Why is my past the way it is, and what is your past like

Let him pass through what is in the past, and there is no secret in man.

Sense of mystery, why dwell on the past? Too.

Yang doesn't come back because of your unhappiness and doesn't appear, but there is no sky.

Appearing is a new life, bravely face your past and see.

Psychiatrist, they might be able to help you! ~~

See a psychiatrist.

Let yourself come out of the psychological shadow as soon as possible and get back into life.

Everyone has a secret past of their own, you have it, and I have it too

But the past is dead, and we change what we should do to face the future

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist as it may be helpful for you

I sympathize with you and hope that you will come out of the shadows as soon as possible and face your future well.

Think, you can't win.

Don't be blind to pulling, read more books.

Summary. I've been following you all the time. I want to know how you are, whether you have changed from three years ago, more mature or more cruel.

I want to know everything about you, your college, your life, your games, if you have a girlfriend, I want to know what you think about every day and if you give up as easily as you used to, or give up on others, or hurt yourself or hurt others. I want to know if you still drink a lot, smoke a lot, what time you go to bed every day, and eat breakfast. Will you say you love you and say goodnight to other girls?

I've fantasized about everything with you, I've fantasized about watching movies with you during the summer vacation after the college entrance examination, holding hands with you, kissing you, and falling in love with you. I've fantasized about walking on the same path as you, in the same city and in the same university. I've fantasized about you sending me back to the dorm, fantasizing about saying good morning to me in the morning and playing for a long time in the evening.

I even fantasized that you see my family, that I marry you, that we will have several children, and if it is a daughter, will you spoil her? If it were a little boy, would he be like you. <>

What is your past like.

I can't interfere with the fight before I know you, and I will be firm after I know you, I don't want to know about your past, but I must know about your hail and coming. For you, I will work hard for you to the end, chasing you and I will continue for a long time, until you nod my head, I will have an urge to accompany you down! <>

I just want to know about your past.

How it is. I've been following you all the time. I want to know how you are closed, whether it has changed from three years ago, more mature or more cruel.

I want to know everything about you, your college, your life, your games, if you have a girlfriend, I want to know what you think about every day and if you give up as easily as you used to, or give up on others, or hurt yourself or hurt others. I want to know if you still drink a lot, smoke a lot, what time you go to bed every day, and eat breakfast. Will you say you love you and say goodnight to other girls?

I've fantasized about everything with you, I've fantasized about watching movies with you during the summer vacation after the high sedan exam, holding hands with you, kissing you, and falling in love with you. I've fantasized about walking on the same path as you, in the same city and in the same university. I've fantasized about you sending me back to the dormitory, fantasizing about saying good morning to me in the morning and playing for a long time in the evening.

I even fantasized that you see my family, that I marry you, that we will have several children, and if it is a daughter, will you spoil her? If it were a little boy, would he be like you. <>

Pale. I don't know if anyone thinks the same as me, who doesn't want to talk about their past, who thinks that everything in the past is so bad, and just wants to turn the page forever and never be cared about again.

That's what I think, but if you think you're going to get through, it's always going to be brought up by your family, and I'm always very ashamed of my previous performance being too bad, but I can't get angry with them or defend myself, because that's saying that I care a lot. I don't want my family to think like this, and I keep silent whenever I revisit the old things, but I feel really uncomfortable.

I never tell anyone about my suffering, and I will only be silent when I am sad, so I deny myself again and again in similar bad comments and become inferior. In my memory, I don't know how many cups of tears I shed, and I also hit myself again and again, or I deceived myself.

I want to be friends with everyone around me, I especially care about the feelings and evaluations of others, live carefully, and don't dare to cause trouble. I learned to smile at everyone around me, and never showed my sadness in front of others, but people thought I was stupid, and as a result, QQ still didn't talk to me.

I envy those who are brave enough to say what they think in their hearts, envy others who always have three or five friends to play with, envy other people's QQ that is always here or non-stop, envy other people's youth memories full of laughter and unforgettable people, and I, no.

