My child is confessed by a boy in kindergarten, what should I do?

Today's children, all of them are ghosts, and this is no longer the era of simple ignorance when we were young. They are born with access to high-tech things such as mobile phones and computers, and the rapid development of the Internet has made their horizons extremely broad, so they are also more precocious than their parents imagined. My little nephew once told me when he was in kindergarten that there was a little girl named Huihui in their class, who was her girlfriend, which made me laugh and sigh at the same time

In the current era, children are also more open-minded.

Some parents find that their children have an ignorant concept of liking in kindergarten, and they will become panicked, thinking that their children have signs of early love, but in fact, such ideas are not necessary.

First of all, even if the child understands these terms, he does not fully understand what the meaning of these terms is. In the eyes of children, the word "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" is actually the same as a good friend, but a good friend who has a lot of fun in kindergarten.

Secondly, if your baby tells you that she was confessed by a boy in kindergarten, then you should be happy first, because it proves that your baby is very popular, you can say to your baby like this: "Mom and Dad are very happy that you have such a good friend in kindergarten, you have to get along with him, help each other, and the two of you should listen to the teacher together, so that this is the performance of a good child." "Because no child wants to accept blame and criticism compared to praise, but if you choose to talk to him in a positive tone, it will give him a lot of confidence and a positive attitude to face the problem.

Kindergarten babies are in the embryonic stage of intelligence. As a parent, there is really no need to have all kinds of unfounded worries because of these things, and the most important thing for children at this age to correctly guide them is pessimism. Don't stifle the good nature of children with old ideas.

This is a manifestation of the child's entry into the sensitive period of marriage, during which parents cannot forcibly stop it, but must guide it correctly. The sensitive period of marriage is largely a sign of whether the child's emotions and emotions can reach a mature state. A child's smooth passage through the sensitive period of marriage can help the child to improve his emotional world, family and marital relationships.

It can build a better concept of marriage for children, as well as a better concept of love and abundant emotions.

The formation of a child's concept of marriage indicates that he has a preliminary sense of gender, self and the opposite sex. As a parent, don't make a fuss about this, and be sure to communicate with your child on an equal footing, normally and scientifically.

The above views are all from Sun Ruixue's book "Capturing Children's Sensitive Period".

This is a book recommended by our child's kindergarten teacher to help us better understand our child's development.

Don't tell your child directly that this is wrong, because sometimes stopping it will make the child rebel, you can tell your child that you are all children now, you have to study hard first, and then play with your little brother when you grow up.

First, the kindergarten child is too young, the boy's confession will make the child understand the difference between boys and girls too early, what exists between boys and girls, which will affect the child's psychological growth, if you don't change classes, every day when you meet that boy will always remind her of this confession, so it is advisable to change classes or kindergartens, now there are many private kindergartens, and it is very easy to change kindergartens; Second, if the child does not understand the connotation of confession and always plays with the boy, something unpleasant may happen, it is recommended to communicate with the teacher and separate it.

I think you should stop him, and then reason with him with your heart and let him know the harm of doing so.

Then you have to tell your child that this behavior is very normal, but you can't say yes, it's just that this boy likes you.

You should guide your child correctly and let him study hard, which is the right way to do it.