Do you think you can be good friends with guys who have chased you before?

I think it's okay to be good friends with boys who have chased me, because even though we have chased before, we are not together, and it is still a stage that is not embarrassing, so that we can still get to know each other very well as friends.

I think you can be good friends with the boy who once chased you, even if you don't like him and can't be lovers, but you can be friends because our two personalities are the same.

I don't think it's okay to be good friends with a guy who has chased you, because there is always some gap between two people when they get angry, and his kindness to you is not limited to the level of friends, it has a different feeling for you.

I think it's good to be good friends with the guy who used to chase me, because when that guy doesn't like him anymore, the two of them can still go back to the original state, which is good.

I don't think you can be a good friend, because once you know that the boy is chasing you, the two parties will not have a normal view of each other, and they will not be friends.

I think of course we can be very good friends, I'm my current boyfriend, they used to chase me, but now we've become very good friends, very good.

I don't think it's okay to be good friends with boys who have chased me, at most you can say hello to each other or something, because boys should be heartbroken.

I don't think I can be a good friend anymore, because the boy who chased me can't straighten himself up as a friend, so I don't think I can do it.

I don't think I'm going to be good friends with the guys I used to chase because after chasing myself, it would be awkward for us to be together again, so there was no way to be friends.

I used to be very good friends with the boy who chased me, because he still has a good personality and can actively enlighten a lot of advice, and I feel that he is my good friend.

The boy you like regards himself as a good friend and someone is chasing him, at this time you can take the initiative to tell the boy you like about your inner thoughts, and will try to make yourself what he likes.

Personally, it is normal for a boy to regard himself as a good friend, and it just means that this boy is very good, and it also shows that there is no problem with your vision, but it does not mean that this boy treats you as a good friend and you have no chance, I personally feel that this is a great advantage for you. As the saying goes, since you are very good friends, you will naturally know more about this boy. I don't know if you've ever told this guy that you like his thoughts.

I don't think you told him the question. You can try to be bold and tell him what you think, maybe he is also silently liking you.

Before this guy doesn't have a girlfriend, of course others can chase her, which is a normal thing. If you have told this guy what you think, and the boy has made it clear that he has no feelings for you, but only regards you as a good friend, it does not mean that you have no hope. Because boys' preferences are constantly changing, at this time you have to work silently to make yourself the type that boys like.

Maybe one day he will find that the person who once didn't feel it has actually become what he likes, so he will take the initiative to confess to you.

After all, feelings are a relatively personal thing, and if there is really no feeling, no one can force the other party. Therefore, you must also be mentally prepared for rejection, even after rejection, you must work hard to make yourself better, after all, only flower butterflies are natural. Maybe you missed this one, and there will be better people waiting for you in the future.

can take the initiative to confess to the other party, and should also tell Yuan Yu to let the other party know the true thoughts of his spine, so that he will not regret it for the rest of his life, and will give his feelings and himself a chance.

You should go to him face to face, tell him what he thinks, let him understand you and then be gentle and considerate to him, and think about him everywhere, I believe that after a long time, he will be moved by your wild circle.

In this case, you can try to communicate with the male ascendant you like accordingly, tentatively say some hints to him, and then see his reaction.

Although no one can say for sure what is emotional, but if a guy chases your friend and comes to chase you, it is obviously unreasonable, so when you encounter such a situation, how to deal with it?

Xiaoyi has been quite embarrassed recently, a boy turned his head to chase after him when he couldn't pursue his best friend. Although the best friend said that she didn't care, Xiaoyi, who is also a girl, knew very well that her best friend was still more or less uncomfortable in her heart. However, no matter how Xiao Yi hinted, this boy still reluctantly launched an offensive, which gave Xiao Yi a headache.

Not to mention that he is not interested in the other party, even if he has a good impression, he can't accept a person who has just chased his girlfriend and comes to chase him. So, Xiaoyi decided not to escape anymore, and she took the initiative to ask the boy out. Xiaoyi said bluntly:

I don't know if you really like me or if you're trying to get revenge on my friend, but for whatever reason, I'm not going to accept you. First of all, if you chase a girl and fail to immediately turn the target, it means that you are prone to change ideas; Secondly, if you chase a friend of a girl you like, it means that you don't understand human feelings, so please don't bother me in the future. After saying that, he simply left.

Actually, just like Xiaoyi said, let's put aside the embarrassment or not, a boy can easily change his goal, he must be a person who is not firm in his position and immature enough. Such a person should not be accepted even if you have a good impression, otherwise you may be hurt in the future.

Also, although your friend is not with this guy, there is such an inexplicable relationship in it. If you still want this friend and you don't want to do it in the future, it's best to say no to it so as not to hurt your relationship with your friend.

Therefore, when encountering this kind of thing, it is best to say it clearly, and never worry about the feelings of your friends while hesitating to refuse clearly. You must know that feelings are the most taboo and ambiguous, and only by frankly saying what you think is the best way to deal with it.

I will directly refuse the other party, and will tell my friend about this matter, otherwise my friend still thinks that there is something between the two of us, this kind of thing still has to be talked about, it is impossible to be with this boy.

Euphemistically refused, I don't want to have this kind of emotional involvement, this is not good for everyone, and it will be more embarrassing for friends to meet in the future, maybe it is a roundabout tactic adopted by this boy in order to get close to his good friend.

