Long distance relationships have really weakened our feelings by 20

Touching 2 people's things Let's talk about what she means to you first, if you still have a little feeling, stick to it to the end, if not, give up calmly, let him find a better home. The best thing in life is to find someone who loves you for the rest of your life, and if he gives up, there is no need for it, because love cannot be forced. Go with the flow and find someone who loves you.

You have to understand if she really loves you or not. Secondly, call her on time, send her small gifts she likes, and remember your little secrets and anniversaries. Meet together to watch the same movie and then ** or QQ or text message to communicate together!

Meet up and play games together. You have to know her interests and hobbies, and follow her more!

So my suggestion is that the two of you have a good talk, and if time permits, find time to go to him. A relationship has finally come to the present, don't give up, cherish it, and try to redeem it!

You've already worked, and you actually have a way to get where she is, right? If I were you, I would have gone to find her, and seeing her every day might be able to maintain your relationship.

...Maybe it shouldn't be too far away to fall in love. Thousands of miles away.

The long-distance relationship fadesIt should be a relatively bland experience, which can be said to be uneventful, and the heart is particularly calm. After all, this process is relatively long, after all, the long-distance relationship fades not overnight.

The long-distance relationship itself is particularly difficult to get along, although there are many times when two people have a certain emotional foundation together, and the relationship between the two people will be better, but all of this is not able to withstand the test of time and distance, especially with the passage of time and the two people are not together, after a long time, the two people communicate less, and the relationship will naturally become weaker, it can be said that the final result is the most familiar stranger.

When I face the long-distance relationship and the relationship fades, I am calm in my heart. After graduating from university, I entered a large factory to work, and I had relatively more contact with colleagues in other departments at work, and after a long time, I became very familiar with one of my colleagues, especially in some jobs that need to be completed by two people, and after a long time, I naturally have feelings.

This kind of relationship is not particularly optimistic in many people, working in a company, such a relationship is not particularly convenient to manage, and there are many times to be discussed by others, but they and the other party can eliminate these external factors, and they can manage this relationship with their hearts.

The beginning of the relationship is relatively good, the two people are more enjoying this relationship, and later due to work reasons, they were transferred to a branch in another city to work, and it was okay when they first separated, after all, there is a certain emotional foundation between the two people, and the two people will often contact. After a long time, when the other party encounters difficulties or is sick and uncomfortable, I can't care for and take care of the other party, although I am also helpless, but the reality is that I can't make myself better to give her more care and care.

In this way, the relationship between the two people began to undergo subtle changes, and the two people became different from the original and would say anything to each other, especially when the other party was in difficulty, she would not want to get help from herself, but would find a way to solve it by herself, which has given herself a clear signal, and she was also more entangled at the beginning, whether to continue to insist on this relationship, whether she should reapply to return to the original company, but there is still a certain gap between the idea and the reality, As time goes by, the relationship between two people becomes very unfamiliar, basically they don't communicate much or don't communicate much, and they don't feel as much as other friends or colleagues, and the final result can be imagined.

I and her broke up peacefully, and there was no quarrel between the two of them, and there was no major contradiction, but now that I think about it, I still lost to distance and time in the end.

The general feeling is that it is experiencedFrom the most familiar to the strangestHow do you feel?

He and I were high school classmates, and we were at the same table in high school, and everyone understands that most of the love in high school is relatively pure, so studying together, secretly listening to songs together, and correcting mistakes together are some very happy feelings. It's just that early love is not allowed in high school, so we only got together after the college entrance examination.

It's just that the time together is also very embarrassing, and both of them didn't say it in time for some reason, and when they said it again, they had already filled in the volunteers. So there was no way, so I was forced to become a long-distance relationship.

When I first started, I felt like I would never have it again in my life. ProbablyI would like to be able to be together anytime and anywhere, and I would want to share any little details of my life with him.

