tight, and there are still people who are willing to borrow money for you.

When I say this, I don't have any confidence in my heart. For those "old lai" who are thicker than the city wall, it is tantamount to playing the piano to the cow, maybe he will immediately reply to me: Yes, the cow is playing the piano.

Some are willing, some are forced to do so.