How do you get out of the sense of loss of falling in love with someone who doesn t love you?

My dear, I understand. But life can't be muddy. Are you disappointed that you weren't with him, or are you not rewarded for your efforts?

Anyway, you need to look at the point, the odds of the person you like happen to like you are low, and it may take a lifetime of luck? Would you like to? In fact, this may be a test given to you by God to see how you get through this difficulty, perhaps, his old man thinks that this boy is not as good as you, maybe the next person is the person you have to work together to advance and retreat.

I know it's hard to get out of this shadow of being out of love, but you can't punish yourself for not knowing whose fault it is. Do you want to stand in this shadow forever, and if you don't advance or retreat, you will die like that? You don't learn from the relationship, you never get the upper hand in the relationship, you don't take the initiative, you blindly hide your wounds and lick a few bites secretly.

Self-pity, I think it's the stupidest thing to do, and if, you're really smart, you should learn to come out of the shadows, from darkness to light, friend, welcome.

Let's go out and bask in the sun, sometimes you are lazy by the sun, you can't even think about yourself now that you have received emotional wounds, should I be sad. When the sun hits your clothes, your body, your hair, you will have the smell of sunlight on your body, it is better to let the sun shine on your heart, every shadow in your heart, even your wounds, leave it to him to heal. Then sleep beautifully, ask yourself if you are still so sad, if you feel that it hurts a lot, and sometimes, you are too hypocritical, and you feel that you will not come out.

Look at the book, there is Yan Ruyu in the book. In my life, I have considered that if I am old, I will open a book room, place it according to my own preferences, have my favorite incense, the opening hours depend on the mood, the name is called, forget it, I haven't gotten up yet, anyway, it will be very domineering, a book, will let you precipitate yourself, maybe, what you read is just a history book, an autobiography, you will also have a harvest, your bad mood has volatilized, magical, this is the great use of books, we are going too fast in this society, So much so that you can't do something as simple as reading a book when you're resting. <>

Write a farewell letter. Summarize your feelings and experiences of loving him for so long, even if he doesn't have any response, you can't wronged yourself, think about what you have paid for him, whether he knows or doesn't. And his shortcomings, and the advantages that seem less pleasing now, and figuring out what keeps you going for so long.

In the end, write whatever comes to mind, you don't have to be organized, you can be a mess, you can be disorganized, as long as you decide to keep these memories on this piece of paper. In the end, do you bury him under a tree and lay him in the soil, or do you burn him and turn him into a handful of ashes? It doesn't matter, whatever you want, you can keep it as you want, and when you feel that it is useless, the usefulness of this piece of paper will be played.

May you be strong, and I will be with you.

Human beings are the most difficult creatures to control, and there are many kinds of people who like nature. For example, you like me, I don't like you; I like you, you don't like me, and I know you don't like me, but I still like you.

What to do if you like someone who doesn't love yourself.

You like me, I don't like you, this should be a less nerve-wracking one. After all, the initiative is in your own hands, and you still have proud capital, and you can't feel the feeling of not being liked, even if you don't want this feeling, it won't be too uncomfortable.

But when I like you and you don't like me, it's very different, sadness and sadness are all light, and suffering from gains and losses, and being unable to sleep at night is the most unbearable. But if it is, you still want to like it if you know that people don't like you, then this kind of liking must be the hardest kind of liking.

1. Do you want to confess?

Most of them said that they liked someone who didn't love them, but they were still in the stage of secret love, and they didn't try to confess.

But since they all like it so much, confession is a necessary process, but he doesn't like you? Wait, are you sure it's him, she doesn't like you, or is it just your own guess and delusion?

If it's an illusion, wouldn't it be a missed marriage?

What's more, liking someone must be hoping for a result. So, if you really like it, what's the defense against confession?

So, what happens after confession?

There will be two results. One is that you misunderstand, and people are not necessarily as unmoved as you think, maybe just waiting for the right time. So, your confession creates such an opportunity, and maybe it will be a happy ending.

Another result is that you know that you can't do it, and the end of your confession is nothing more than rejection, so it doesn't matter, right? What are you afraid of, it can't be worse than this anyway.

Of course, you will be afraid that you will be embarrassed if you are rejected after confessing, but if you don't try, you will never know the result.

2. Secretly put it in your heart?

Knowing that the other party doesn't like you, it is not impossible to secretly keep this love in your heart and continue to maintain this state of secret love or unrequited love. It's also a good feeling to keep a good feeling in your heart, or to say that you have someone you like in your heart.

But the worst thing is that I also confessed, and I knew that there was no result, and I had to struggle desperately, all kinds of sadness and sadness, then I really couldn't get along with myself.

Like or love, it was originally a beautiful thing, but I was most afraid of making it miserable, which is really a bit of "stealing chickens does not make rice" meaning.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with liking someone who doesn't love you, and it's not a big deal, the key depends on how you face this feeling. Do you want to quietly rest assured, or strive for a result? Just like turnips and cabbage have their own loves, only you have to make up your mind how to deal with them.