What I remember most is that I would bring my phone in the shower and keep chatting. At that time, it was not a smartphone, it was a flip phone, so the motherboard of the mobile phone was burned out because of wet hand typing, and I was scolded by my parents for this, saying that I didn't know what mobile phone to bring in the shower.

Every time I encounter something happy, the first thing that comes to mind is him. Later, when he came to Chengdu from Chongqing to see me, the first time he held hands, it was a feeling that he did not have in his later life.

I still remember the first time I was separated at the train station, and when I saw him slowly disappear into the crowd, I really couldn't control myself, and my tears kept falling (later, I never met anyone who would make me feel that I should shed tears when I was separated).

But as the time in the field gets longer and longer,Slowly, you will feel that it doesn't matter if the other party has or not。I feel that whenever I need the other person the most, the other person is not around. Many times I want to share the joys, sorrows and sorrows with him, but in fact, when I think about it, I feel that it is not interesting.

The general feeling is that many times, the person I want to share with in the first place is actually not him. In addition, the circles of the two people in the back are completely different, in fact, it is difficult to find common topics, so the back is getting colder and colder.

In the end, when I said that I broke up, I just replied with a faint good, and I didn't even have much fluctuation in my heart. So we can also be regarded as a peaceful breakupAfter separation, they did not become enemies, but they still kept in touch.

Of course, the two of them have new feelings and are now at peace with each other. It's just that occasionally I still think of my sincerity and sincerity at the beginning, I miss myself who was brave enough to face anything at that time, and I feel that some people actually have it very well, and there is no need to be together.

1. If you haven't seen each other for too long, you will become alienated and estranged, and your relationship will be lost Feelings need to be maintained, and if you haven't seen each other for a long time and haven't experienced a lot of things together, you will gradually have no common topic, so that the relationship between the two will fade. If you don't see each other for too long, the two will become very unfamiliar, feeling like two familiar strangers, not knowing how to speak, one is reluctant to say, the other is unwilling to ask, so that the heartwarming feeling is getting weaker and weaker.

2. Long-distance relationships are prone to distrust because two people don't live together, and they don't know who the other party is usually with. Whether the other person often goes to the movies with other members of the opposite sex, etc. Because the distance is too far, coupled with the lack of communication, it is impossible to communicate face-to-face often, and the trust level is very low, so it is easy for people with sensitive personalities to think too much.

When there is more suspicion and distrust, the relationship between the two gradually fades.

3. In the local area, a warm-hearted person suddenly appeared In fact, when you are in a long-distance relationship, you are still lonely in your usual life, and when a warm-hearted person suddenly appears, when you are sick, this warm-hearted person comes to accompany you, and when you are bored, you also begin to be accompanied. And his other half, in the distance, couldn't warm his heart at all, and gradually, there was a contrast, so he didn't want to continue the long-distance relationship, and instead came together with this warm-hearted person. In this way, the relationship with the original lover will be weakened, and the relationship will be put in the new relationship.

The weakening of long-distance relationships is actually a very common phenomenon, and this feeling is like drinking boiled water, which is tasteless.

When two people are in love, they can not eat or drink, and they feel very happy and comfortable together, just like a person, but two people in a long-distance relationship can't see or touch, and there are different people and things around them, and the two people communicate less, and the relationship will naturally fade.

If the long-distance relationship is not maintained, the relationship between two people is easily cut in half, especially when there are other opposite sex around, the party who is not firm in the relationship is easy to be attracted to the opposite sex around him, this feeling is more like chicken ribs, when you want to break up, you feel that you have paid so much, unwilling, when you don't want to break up, you feel that two people have no future and are very anxious.

In short, it is really difficult for a long-distance relationship to achieve positive results, and it is only possible for two people to change the status quo of a long-distance relationship wholeheartedly.

The long-distance relationship is slowly fading, the distance is slowly estranged, and the feeling in my heart is very uncomfortable. In fact, in a long-distance relationship, the enthusiasm will be weakened, but whether the relationship will get deeper and deeper varies from person to person.

