Shouldn t we go for it? Go for what you want

Why can't you be together, since you like it, then talk to him, at least let the other party understand, maybe he likes you too, if you don't say it, then there is no chance at all, if you are rejected, it is better than holding back in your heart. Say it, don't hesitate, I wish you all can come together.

If you love him, tell him, even if he doesn't love you, you won't regret it! Wouldn't it be better if he had loved you for a long time and didn't know what you thought and didn't dare to chase you? Love has to be said out loud, it doesn't matter what the result is, the important thing is that you should say your heart!

Wishing you happiness!

Isn't it good to keep in touch often and maintain the relationship you have now? If you really like him, let him find out slowly, and if the lover you meet in the future is not him, you can also treat him as a good brother. Kill two birds with one stone.

There is no banquet in the world...

If it's really unlikely that you'll be with him, I mean the future.

Then don't confess.

Let's be friends, we'll see each other later.

Bless him silently.

If you like it, don't leave regrets, express them bravely, so as to give yourself a chance, so as not to regret it for life in the future.

Vindicate. Let him know what you think.

If he doesn't accept you, you can still be friends.

Speaking out, my heart will be more relaxed.

It's okay to fight for it, and it's not impossible to express it, at least you will have no regrets!

Think about everything in your heart.

Go with your senses.

If you are wrong, you will not regret it.

-)。This kind of thing has been confined, yes, sister. He will chase it, and the blessing is what he won it

Life can't wait for others to arrange, you have to rely on yourself to fight and struggle.

God has given us eyes to see; God gave us ears; Let's listen; God gave us mouths to speak. God has given us something, but God can't give it all to us, we have to fight for what we want.

We came into this world, but we can't arrange our own destiny. So, if you want it, do your best to get it.

With 200% effort, to change the 1 in 1,000 possibility. Don't rely on God for everything, dare to try in order to achieve the success and glory you want.

In the end, we will know that God still favors us the most, will favor our efforts, will favor our persistence, will favor our persistence, will favor our attachment, so we will strive for what we want.

I'm terrible at writing, but I want to record the good things around me. On that day, I went to the stadium as usual, because I lived in this neighborhood, so I had seen almost all the people on the course, but on that day, a few strangers came (one of them was very tall). We shot together, and then they said to play a game, and there were nine people in this rebound, but they said eight when they counted, and the people who played with me before said there were nine.

The tall one asked, "There are 9?" "I was actually nervous.

Because I knew in my heart that those I hadn't seen didn't count me, because I wanted to play, I said urgently: "I can also fight, count me". They froze for a moment, looked at me, and then nodded.

I'm very happy, happy that I can have what I want if I take the initiative to fight for it. Take the initiative to say, I want to play with you, can you count me? Maybe you will avoid dribbling the ball all the time and have the joy of playing on the court.

I was in a good mood that day because I really knew what it meant to fight. Because before, even if I really wanted to play, when I saw them splitting into teams, I was thinking, ah, forget it, they won't play with me. At that time, I didn't even have the courage to try to ask, so I decided what they thought.

Although sometimes you really meet people who are not willing to play with girls, you must remember that it doesn't matter, everything is well arranged, at least you ask, and their unwillingness is their own problem, don't blame yourself.

Some time ago, I went to apply for a job. It's hard for me to describe how far I've got. He spoke in a stumbling voice, and he was still very quiet.

That's what I feel like I'm particularly bad at. But I really wanted this job because it would give me a lot of things that I had never been exposed to, increase my experience, etc. At that time, the boss said that he would think about it, and I didn't wait for his news after I went back, so I sent him a message, telling him that I wanted this job very much, that I would work hard to do well, and that the salary could be reduced again.

The next day, my boss messaged me back and told me to go to work.

I hope that if you are hesitant before this, if you want something very much, please take the initiative to fight for it, and don't miss it out for fear of rejection, and in the end you will regret why you didn't take the initiative to fight for it in the first place.

Since childhood, we have been educated, to be a man to be polite, not to fight, not to grab, you look at the story of "Kong Rong let pear", what a noble morality, we have to learn from him, humility is a virtue!

When we grow up, we find that the world is not like this, and humility is all done for others to see. Most people are fighting for their own selfish interests, and even more so for themselves to seize the legitimate interests of others.

If it is said that it is a legitimate right to fight for merit and fame for one's own interests, it is against morality and social morality to seize the legitimate interests of others.

