Why do some girls now prefer to be older leftover women than get married?

This is an attitude to life, most women now undoubtedly have enough confidence and pride, insist on themselves, and are not afraid to walk alone, that is, they are not willing to wronged themselves to live a life that is not as good as they want, unwilling to be an unsuitable person, and unwilling to be affected by the world's eyes and rumors on their own steps and rhythm of life.

The conditions are too high, how many women are just demanding, and they pick from 20 to 30 years old, and they don't choose the person they like. Now that she has entered middle age, the people who come to propose marriage are some men who are older than herself, some are still divorced, they are all honest and unskilled people, she is worried, if she marries a dishonest man, she has no happy life, she has to endure hardships in this life, good men have left them, so they choose not to get married.

The main reason is that the older leftover girl does not get married, that is, she has been talking for a long time, she is unwilling to get married, and she enjoys married life the same, she is not lonely, nor lonely, and the flowers are set off by green leaves. After getting married, you will be constrained, you will not be free to do anything, you have to ask for leave for everything, you will discuss everything, you will live in this world alone, you will not worry about anything, you can eat and drink, earn money today and spend it yourself, no matter where he goes tomorrow.

The phenomenon of leftover women is not an isolated case, and not all leftover women have high incomes. Some women, with a salary of about 3,000, are not enough to buy cosmetics, and they rub their parents for food and housing. But he is very picky about finding a boyfriend, because he can't make money, and his mother's conditions are average, of course, the only way to get rich is to marry a rich man.

It's just that there are few rich people, and the circle of rich people who can choose a mate is large, so these women are not high or low, and they are left.

If there is no one to be happy after marriage, then why should she get married, not because she has no sense of responsibility and does not respond to the country's two-child policy.

For example, a man and a woman who graduated from the same university, the woman herself is not unable to earn money, and the salary when she goes out to work must not be lower than that of the man, unless she meets the man she likes. Otherwise, why bother living a good life and finding an immortal for yourself. This kind of woman is the one I have met more (foreign companies) around me.

He attaches great importance to his family, and he will not get married easily, and he is more worried about the unhappiness after marriage.

Because I am afraid of my husband, my mother-in-law is difficult to serve and get along with, and I am afraid of encountering the scum of patriarchal and machismo straight male cancer! Of course, part of it is that it is too demanding! He is not Diao Chan, but he wants to find Lu Bu.

Falling in love is a matter of 2 people, marriage is a matter of 2 families, the interpersonal relationship after marriage is more complicated, you need to have a good relationship with the old woman, the husband, you need to have a good relationship with the husband's relatives, the heart is tired, the economic pressure of marriage and childbirth is great, there is too much housework, the current older leftover women are not willing to live with their in-laws, they hope that they have an independent space, they don't like to socialize, they don't like to be disturbed by their in-laws, they work very hard during the day, and they want to rest well and prepare for tomorrow's work when they go home. I have in-laws living together, and my husband can't do the housework alone, and it's inconvenient to live with the elderly.

Nowadays, women are highly educated, high-income and high-demanding, ordinary men can't get into their eyes, and ordinary men don't like strong women like them, and ordinary women don't want to get married may be afraid, after all, after marriage, family troubles, family trivial facts are too much.

Because many women who think they are excellent have a heart higher than the sky and a life thinner than paper, they want to find a perfect man. But it's not easy to talk about the world of flowers, but it's more practical for more ordinary girls to find someone to marry and live, time flies, looking back, those women are still looking for men. And those women who marry early raise their children to enjoy the joy of family, so they are all troubled by mentality

Because now people are selfish and unwilling to accommodate each other, you have to be superior to give up a forest for you.

Eat your own food, do your own thing, don't care about other people's affairs, and don't belittle others casually, people would rather be left, naturally have a reason for someone's family, ask yourself, do you also have many things, is it misunderstood? Then since you don't want others to misunderstand you, naturally don't criticize other people's lives casually, older leftover women, rely on yourself to eat! No shame on you, if you need to raise it at any time.

You say it again.

It's a realistic topic, there is no money to get married, and it's useless to talk about any love. Firewood, rice, oil, salt and vinegar, put a woman's nature. Grinding it all down, why a woman?

Giving birth to a child and taking care of the family, what did a man do? A good man still loves a woman and supports a family. Bad man, you're hitting you.

Also costs you money. In real life, it's better to be single.

Now marriage is like child's play, and some girls really don't want to play, and they don't have the courage to bet their next life on a man, and they don't know if they will win.

Because a person is free, people in society are afraid of trouble, and men and women are the same. How happy it is to be a lone ranger!

Because it's very tiring to live, you don't have to think about anything by yourself, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar are indispensable for marriage, there is one more group of seven aunts and eight aunts, and there are more than one bunch for this festival and that birthday, from one to two, and the industry is allowed to add a small one, and you have to be unemployed to see other people's faces, etc.

Unless you find the right person, why bother finding a man to hurt yourself, having children will hurt children.

I don't want to settle, I just want to meet the right person. I have the ability to have an economy and live a good life, so why should I be wronged.

Whether or not to marry is a matter for the parties themselves. It's just that some people have read too many books and are rich in knowledge, but they are not as good as animal courtship, and they don't know how to inherit human beings, and they don't know their obligations.

