What do you do when you fall in love with someone you shouldn t love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To love someone is to learn to let go, if she loves her husband, you should learn to let go, so that she will not be happy and stressed, even if she doesn't love her husband, she is a family person after all, and he should not be too close to him so that his reputation will be damaged

    Love is very helpless, falling in love with someone you shouldn't love is only pain, you can also try to accept another relationship, maybe you will find that you don't love her so much, maybe you will learn to bury her in your heart and watch her happy, and you will feel very happy.

    This way, you have your own life and she doesn't feel sorry for you for your feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Clause. 1. Letting go of a person does not mean forgetting everything, that is, remembering this person and what happened to you, no longer sad and tearful, or indignant, but can smile calmly and indifferently. Clause.

    Second, do a job that enriches yourself and makes life busier, so that you don't have so much energy to be sad and sad. Clause.

    3. Life is always slowly losing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Will the other party divorce you? If not, it will only be more painful for both sides to insist! I hope you solve the problem soon and be happy!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be a lover and be nice to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Give up, although she is not right, but mature and sensible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You still have a lot of things to do, and your dad is at home making you birthday miles. Take a step back and open the sky.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Face it, accept it, deal with it, let it go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can find a new love and forget the past.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should have heard the song "There is a kind of love called letting go"....It's impossible for you. Listen to this song more.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Loving someone is giving.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    <> I believe that many people will have their own opinions on this issue, which will also bother them. After all, this has become the number one list of more troublesome problems for girls in society, so many netizens have asked: What should I do if I fall in love with someone I shouldn't love?

    In fact, I believe that many people will have their own solutions to this problem, which we can explain from the following aspects.

    First of all, we should know that if we fall in love with someone we shouldn't love, we should actually stop losses in time, control our emotions, and don't let ourselves indulge in this relationship again, otherwise we will only be hurt. Maybe you sometimes ask questions, you can't control your own feelings, you miss him all the time. Then at this time, you need to do something to divert your attention, such as cultivating your hobbies during this period, going to read books, fitness, illustration, painting, calligraphy, and any extracurricular activities you can participate in to help you get rid of your excess energy.

    In this case, not only can you enhance your own charm, but also you can not have extra time to think about things between you.

    Of course, I'm sure there's even an opinion online that the best way to forget about a relationship is to start a new one. Actually, I don't think this method is particularly good, we should all know that each person is unique, so if you want to forget that a person should not take this method, it will not only hurt others, but also put yourself in a more embarrassing situation. So you can go and digest it slowly by going to a new place or a more self-emptying environment.

    You have to believe that time will help you forget a lot of things, and so do feelings, so as long as you are willing to persevere, I believe that nothing can shake your determination, can it?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel that you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, then you should leave as soon as possible. If the other person doesn't like you, then it's not worth it for you to spend more time on him, and you can't get his favor for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should stop the loss in time, leave this person, and cut off all contact and contact with him, so that you will not be hurt more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should give up the relationship because this person is not something you can handle, and it is not suitable for you at all.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should learn to control your feelings, and at the same time, you should ensure a correct view of love. At the same time, you should be more responsible in your relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Strive to magnify his shortcomings and weaken the aura placed on him. Or a different person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't have the right to make you give up, because if we choose, we have to bear it. For love, we cannot interpret it in terms of right or wrong. Giving up is a kind of understanding of life, the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, but also not an excuse for a negative life, we can not stop pursuing in life, but we also have to learn to give up.

    Giving up is a rational choice, a rational cherishing, a transcendent beauty, and a profound love. Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice is lost. In life, we always keep choosing, keep giving up, only give up, we can find the opportunity to truly belong to our own life, only give up we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, only give up we can get out of the past and no longer indulge, only give up can be painful and happy, in order to live happily.

    When we can't have or give him or her happiness, or when having it becomes a pain, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly? Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling. Therefore, I would like to say that only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, and only those who feel the pain can have true happiness.

    Pain and regret make us feel more deeply about life. If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if you are destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go of each other and know how to cherish it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are a lot of things that should not be done in life, if you already know that this is someone you shouldn't love, then why ask others, in fact, you already know the answer, falling in love with someone you shouldn't love is an endless pain, and it will also affect other people to suffer the same, so why not smile and wave to him (her).

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The most hurtful thing in the world is feelings. Lifting and letting go is called weightlifting, and knowing that it is a person who should not be loved, and not being able to put it down is called weightlifting. It's a pity that most people's love is burdened.

    Character determines fate, and choice changes life. "In life, when one door is closed, God will open another window for you. ”

    The highest state of love is to withstand the dull years, love the right person at the right time, find a peaceful harbor of your own, and let a heart that belongs to you beat for you. When the person you love and the person who loves you are the same person, you are the happiest person in the world!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't go any further, it's wisest to let it go as soon as possible.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love is selfish, love that should not be loved, nothing is absolute, life is like a movie, we are the director. Don't let life dictate you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then leave quickly and find someone you love!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't continue.

    It's hard to love someone.

    What's more, it's someone who shouldn't be loved

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's okay. Fight for love.

    Science and technology are so advanced now.

    It's okay.

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