What to do if your child is criticized by a teacher in kindergarten

Gold Course for Qualified Parents.

Many parents send their children to kindergarten to study, but many children will have a variety of situations when they go to kindergarten, and some children will be criticized by teachers when they go to kindergarten.

First of all, we must know that the teacher is not criticizing the child for no reason, it must be the child who has done something wrong, the teacher has taught the child several times and the child has not corrected, then the child will suffer from the teacher's criticism, so when encountering this situation, parents should first communicate with the child peacefully, ask the child whether it is their own reason, or the reason of others, if it is the child's own reason, parents should tell the child, it is precisely because you have done something wrong, the teacher has educated you, and you do not change, that's why the teacher will criticize you when he gets angry, but the teacher criticizes you not because he doesn't love you, but wants you to correct your own bad habits, so that you will get better and better. After telling the child in this way, the child will be able to understand why the teacher criticizes himself, so that he will also get rid of his own bad problems and find the teacher's love.

It can be seen that parents should always pay attention to their children's emotions in life, if the child is criticized, parents can first communicate with the school teacher to see if it is because of something, if the reason for the matter is because of the child himself, at this time parents should also come out in time to educate the child, and help the child correct some of their bad behaviors.

In addition, parents should also pay attention to the way of educating their children, and must communicate with their children calmly first, so that children realize their mistakes, and then through some truths, so that children will not make such mistakes again.

You should tell your child that the kindergarten teacher values you very much, and then they will criticize you and want you to get rid of this shortcoming and become better, not to target you.

Parents should comfort their children's emotions in a timely manner, and can choose to contact the teacher, so that the teacher can further communicate with the child, vegetable the child's emotions, and guide the child to think correctly.

If the child does something wrong, parents should calm the child's emotions and tell the child what to do in life in order to win the teacher's affection.

Introduction: The issue of children's education has always been a topic of great concern to parents, and if it is not properly guided in the process of education, it may be detrimental to the growth of children. In the process of educating children, parents and school teachers need to cooperate.

For children who are in kindergarten, they may encounter the phenomenon of teachers criticizing their children, and parents need to ask the teacher about the reasons first, and then understand the ins and outs of the matter.

Some parents tend to be more emotional after learning that their children have been criticized in kindergarten, so there will be a series of wrong practices, which not only fail to educate their children, but also cause some negative effects on their psychology. In most cases, many parents will blindly cooperate with the teacher, and the child will not be able to have a correct understanding of things, and it will be very easy to rebel. There are also some parents who blindly protect their children, so that the children will not be able to have a positive understanding of things.

There are many children who are often depressed after being criticized by teachers, and at this time they very much want to be understood, supported, and sympathized, so we should also pay attention to the children's emotional changes while understanding what is going on. And then analyze for the child, which is not good enough, the process of analysis must also let the child feel the love of the parents, if the parents blindly stand on the opposite side of the child, then it is difficult for the child to develop self-confidence, brave quality.

To solve the problem, parents also need to correct their own attitude, not blindly rely on the teacher, need to start from the problem itself, or discuss with the teacher to find a suitable education method for the child. If the child has the habit of hitting others in kindergarten, then the reason behind it should be analyzed, and then communicate with the teacher, and listen carefully to the teacher's suggestions for improvement. In everyday life, parents should also set an example for their children.

If the child makes a mistake and the kindergarten teacher criticizes the child, the parent should stand on the same position as the teacher and let the child realize his mistake.

I didn't do it, I think the child is still young, from the perspective of child development, these things are obviously beyond the age range of the child should be done, but this is a lot of private kindergartens and parents are keen on things, think that learning in advance, you will win at the starting line, you can go to the first grade of primary school without jumping chickens and dogs, so I did not communicate with the kindergarten, this is a current trend, not I can change it by saying a sentence or two, and may also be considered hypocritical, do not understand education.

Parents should find the teacher in time to understand the specific situation, and then accept the child's emotions and tell the child's teacher, this practice is to make the child smarter, and to appease the child's psychology, not to cause serious psychological contusion to the child.

Take care of the child's emotions, understand the child, comfort the child, and figure out the reason, solve the problem in time, explain some reason to the child, help the child analyze the problem, and look at the problem from the teacher's standpoint.

1. Parents respond to teachers' criticism

When parents encounter criticism from teachers, they should not be humble and forbearing, nor can they speak badly against each other, but should maintain a relaxed and natural attitude from beginning to end.

Teachers will not criticize parents for no reason, parents should learn to listen to the problems, listen to the teacher's criticism, and then use language arts, affirm the teacher's dedication, and humbly ask the teacher for advice on how to better educate the child, so that the teacher can change from a critic to a guide. At this time, the teacher will feel that he is respected, and the tense atmosphere will naturally turn into a harmonious atmosphere, which will make the communication with each other pleasant.

2. Accept the teacher's criticism reasonably

If the teacher's criticism is well-intentioned, although some parts are not in line with the actual situation, because the teacher cannot understand the child so deeply and cannot pay so much attention to the child, the teacher is mostly right, the mistakes can be understood, and the teacher's criticism should be understood. So show acceptance to the teacher. For example, the teacher is right, or take the initiative to accept your own mistakes.

3. Respond to the teacher's criticism

We are very grateful to the teachers for their hard work and patience in educating our children. I hope that the teachers will continue to encourage the children and inspire the children's interests, potentials and fighting spirit, and also hope that the teachers will contact us more often to report the children's situation so that we can better cooperate with your educational work.