Anyway, whether you are happy or not, it is up to you.

Probably the biggest tragedy of love is falling in love with someone who doesn't love you.

Because of one word, he gave him all his tenderness, as if he was his own world, and the illusion he gave also made you feel that he loved you very much, and his eyes seemed to be very clear, and he would stare at you like a person with true feelings.

He will also care about you occasionally, ask you if you have taken your medicine when you are sick, ask you when you are home when you are off work, talk to you when you are bored, and call you when you have no friends. But when another person appears one day, you know that the way he loves someone is not for you.

He would buy medicine for that person when she was sick, take her to eat with her friends, and introduce her friends one by one, his circle of friends was full of her, and he was always standing at the door of her company before he suddenly realized that this is love, I have loved him for so long, and you haven't gotten any such love.

It's not your fault that you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, the most important thing you should do is to return your freedom and stop losses in time.

Love is mutual, and love can only be called love if two people love each other. If only one person gives stupidly, and the other person never responds, then this kind of love is not called love, it is called unrequited love.

"I really love you, I closed my eyes, thinking I could forget, but the tears that flowed, did not deceive myself. "Do you love someone, you can deceive others with your mouth.

But just like that sentence, if a person drinks water and knows himself, whether he loves or not, whether he has forgotten him is only known to you. knew that he didn't love himself, but he couldn't help but approach him, even if it hurt so much that his heart was broken, he was unwilling to leave his side.

Maybe this is love, but it is the most humble kind of love, lowering himself to the dust to love him, and his response is so precious to himself. Feelings don't mean that you can forget them, it's enough to deceive others with that kind of words. If you really don't get any results, you won't have any regrets, because you have done your best to love him.

After working hard and there is no result, he will die and be able to start the next relationship instead of getting lost in his world, this is the answer.

It will hurt you to walk out of his world, but it will become your precious treasure and make you grow. It was the despair he gave you that made you choose to quit, and it also proved that he is not the right person for you, and it will not bring you any happiness, so it is better to be free and easy.

Clause.

1. Letting go of a person does not mean forgetting everything, that is, remembering this person and what happened to you, no longer sad and tearful, or indignant, but can smile calmly and indifferently. Clause.

Second, do a job that enriches yourself and makes life busier, so that you don't have so much energy to be sad and sad. Clause.

3. Life is always slowly losing.

You shouldn't love and love, the more you try to give up, the more you remember to know, love, maybe this is your fate.

For such a person, we must let go as soon as possible, bury this relationship in the bottom of our hearts, and after the slow passage of time, we will definitely be able to let ourselves out of the pain.

To fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you must first make yourself understand, you must convince yourself to admit the facts, and then you must focus all your energy on work, so that you have no other energy to think about it, and you will slowly come out.

When you arrive in a strange environment, you don't think about these trivial things, and you put your mind on enjoying the scenery, believing that you can come out.

You should cut off the relationship between two people as soon as possible, don't waste your youth, start your new life again, and find someone who loves you to be together, so that you can slowly come out of your previous relationship.

If you fall in love with someone you don't love, you must adjust your mentality and remind yourself at all times that such a relationship will not have a good result, and you must give up this relationship as soon as possible, so that it is the best choice for yourself.

I feel that I should still shift my energy and do the things that I am more interested in, and when I live a more fulfilling life, I should be able to come out with time.

First of all, you can find a good friend to vent reasonably, and digest your emotions by telling your emotions. Secondly, you can pay attention to the transfer, you can go to the outside world to see, divert your attention, and relax your mood.

Be sure to eat more delicious food, because you can eat delicious food yourself, so that you can slowly come out.

Continue to love, but choose to leave. If you can't let go of your feelings, let it go, but stay away from him, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper.

Find a new relationship. Only a new relationship can make you forget about the old person and start a new life.

I had the same experience,..

You love him very much, even more than yourself; But did you make him feel it?

As two people who like each other, he can feel every move you make to him;

Since he chose to leave, it proves that he doesn't feel very clear, so it is true that he doesn't like you so much anymore.

You kept him, why didn't he promise you?

Because he doesn't like you, he knows that even if he gets back together with you, it's just a formality, a fruitless thing, he.

I'd rather choose to go away than to do the opposite.

No matter how painful you are now, he can't do anything, what you want, he gave you at all.

Above you say, "Are you really hurting the people who love you?" I really don't know if this is a lie! "There is no right or wrong in feelings, if you don't love, you don't love, he didn't hurt you; It's just that you haven't let go yourself, so there is no word "cheating" to speak of.

Although people who say that they can afford it, it is difficult to let it go; But you have to learn to put it down if you can afford it. It's a love for yourself!

— so I hope you understand that Breaking Up Is Not Really Hurt; And the real hurt is knowing that it is impossible, but still ruthlessly releasing gentleness! 》

Now that it is injured. Hurry up and heal. Don't indulge in such love.

There is no result.

As long as you have faith. Time can dilute everything.

And then during this time. You work hard. Or play hard. Time passed. I forgot.

Maybe it will be in your life. A wonderful memory.