I don't think I want to go on like this anymore and let witness my change and growth.

First: Do you have the ability to take responsibility for yourself?

Second: Do you know him well enough?

Third: You gave up your job in your hometown to go to Beijing to find him, have you ever thought about what you will do if the relationship fails?

Fourth: Do you regret giving up everything you are familiar with now?

Fifth: If the relationship between the two of you is so good, why do you have to give up everything you are now to find him, and why should you make a sacrifice?

Sixth: If you can't find a job right away in Beijing, how to arrange it?

Seventh: After living together, who is responsible for the living expenses and how to distribute them?

Although with the development of the times, the right family does not directly determine the happiness of a marriage, but it has its reason for existence. Everyone's shaping has more or less to do with his original family, two people from similar families can have more topics to talk about, and the three views are more unified, and the probability of meeting together is more. In the survey, of young people said that they would understand each other's family background before falling in love, and young people tend to look for people with similar family situations to their own.

For example, when two young people from a scholarly family sit together, of course they will talk about literature, and when they talk about some works, they will also talk eloquently, and there are endless topics. But if one person is from a merchant family, and the other is from a scholarly family in Qinggao, there will inevitably be some friction when the two people sit together.

Although most people yearn for a pure love, the problem of love and bread is a big problem that will always plague young people. Before falling in love, you may wish to carefully consider whether the consumption behavior and income of both parties are consistent, so as to avoid getting along only to find out that the two do not match in this aspect and eventually lead to a breakup. The young people surveyed by Zhenai will understand each other's spending habits before falling in love, and 18% of young people will understand each other's work and income.

From these two aspects to understand each other, maybe you can see more clearly whether the other party is your lover. In the survey, people said that the economic level of two people will directly affect the quality of a marriage, and in ancient times, there were slang terms such as poor couples, which shows that money plays an important role in the world of emotional marriage. Of course, this is not to advocate that there must be enough money to support in love, but more often to judge whether the consumption outlook and income of both parties match.

In a relationship, if one party feels that to live in the moment, life should be consumed in a timely manner, while the other party feels that life must have a sense of crisis, and more reserves must be made to tide over the difficulties in times of crisis. If these two people meet together, there will be all kinds of conflicts and rushes in life.

In the past, everything in the regiment was like smoke, and it was scattered when it was blown by the wind. The feeling that things are not people.

Everything that has happened is a white cloud floating in the sky, and the wind blows away, which means that the mentality at that time is that I can no longer take all the past to heart, I can let go of all the fetters of pure feelings or before, and see the meaning of everything.

Its structural molecules are there, which means that if you come or not, I will be there, whether you are concerned or not, if you are concerned or not, it cannot be erased if it happens, you know it or not, and the fact cannot be ignored.

So, it doesn't matter if you care or don't. The important thing is that the impact of the past can not be erased, whether it is happy or suffering, life will pass and become a memory, so you must maintain a quiet mind to face everything in life.

Forget about the past. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

There is no regret medicine in the world, only grasp the present and look forward to the future.

It's gone, it's all gone.

There is only one way to recover from the pain of falling out of love, and that is to learn to accept the facts. The truth is: this relationship is in the past.

No matter how good or bad this person is, no matter how happy those days were, they are now gone. Only by accepting this fact can you forget a person you should forget.

Some people seem to be very sensible, he will keep analyzing why he fell out of love after falling out of love, and try to be friends with the lover who broke up again. She thought she had recovered, but in fact, she had done so many things, but she couldn't accept that the bleakness was gone.

When we still go to save, to suffer, and to find excuses, then we refuse to admit that the other party no longer loves us.

Some people can't pull themselves together and are getting haggard day by day. She grabbed a few friends around her, who were her lifebuoy. No matter how much her friends tried to persuade her, she would only repeat the same sentence:

But I love him so much! I can't forget him. ”

You have a way, it's just that you don't want to. You are afraid that when you forget him, he will forget you too.

Everything is a thing of the past, and that's how we come to life.