I won't accept him, because this kind of man must be shameless, knowing that he is his ex-girlfriend's best friend, and he still wants to chase himself, which is a problem with character and psychology.

If you don't like him, ignore him, learn to deal with him, try not to touch, and it will disappear on its own for a while.

I'll say no, and if I say yes, you'll probably lose a good friend. And after chasing a good friend and now chasing me, I doubt how much this person likes it.

If you refuse, it's best to keep your distance and don't ask for help if it's okay. In this way, we lose the scumbag, not our good sister. Friendship can last forever, but love is not necessarily.

If a guy who chased a good friend comes after me now, I might ask him why he is chasing me and tell him that the two of us are not suitable, after all, I don't want to upset my best friend.

First of all, show your attitude that you can be friends with him, but the relationship will not develop again.

Yes, as long as you let it go and he let it go, I think there will be no problem, but you must confirm again and again that he is no longer interested in you, and you will only be friends with him, otherwise it will be equivalent to hurting him.

I think it's okay to be friends, but it's a little embarrassing for the two of them, after all, he once confessed to you, so you will feel very restrained when you see him.

Yes, you just don't love anyone, and you don't owe anyone right, you don't owe anyone, and you don't cause harm to anyone, so you can still be friends.

Yes, as long as everyone says it and there is no mustard in their hearts, they can be friends. It's just a pursuit, not a relationship, and there are many people who have been in love who can be friends.

I don't think I can't, the boys who pursued me eventually drifted apart, and after you rejected him, the two of them would unconsciously keep their distance, and they couldn't be friends if they wanted to.

No, because we will definitely be embarrassed between us, and being friends with someone who makes you feel embarrassed will definitely not lack him.

As long as you don't mind, you can be friends with him, and it doesn't hurt you to be friends with him, there's nothing wrong with having one more friend.

Of course, you can, although you can't be lovers, you can still be ordinary friends. It does not affect the friendship between the two people.

I must be able to be friends, but I just pursued you once, and you didn't accept it, right? And this kind of friend is more tolerant of you in many cases, and will be a better friend.

You should answer him sensibly, you can be friends and slowly get along with each other. It's not good for anyone to have a broken window paper like this, he has had pain before, he likes you, he wants to be friends and understand you, and you refuse, which makes him very sad.

You are right.

Dating without the purpose of marriage is fruitless and tiring. Protect yourself.

He's afraid that you also have violent tendencies, so if you want to give up on him because of this, it's a pity, at least he dares to talk about it again, isn't it

First of all, I think the main reason for this incident lies in the man, because he has experienced some things, so there is a big shadow in his heart, so big that this shadow can affect his current decision. Offering to be friends is just a way for himself to try to get out of the shadows, and he doesn't know how long it will take, and he doesn't even know if it will work. As for what he said in the middle of the night, he should have weighed it for a long time, and the answer he got was that he still couldn't get out of the influence of this shadow, so he made a decision that should be very difficult and painful, so when you talk to him the next day, he can also accept it because he already has the answer in his heart.

Speaking of which, I would like to say, if you want him to be well, try to help him get out of this shadow, no matter what the purpose is, whether it's a friend or a lover, some things are really their own, it's purely personal.

Be a friend, be a friend, and friends are okay.

Men's attitudes determine how they relate to each other.

In a happy marriage, two people must get along with each other in an intimate relationship. In other words, harmony and cooperation can bring happiness to two people. If, in marriage, only the woman is working on it, and the man is passive, indifferent, and does not stand by, then the final result will not be more than two.

One is that the stubborn woman persistently strives to maintain the integrity of the marriage, swallowing all the tears and sorrows and digesting them silently. On the other hand, the woman finally refused to sing this one-man show anymore and began to give up her marriage career. In the end, the two became strangers and parted ways.

But in fact, no matter what it is, as long as the man's attitude can change and they can face the marriage positively, everything can change. It can be said that the quality of the relationship between two people largely determines the quality of the marital relationship and the satisfaction of the two people with the marriage. For women, only in a good relationship mode can they feel the love of men, taste the sweetness of love and the happiness of marriage.

Therefore, in marriage, whether a woman lives well or not often depends on the attitude of the man, because the attitude of the man determines how the two people get along.

If a man cheats, or does not live with a woman wholeheartedly, then in this case, the woman will also feel particularly tired, and this tiredness is not physical, but internal. If this happens to a man, the woman may divorce because she is too tired.

In marriage, if you want to be happy, you need men and women to work together to manage well, as a man, you must make your woman happy, if you make women feel bitter, the marriage is about to end.

You should stay away from this kind of man, why did she go back on her word? He doesn't pursue you exclusively in his feelings, and he is friends with you, why doesn't he talk incoherently? This kind of person with abnormal thinking, stay away from her, friends don't do it with him, stay away, a neurotic, turn around before you like him, find a boy who really likes you and wants to be your boyfriend, talk about a sweet love of his own, and let this boy regret it!

First of all, if I were this girl, I wouldn't contact this guy again. After all, the boy's attitude towards you was not very clear, indicating that he was not very calling, and now 2 years have passed, the boy should already have his own girlfriend, and your sudden contact is very abrupt and presumptuous.

Secondly, if I were this boy, if you contacted me, I would definitely be friends with you, for boys it is either friends or enemies, there will be no such neutral characters, so as long as boys are not disgusted with you, they will be happy to be friends with you.