Everyone's view and understanding of marriage and love is not the same, some people have lost confidence in love and marriage, have been hurt, and have not dared to try easily, some are active and unmarried, some are passive and unmarried, and have their own conditions are very good, (regardless of appearance, economy, ability is very strong), and it is not a good eye, but they have never met their own satisfaction, some people's excessive reality has become unrealistic, and some people live in the world of film and television dramas and fairy tales. ...It's the same for both men and women.

Getting married means compromising, improvising, enduring, and endless loops, not wanting such a life.

If it is better to be single than to be married and live, just to keep a legal offspring, not only is it irresponsible for yourself, but it is also a great harm to the other party.

Afraid of being abandoned, I'd rather be alone all my life than reluctantly get married.

Women in normal families can have their own children and support themselves, so why should they get married? For the sake of future generations, you should not get married, unless your husband is really rich or handsome, you can't be so selfish, you should think about your future generations and all mankind.

It shows that China's economy has developed and its society has progressed. The more developed countries are, the higher the singleness rate, and the poorer and more backward the places, the earlier they get married.

Because these girls are very good, they are very harsh in their vision of choosing a partner, and they don't think that love is all in life, so they should focus their lives on their studies and their careers, and now they have to bear a lot of pressure to get married, they are not willing to give up their comfortable lives, so they are not willing to get married.

The reason for the reluctance to get married is because the current social burden is more stressful, and they have seen too many failed marriages, which makes them panic, they have enough financial ability to be self-sufficient, and think that marriage will form a certain constraint on them.

Because they remain independent mentally and financially, they are used to living alone, they don't want to find a boyfriend to disturb their alone time, they are more inclined to develop their careers and do not want to get married.

I don't really like the word "leftover girl", the word "leftover" seems to be a girl who is disliked by society and counted down by her family, and even she has confidence in herself. I think "leftover women" can be replaced by "older single young women".

I am 26 years old this year, and I have just graduated with a master's degree and have not yet married. During the Spring Festival last year, when I was strolling around the village, I met an aunt who was walking with her grandson in her arms, and she said to my grandmother that if I hadn't studied for so many years, I would have gotten married and had children. In rural areas, towns, and even county-level cities, in the eyes of the elders, 26 years old must be the standard old young woman, I guess it starts from the age of 24.

In big cities, not long after graduating at the age of 26, everyone begins to think about marriage after two or three years of graduation, and they are married one after another at the age of 30. So when everyone around you gets married, those who are not married become "older single young women", probably 30 years old and above.

I think that the leftover before the age of 30 is not a leftover man or a woman, if you have to say that it is a leftover, it can only be regarded as an ordinary leftover, and the real leftover should be from the age of 30 onwards.

There is actually nothing to say about the leftover men and women, everyone has a reason for the leftovers, but I believe that no one wants to be single for a long time to be a leftover fighter, as long as they are willing to work hard, they will enter marriage sooner or later.

Besides, being single is also good as being single, with fewer worries, but this is not the case when you get married, it is a matter of two families, and there are constant troubles. Therefore, marriage is like a besieged city, those on the outside want to come in, those on the inside want to go out, those who are single envy the married, and those who are married envy the single.

The remaining men and women are all disrespectful to people, as if they were picked up and leftovers, it is too discriminatory, and it is personal freedom to marry or not to marry. It should be called older unmarried men and women, and with the changes of the times, it should be defined as older unmarried men and women over 30 years old. I hope that every girl can not care about the constraints of age and do what she wants to do at different ages.

I think Huai Jin over 30 years old will not be called a leftover woman by some people if he does not marry Hongming, but there are still many people who are unwilling to get married now, after all, most people now think that it is good to be single, and there are not so many troubles.

I think it's after the age of 35, and because it's older, it might be difficult to find a partner.

I think women over the age of 30 will only be called leftover women if they don't get married, because there are still many opportunities for women under the age of 30.

No, if you meet the right one, you will still get married, there are many older young people in China who don't look for a partner, don't get married, and even get married and don't have children, what is the reason? I think it has to do with the following reasons.

1. There is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women.

In 1982, due to the implementation of family planning in China, and the idea of favoring men over women at that time was also very serious, there was a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, resulting in the fact that there are no targets for older young people, so there are a large number of single people.

2. High housing prices, the cost of marriage is too high.

Now the housing prices are too high, and it is not enough to get married and buy a house, and it is not enough to spend all the money of the families on both sides, and they have to repay the loan, with a repayment period of 30 years, and it is difficult to make money, which causes a lot of pressure, causing the boy not to find a partner and not to get married.

3. Boys have a lot of work pressure and it is difficult to make money.

Now life is stressful, it is difficult to find a job, it is not easy to make money, and the job is unstable. Children in their thirties are basically only children, their parents are more doting, they are unwilling to do things with less money, they can't do things with more money, and they can barely maintain their own expenses, and even their parents pay back part of the money every month. If you don't have responsibility, you don't dare to take responsibility, so you don't want to get married and have children.

4. Girls are becoming more and more demanding.

Because girls are basically graduating from college now, with higher educational qualifications, and the requirements for boys are getting higher and higher, they are dazzled, and they always think that they don't worry about getting married anyway.