I don t want to be someone else s girlfriend but enjoy the treatment of a girlfriend, isn t it cheap

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, don't use the word "cheap" lightly. The word can be both derogatory and positive.

    Although the word is often used in unclean language, in ancient times, when men introduced their wives to their friends, they also referred to their wives as "lowly", but this is not derogatory in any way. Although the word "cheap" is almost extinct these days, you also need to see what kind of occasion it is used.

    Secondly, I imagined based on your simple description that you don't seem to be disgusted by the treatment of your girlfriend, but you are a little uncomfortable with this feeling, and you are in a tangle.

    If you're enjoying being treated as a girlfriend, and the guy isn't dating another girl, and you're not averse to the man, there's one of the thousands of possibilities: you're in love.

    However, if the man who pursues you has other girls as lovers, and you also enjoy the treatment that you can only enjoy as a girlfriend, it can only mean that this man is very attentive. It is not good if you let him pursue him and you are noncommittal about his attitude. You should find an appropriate occasion, politely reject it with an appropriate tone, and withdraw from it.

    Don't be that third party.

    I hope you can remember that there is no distinction between high and low in life, but only different identities, different personalities, and different specialties, so as to make your career or choice of discipline different. The only difference is just the amount of money and that's it. Not only can people not use money to measure their own value, but they also cannot use the so-called high and low to position themselves.

    In a word, everyone has the right to pursue love, whether male or female, whether or not it is the "other" you describe. May you be happy and find your love soon.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, give people dreams, but don't give them hope, what do you say? It's not a cheap problem, it's a very inhumane problem.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whether it is spiritual or material for you, you want it when you are happy, and don't want it if you are not happy. Saying that life is short, why waste expressions if you don't like them?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's a little ... Oh o ( o, don't think about him...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The first floor is really good, praise one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Nope! It's the man's cheapness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Men are all animals with lower bodies, they keep saying they love you, but they don't know what to do behind their backs, such men get rid of it as soon as possible!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't love her, don't waste your youth.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the dull period of love, think carefully and don't do anything wrong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You need to hurry up and make sure you don't really like it.

    If you're sure you don't like it, make it clear as soon as possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are so uncourageous that you can't even keep a girlfriend, brother, let it go.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, you can still do that.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can remind her of this girlfriend with appropriate tactfulness, but pay attention to the way she speaks. Also, you can't stand her, and there is only one result, which is to get together and disperse. After all, if you get married in the future, you won't be more annoyed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you love her, don't say she's cheap, otherwise don't love her. Let's find someone who doesn't look cheap!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Women are very cheap ......I really don't know what kind of thing made you say such negative and extreme statements!

    How can you say that!?

    Maybe it's the other party's fault, but have you ever reflected on what you didn't do well enough?!

    If you don't reflect, go face the wall. If you reflect to no avail, you deserve to die alone!

    Is it okay to live alone, of course? What's not to do! It is you yourself who have abandoned love, not love who has abandoned you.

    Calm down first, buddy!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay to live alone, but have you ever thought about your parents?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For people like you, let's go alone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Actually, as long as you think you can, it's nothing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Wife can buy it! Now you can't buy anything with money! It's okay not to play with real feelings.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Women are very cheap ......That's the kind of cheap thing you look at all the time when you're blind.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's good not to look for women, it's good to find men, haha.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Are you looking for it or not? Don't look for a girlfriend anymore, isn't that alone?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can't be very pessimistic about a single blow. You can find a girlfriend again!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can try and see if the man can do it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's okay to like someone, and it's okay to want to be with someone you like.

    Then you have to find out whether the boy has a girlfriend first, and then you can make a decision.

    If he doesn't have a girlfriend, then needless to say, you like him so much, of course you have to let him know, unrequited love is definitely not very smart.

    If he has a girlfriend, then you have to think about it. First of all, it is necessary to find out how he is in relationship with his girlfriend, whether it is good or bad. If you forcibly separate people, you won't be happy even if you end up getting the result you want; Also as you say, "If he would abandon his girlfriend for me."

    Forehead. He still doesn't deserve to like the horn.

    If it's bad, it depends on why it's bad, whether it's really unsuitable or it's a conflict, if it's not suitable, then you take your actions slowly, and if it's a conflict, you need to wait and see what happens.

    Of course, if the relationship is smooth, you can try to act, because it is not a wrong thing to let a person know that you like him. There are many results, but since you confess, don't regret it, of course, confession does not necessarily need to be expressed by specific actions or words, sometimes it is better to achieve the effect with obvious hints.

    In the process of pursuit, your state of mind may be constantly changing, and I hope you can always look at yourself and ask yourself what I need, what I can give, and what I get. Love is fiery, but if it is like a shooting star, although beautiful but pitifully short, it will not be praised by the poets of all ages. What can stand the test is what lasts forever.

    Human beings are emotional animals, but they can handle things rationally, but they make people smarter than animals. Deal with your emotions calmly, and when you look back in the future, you won't regret it but laugh right.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I didn't know what love was in junior high school.