In order to maintain efficient work efficiency, it is a legitimate right for employees to ask their bosses for a salary increase; It is an illegitimate right to infringe on the interests of colleagues in order to increase their own income.

All kinds of black-box operations are prevalent in society. For example, by applying for a fake hukou to become an ethnic minority, thereby lowering the college entrance examination admission score to apply for a good school, such incidents emerge in endlessly.

A story I heard.

A girl, after graduating from university, participated in the "Three Branches and One Support" project in the western region, and went to the western region to teach. Two years later, he returned to his hometown and was just in time for the public institution exam. The results of the written test came out, and I took the first place in the test, and threw out the second place a few streets.

I also performed well during the interview. That's right, three branches and one support are still extra points. In this way, she felt that she could be ranked first in the overall ranking.

However, after the results came out, the second place was actually the first place in the overall score. She was furious and learned through various channels that the second place was a relational household. The girl was also very courageous, she went directly to the supervisor and asked for the position to be returned.

Not once, she searched for it many times. In the end, the leader "returned" the position to her.

The girl was lucky, and the ending was a happy one. In reality, how many people do not have the courage to fight for their legitimate interests because they know that it is a black-box operation?

We are accustomed to going against the grain, and we are used to being reactive. But think about it, is this the purpose of our coming into the world to live without waves?

Our destiny is in our own hands, don't be afraid of other people's malicious arrangements, face it bravely, and work hard!

Money, fame and fortune are all things outside the body, but some people, in order to obtain these, block their wealth and life, and finally lose their family and ruined reputation, is it worth it?

I was just watching one of Warren Buffett's speeches, and he told such a story. Several of his friends in the financial industry have a lot of financial experience, but in order to obtain high profits, they all the family property is bought, and finally lose all the capital.

He said, "Is it worth gambling on everything you don't need?" ”。Warren Buffett said he wouldn't do such a stupid thing.

And in life, there are many people who do such stupid things. For the sake of interests, family affection is disregarded; In order to be promoted, there is no bottom line for life. And in retrospect, was that really what he wanted?

For a long time, I have been influenced by traditional Chinese culture, and I feel that I should be low-key and introverted, especially girls, and not be too proactive.

But slowly I realized that this idea was wrong. Why can't I express what I like, what I hate, what I hate? In fact, each of us admires those who dare to do and dare to express their inner thoughts.

Maybe you will tell yourself that the next time you encounter something like this, I can have the courage to express it, but we have too many ties and too many concerns, and we will not become like that in the end.

So there are too many "good old people" in China. It seems that their interpersonal relationship is good or even perfect, but compared to those who are "straight", they don't seem to have many friends.

In fact, on the contrary, because the "good old people" are good to many people, they will not give people a sense of closeness, and some people even think that they are too tactful. And those who are straight, because they are too straight, will be unpopular at first, but slowly they will be liked by people, because they will express their thoughts, and it is easy to get along.

Although I know that some things are hard to do, I still have to do them, such as changing myself.

What happened in the last few days makes me feel that I can't be too restrained and low-key, and I should grasp that degree.

I'm usually too low-key, I don't like to show myself, I don't like to express my thoughts very much, and I don't talk much. So it doesn't feel good. So often when there is a task and a division of labor, I am a less important role.

Actually, I want to say that I can also complete important tasks, and there are some things that I am quite good at, but I don't express them. Next time, I'm going to express my thoughts. If there is something I like or am good at, I must strive for it, and if I like it, I must strive for it!

If you like it, you should strive for it, no matter what it is, you won't regret it after you fight for it. I couldn't understand why many people didn't give in, although I thought so, but I didn't have such a deep understanding of "not compromised".

It's rare to come across something I like in the past two days, but I haven't bought it after thinking about it for a long time. After a day, when I really wanted to buy it, it was gone, and it felt a pity. The shopkeeper said then you'll just buy a similar one, right?

I refused. Because in my heart, the one in my heart is the best, and I can't accept anything else.

At that moment, I suddenly and profoundly understood "not compromising". It's not one of your choices, it's that you can't afford anything else in your heart.

If you like it, you have to fight for it, maybe you will succeed, but what if you fail? Rather than being there for pity, why not go for action?

Don't think so much about it, if you like it, you have to fight for it!

Change yourself with me and become a better you!