Because everyone's focus is on the child, taking the initiative to suggest that the child is naughty requires the teacher's trouble, which also reflects the parents' understanding and respect for the teacher.

If the child is really naughty, the teacher will continue to talk to you, and if it is not very naughty, the teacher will also give feedback to the parents about the child's real performance during the kindergarten period.

Sentence 2: If you can't get busy with activities at school, you can come to me.

In the process of interpersonal communication, it is important to be sincere, and sending charcoal in the snow will leave a deep impression.

Teachers are already working hard just to take care of the children on weekdays, and if there is an important festival or a kindergarten organiser, they will definitely need help.

Although few kindergarten teachers will take the initiative to ask parents for help, if parents can take the initiative to help at this time, this friendship will definitely be remembered by the teacher, so parents do not need to give gifts, and teachers will take care of their children on weekdays.

Sentence 3: Teacher, what do you think my child needs to strengthen?

In the eyes of parents, their children are excellent.

Teachers are well aware of this, so teachers generally do not take the initiative to inform parents of their children's strengths and weaknesses except in special circumstances. But if parents ask the teacher modestly first, the teacher will naturally understand, and will seriously feedback the child's recent situation to the parents.

Bao Ma Knowledge Time: A harmonious relationship between parents and teachers will have a positive impact on children.

1) Educating children is smoother.

Parents and teachers have the same idea in cultivating children, and the starting point is for the good of children, so it is not difficult to reach a consensus, effective communication, can make school education and family education organically combined, forming a joint force.

2) Enhance children's enthusiasm for life.

When teachers and parents have the same goal of raising children, the environment in which children grow up will be natural and relaxed, which can enhance children's enthusiasm for life.

3) Achieve effective communication between parents and teachers.

Parents should actively and effectively communicate with teachers, avoid frequent inquiries or excessive requests, and respond to questions raised by teachers in a timely manner, especially problems related to children, so as to improve teachers' enthusiasm for communication.

4) Problems with children can be solved in time.

The problems encountered by children in group life are not necessarily encountered at home, and the teachers have more contact with the children, and the problems found are more objective and direct, and parents listen to the opinions of the teachers, which also helps to solve the problems of the children in a timely manner.

Warm message: The above are all tips to promote a harmonious relationship between parents and teachers, and some questions that may destroy harmony should be added.

For example, parents complain about the teacher in front of their children, or do not cooperate with the teacher, or even look different from the outside, when the teacher is in front of the teacher, and there is another set of ...... behind the scenes

All these will affect the image of teachers and parents in the minds of children, and some may cause children to be hostile to teachers, kindergartens or parents.

It is because the child has not yet adapted to the life of the kindergarten, and does not listen to the teacher's words, and is criticized by the teacher, which is a normal phenomenon, as a parent, don't take the teacher's criticism seriously, because the teacher's criticism will make the child grow up and make the child sensible.

If your child is already afraid of the teacher and does not want to go to school, then communicate with the teacher, the child's personality, let the teacher praise more encouragement, and give the teacher a proper expression, the teacher will be very willing. Don't tell your child at home that the teacher will do whatever she wants, encourage your child and give him confidence.

First of all, parents should understand that the consequences and impact of their own actions should not be rash for their children, for themselves, and for the kindergarten (including the principal and teachers).

Handling suggestion: Regardless of whether there is monitoring at the time, if parents want their children to continue to attend this kindergarten, then they should communicate with the teacher:

Name some of your child's reactions when they come home. For example, the child has nightmares and cries at night, and in the morning he is very resistant to going to kindergarten, saying that he is afraid to go. Parents then ask the teacher what happened, although the teacher will almost certainly not admit to hitting the child.

Then, parents can tell the teacher that the child will be frightened, and hope that the teacher can talk to the child and comfort the child. The teacher knows what is going on in his heart, and saying this is not only to give the teacher a secret warning and to go down the stairs, save face, but also leave room for the child!

In addition, parents should communicate more with teachers to understand their children's situation, which is also a good relationship. Tell the teacher what the child has at school to communicate with the parents in time, and the parents will fully cooperate with the teacher, so that the teacher will tell the parents about the child's problems.

Suggestion: Talk to other parents and ask them if their child is in the same situation. If there is the same feedback, then it is necessary to give feedback to the principal and communicate a mutually satisfactory plan.

Since the teacher's way of doing things is relatively well-formed and the level is uneven, it is unlikely that one or two lectures can improve the level of parenting! In particular, if the teacher is a class teacher, other teachers may also imitate the class teacher's routine, and then things will be a little troublesome.

For example, Dabao, who embraced a future instructor, once encountered such a class teacher: he transferred to be a class teacher halfway, but in less than a month, after communicating with many parents, he reported that his child had changed a lot, including swearing, beating, and intimidating children. After that, the parents jointly reported to the principal, and the head teacher was changed in less than a week.

Later, this teacher did not continue in this kindergarten because she was the class teacher and would have an impact on other teachers.

If you don't change the kindergarten, you can change the communication method, or consider changing the teacher, because the principal does not want to affect the future students of the kindergarten because of one person. Both the principal and the parents want their children to be happy, and this direction is the same!

Of course, if you want to change your child to a kindergarten, you can also choose to open it up if the evidence is conclusive. But be aware of the implications for all parties, temporary and future!