    You just have a crush on him. It will change slowly in the future.

    I was like that when I was in junior high school.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't do it, I just did it like you, and then I was scolded by many people, but I caught it, but then he always found fault with me, and told others that he didn't like me, and I was the only one who didn't know Isn't it better to have feelings hidden in my heart?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I support you, because things are natural selection, survival of the fittest, the strong can win, I have a similar experience with you, I graduated from high school, this summer I hope to chase a girl who has a boyfriend, and now I have been rejected n times, I only hope you can win, thank you!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello, since you have decided to chase him, I won't say much, in fact, it's normal for women to chase men, and it's okay to chase someone who has a girlfriend, but you have to be sure that he is not interested in you, at least you have to be a little sure, you can't be blind, or you will be hurt by yourself, and you will be laughed at by people in the know. And you are almost the third year of junior high school, even if you catch up, and you are admitted to your own high school after graduation, it is impossible to be together, even if you coincidentally are in a high school, the environment is different, and the people are different, can you guarantee that he will not like other girls? Because boys in this period are changeable.

    It is recommended that the landlord think carefully before deciding how to do it. It is recommended that the landlord still focus on learning! Think about it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It seems that you adults always don't support people falling in love when they go to junior high school.

    It's all about education.

    Teenage children can be lonely too

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, it's cheap, but if it's me, as long as I like it, I'll chase it, and I don't care what people think of me, the key is that I like it, hehe, I'm going to tell you a sentence, "If you chase it, you're already half the battle".

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Courage is good, but audacity is nothing but a child of ignorance, a son of despicability.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Society is meant to compete, and only those who are capable can win.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's cheap! Knowing that someone has a girlfriend is also going to hurt. What if that is your boyfriend.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course not, if you like it, you have to fight for it, at least you won't regret it later! It's not a problem to keep a small yearbook, but I feel more when I'm young, and I regret that I didn't fall in love when I was a kid But what, you have to think about whether the other party has a good impression of you In this way, it won't hurt your self-confidence and self-esteem If you want to chase it, you must also have self-esteem But the more important thing is to work hard to fight for what you like Hard, happy, happy, this is the important thing Come on, support you

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The first thing to figure out is not whether to chase it, but to find out whether he has a girlfriend or not. If there is, as you said, it's better not to chase it. After all, he has only graduated from junior high school, if he can abandon his current girlfriend now, and when he sees more girls in the future, can you guarantee that he will not abandon you?

    If he doesn't have a girlfriend, or if he doesn't have a good relationship with his current girlfriend, I suggest you go after him. Now it's not a feudal society, girls can also chase the boys they like, after all, it's for their own happiness in the future, and they don't need to be so reserved. Still, I think you should think twice about whether you're really ready to fall in love with him for the rest of your life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Like you said, if he's going to dump his girlfriend for me, uh. He still doesn't deserve to like the horn.

    He can abandon her for you, and he will one day abandon you for "her"!

    Moreover, have you ever thought that in case he gets along with his current girlfriend behind his back and gets along with you, he cheats on your heart and chastity! It's too late for you to regret it! Girls should love themselves! But you can see that you should be a more stable person!! Be thoughtful!!

    Careful!! In fact, the so-called love in the student era is to play! But keep your distance, which is chastity! After going to college or working, that's the love that I want to think about later, true love!

    Personal opinion! ~~

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    No, but I don't really want you to do that, there are so many men in the world, why do you have to be with him?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Tell you. Don't scold me.

    This behavior is shameful.

    Very jian

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    HahaI don't think it's time to goI've got your back`

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Or don't go, it's important to study, you don't have to have it if you like it, as long as he's doing well, it's OK, isn't it?

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Fit. Graduated from junior high school. They may not be together, just in time for you to have a chance. But he seems to already have a girlfriend, which means that he hasn't made it public yet, which means that you have a lot of opportunities. Come on!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If they really love each other, you don't chase them

    It's good for all three, if you really love her!!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's okay to chase after it, anyway, it's still young, if you don't do something crazy when you're young, this life will be too bland.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Ask your boyfriend what he thinks.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Such a woman is not worthy of being a man's wife at all! Get out of her as soon as possible! There's no need to pester with him!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Parted. Let's do it! Such a woman can't do it. Dogs can't change eating!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Then you just leave her, do you think it's worth it for a girl like that?

    I'll send you a song called "Worthy" with good lyrics, listen to it.

    I hope you will come out of this shadow soon.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's just your girlfriend, you treat her as a friend, and people don't have to treat you seriously.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You tilt your head at a 45-degree angle so that the tears don't fall easily!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Hurry up and separate, long pain is better than short pain.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Why do you have to be so wronged? She's not qualified.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I think it's because you're not satisfied, or you don't love her much, or you want to try what other women are like, this problem can be big or small, if you really have an affair with another woman, it is inevitable that you will break up, and if you really love her, you must restrain your own desires.

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