In my opinion, passion and affection play different roles in love. Because of the rise and accumulation of enthusiasm, the two people came together, and because of the deepening and sublimation of their feelings, the two people came to the end. To put it simply, passion is more like a magnet that attracts you to start this relationship, and feelings are like a rubber band that holds you and her relationship together.

People's enthusiasm is always limited, the two in the ambiguous stage because of attraction, because of mutual speculation and slowly push the enthusiasm up, the enthusiasm of the two people reached the highest point at the moment of confession, when the two confirmed that they were together, because of the deeper and deeper understanding of the enthusiasm inevitably began to decline. And for those couples who are still in love, their secret lies in the maintenance and deepening of the relationship.

The same is true for long-distance relationships, when you feel tired in this relationship, it is not necessarily because the relationship has weakened, but more often because the enthusiasm has weakened. The maintenance of any long-term relationship is inseparable from a sense of security and responsibility, and these two feelings will only occur when the relationship is getting deeper and deeper.

Long-distance relationships are particularly difficult to maintain because of the differences in time and space between two people, which does not mean that long-distance relationships can really only watch the relationship pass with a blank eye. In order to save the relationship, the most important thing is to facilitate effective communication between the two people.

What is it like to be in a long-distance relationship? I think the main reason for the weakening of long-distance relationships is that because two people are not together for a long time, the relationship will naturally become more and more estranged, too long without meeting, become alienated and estranged, and the relationship will become weaker, because a relationship needs to be maintained by both parties, and if you haven't seen each other for a long time and haven't experienced a lot of things together, there will gradually be no common topic, so that the relationship between the two will fade, once the relationship fades, the distance between the two will naturally be far away, and slowly the relationship will be over!

I feel. It hasn't faded, it's still normal.

It's just that when you're socializing, or when you need to be busy with work or other things, you go to work first.

There is not such a strong desire to share.

Because I know it's a good time.

You have to play with your friends when you're with them.

Take care of the matter at hand first.

If the two love for a long time, how can they be in the morning and twilight?

Love in the bottom of my heart. I used to think about it too.

There aren't that many topics.

Isn't there no unleaked wilderness?

But then I realized.

Long-distance relationships have time and space differences.

A lot of times you can't empathize.

For example, when you are alone at home and very lonely and want to be a partner.

He's playing with a bunch of classmates and friends.

He can't empathize, and he can't really feel this kind of longing and longing.

And there is. Look at your parents, they don't always send messages to each other from morning to night, and it's not that they don't have love.

Isn't it. If you send it early, it can only mean sending a message, but it doesn't mean anything.

I think that if the relationship is weakened, it will be weakened if there is no quarrel and no reconciliation.

For example, two people quarrel and hold their breath.

The Cold War was very sad at first, and then it was relieved for a while.

I was relieved, I didn't care when I opened my eyes and shouted, and my feelings faded.

When both people already feel that the long-distance relationship can't hold on. The argument or feelings will slowly decline, although the feelings can not be quickly faded in a day, but it is definitely more difficult to heat up. How can a long-distance relationship heat up when the relationship fades?

When you don't have time to meet, or the two of you have begun to ignore each other's feelings, you can also feel that this long-distance relationship has long made you strangers. Every day is so difficult, every day feels very tense with the other person, you must have suffered a lot for this, and if you want to warm up while the relationship fades, then you have to master some of these skills. In this way, you can retain the person you love the most, and you can also let yourself better experience the taste of love in the emotional world.

At all times, you must remember that the sense of trust between you must be improved, so that the emotion can fade, that is, you gradually do not believe what the other person says, and you begin to disapprove of some things that the other person does. The best way to warm up your relationship is to build trust between you.

Tell each other what is in their hearts, many people are always willing to hide their emotions, whether they are happy or unhappy, they have to pretend to be very happy, and this kind of disguise will make two people feel particularly fake. If you want the other person to feel the importance of the relationship, then you need to know to show your true self in the process of improving the relationship.