How did you realize that you weren t a good person at all?

Few years. After more than ten years of work. From what he had always thought was omnipotent, he suddenly became aware of his powerlessness in a short period of time, and felt low to the dust.

Knowing one's own exaggeration and shallowness begins after knowing a lot of books. The book introduces you to a larger world. I also know where to start discovering and understanding myself, and start thinking more meaningfully.

It is the difference between a handicap and a battle in Go. If you blindly occupy only the territory but do not know the combat skills, the occupied territory will eventually be occupied by others. Although we have a sense of the general direction, we still need a lot of skills to support the realization of the general direction.

Once upon a time they despised skill. Think of skills as nothing more than the result of 10,000 hours of deliberate practice. However, it is undeniable that the mastery of skills is also a process of refining thoughts and ways of thinking.

People are always improving, and the people you come into contact with are getting better and better, and this feeling is too normal. Don't be discouraged, the sooner you accept this reality, the more you can work hard. I am a teacher in a provincial key high school, and I lead the best class in the school, and every child is a leader in junior high school and has his own aura.

But entering a new environment, many people will find that the competition is fierce and everyone else. When you enter the university, you will say the same thing: "Teacher, in Tsinghua University, you should never try to crush others with any skill, there are too many cattle, you can only be crushed into slag in minutes." "That's it, but each of them can quickly adapt to the new environment, calm down, work hard, and fight for a better future.

You can too.

From the beginning of junior high school and high school, I thought that others could do it all at once, and I may have to draw inferences from others after a while, so I can only use hard work and small skills and other aspects to make up the gap. High school, in particular, understands the cruelty of talent.

After I started working, I was basically invincible when I was a student, and I basically didn't make a mistake in the big and small exams, and I almost got all the certificates I wanted to get. Later, when I started working, I found that it was easy for a fledgling to be turned into a slag in seconds, and you thought that you were still smart and excellent, but in fact, you couldn't even do everything in the most basic things.

I guess when I was in graduate school. When I was in elementary school and junior high school, the classmates around me were not as good as me, their family background was not as good as mine, they didn't have as many new clothes as me, and they didn't wear as beautiful as me, and most of my classmates in high school didn't have a good family background and study. When I was in college, many of my classmates were better than me, but their studies were not as good as mine, and then after hard work, I was admitted to a good university for graduate school, and suddenly found that compared to the vast majority of my classmates, their family background, study, and appearance, no matter what, are backward, and they are not of the same grade, according to the current statement, not of the same class.

When junior high school began to rank in the exam, I knew that there were many people who were better than myself in the stage, and I knew that there were many people in the province when I started the joint examination with other schools in high school.