My boyfriend is Korean, I am a single parent, and my father is very old. I m worried about getting m

Would your father want to go with you to Korea?

In fact, if your father is willing, you should also consider that an old man would rather live alone in his hometown than go to a place where he is not familiar with life and cannot even communicate with each other, he will be even more lonely.

How are you living now?

Have you and your boyfriend been in Korea all along?

In fact, if this is the case, Shu feels that there is no difference between getting married and not getting married.

How to live now, how to live when you get married.

I suggest that you spend more time with the elderly, after all, the old man is old, he also needs a support, your troubles are only temporary, discuss it with your boyfriend.

If the two of you have a good relationship, you can solve it if conditions allow.

If you have time to visit your parents, or pick up your parents to stay at your boyfriend's house for a while, you should travel abroad.

Take your dad over, or discuss it with your boyfriend, this man is really not authentic

Alas, isn't this okay to find trouble, there are many Chinese men, and there are many excellent ones.

Don't be sad, if your boyfriend understands you, let him stay in China with you, don't forget the old saying: "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait"! This is an eternal regret!

My father is old, so let's spend more time with him. Talk to your boyfriend and never come back.

Of course, you have to invite your parents, marriage is a big deal, and of course you have to get the blessing of your parents ( o )

It is absolutely necessary to "ask" the parents to come

Of course you can, Chinese, getting married is a big deal, and parents will be very happy to see it with their own eyes.

Of course, you can, you have to let your parents see that you are happy.

Yes, you can go to the legal department and submit a certificate of family visit.

The certificate that needs to be issued and notarized translated is as follows.

1. If you are unmarried, you need an unmarried certificate, and if you are divorced, you need a divorce certificate and a certificate of non-remarriage.

2. Proof of family relationship, that is, the relationship between your parents and you. Bring your household registration book to the local notary office and it will be opened for you.

The originals are as follows: your ID card and household registration booklet. It seems to be going to be **.

Let your boyfriend go to the travel agency in South Korea and ask, you can do it, it doesn't cost much, they will tell you very clearly what you need, and then you go and get ready and mail it to him. I wish you all happiness.

Learn luggage, this must be learned, and when you meet your parents-in-law, you won't be ugly.

Pick yourself a beautiful hanbok.

There is nothing else to prepare, mainly men. Before he married you, you were Chinese, so when you come to pick up relatives, you must follow the customs of Chinese women. After I took you away, you were officially a Korean daughter-in-law, and at this time, you had to do it according to Korean customs.

It should be about the same! But it depends on whether you settle in China or South Korea!

Upstairs is translated with a translator.

I'll translate it for you.

What else are you talking about in the United States, China and South Korea, the United States is a multicultural country where all ethnic groups can live in peace, here, everyone can pursue individuality, and your personality is to get married, and you don't need to take care of it at home.

But Korean daughters-in-law are very angry, you have to be careful, because they are more disciplined.

Don't be naïve.

Since he said this, he is actually implying that it is impossible for you, don't be sentimental, if he really loves you, he will solve these problems, it is not a problem you should consider...

The longer it drags on, the more you are hurt ...

It is advisable for you to give up, the culture is different. Chinese culture is very deep in Korea, and filial piety comes first, which is common sense for Koreans. He can't let his parents go, and he won't go against their will, so you'd better not have any illusions.

Moreover, Koreans are macho, and there is a world of difference before and after marriage. After you get married, you are a tool to give him children, and you have to serve him in his daily life, and even give up his career to become a traditional daughter-in-law with no status, how terrible is this!

You say that I am a Chinese, a descendant of your so-called ancestral kingdom of Korean culture, so please don't keep complaining that I am not doing well in some aspects.

I can't help it.

Korean men are traditional machismo, and they don't help the oil bottle at home. If you don't drink too much and don't get off the table, you really have to be mentally prepared. Unless you are of the same ethnicity.

You will also need to prove that you are not married! Very important!

It's hard to find a stick,,, hey.

Yes, there is no problem, but the tour operator may charge a departure fee. It is also possible to charge a large amount of deposit, the deposit can be paid, but you have to get a receipt, and the departure fee is less than 80,000 yuan per day for 2 people.

However, it is necessary to choose a travel route in advance, and do not choose the route of Jeju Island, otherwise the time may be very tight.

Yes, Korean customs and etiquette are learned first.

This is also my problem? Very concerned!