We still love each other, but our mom broke them up

His mother said you when you were not married, it seems that his mother will not be a qualified old woman in the future, and marrying a dear person, of course, is a happy thing, but don't forget that married life is not a matter of two people, the old woman is too spicy, that kind of life is very bitter, really, it will make you feel that life is bleak, it will make you lose confidence in life, in fact, listen to your parents, most of them will not suffer, because your parents are from the past, they can see more thoroughly, and they will let you take less detours, No parent will let their daughter miss out on happiness, so listen to your parents, as painful as it is, it will only be temporary.

I also have this kind of problem, but I think if you can find a better one, listen to your mother, after all, you are an elder, if you can't find it, tell your mother, he is the best, the best for you.

As long as you really love each other, no matter how difficult you encounter, you have to insist, if you give up, you will regret it for a lifetime, the more difficult it is, the more you can show true love, and your mother said well, just say that you will be a beggar in the future, and you are willing, you will not blame anyone, don't quarrel with your mother, say it well, if it doesn't work, find a person who has a good relationship with your mother to persuade your mother, ask your mother to fulfill you, your persistence will impress your mother, find a way, hard not work, come soft, want your mother to know your determination. She will be soft-hearted, not to mention that she is in free love now, there is no arranged marriage, and she told her mother that you will not have a good time with anyone except him. Perseverance is victory, I wish you happiness.

This kind of thing is not urgent, just like a stew, you have to slowly let your mother change her opinion of your boyfriend, and slowly let your mother know that you will be very happy with him, after all, your mother loves you, and she also wants you to be happy, and oh, you have to listen to your mother's opinion of your boyfriend, to see if it is prejudice or true, after all, the lover is out of the West, the bystander is not, maybe your mother sees your boyfriend on the other hand! When you are in love, the other party's shortcomings will also become advantages, it is purposeless, irrational, recall your past, rationally evaluate the past, see if your boyfriend is really worthy of your efforts for him, if it is really worth your efforts for him, you work hard, your boyfriend may be for you, and the world is successful, your mother will change her opinion of your boyfriend under your efforts, and you will also usher in your happiness, hehe, I have not been in love, this paragraph is a feeling, so for reference,

We haven't received the blessing of our parents yet, but we will unswervingly move on, even if the whole world opposes it, there will still be each other. His embrace is the love of my life, as long as I hold my hand, I will never let go. His domineering claims:

If it is in my hands, I will have it for life. Love is a matter of two people, so be firm; Marriage is a matter of two families, so work hard. I hope that a lover will eventually become a family.

Hello. I'm in a similar situation to you, the difference is that the person who opposes us is his mother.

But what I want to tell you is that don't compromise because your parents oppose it, and don't marry yourself because you feel indebted.

If you love him, try to get your mother's consent with him.

How are my boyfriend and I doing? I've always been good to his mother, and at first his mother ignored me, but it doesn't matter, I don't give up, and then it's slowly better, really, after all, the happiness of children is what parents care about the most, if your mother really knows that you love each other very much, and others are good, then she will definitely agree, come on, I wish you happiness!

True love.

No one can take it apart.

Like Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai.

I can disassemble it. I still don't love deeply enough.

Is it to marry the parents or to the children?

You're too hilarious, too.

Let's see what they say when it's done.

How old are they?

And listen to them.

Be assertive, support you.

The solution is actually very simple, it is to persevere.

You've only been talking about it for a year, but it's not really long.

Take your time, he wants to be with you, too.

People are like that.

His family will definitely agree in the future.

You have to have hope for your future, otherwise sooner or later you will be divided, and because of your own reasons, you have to insist and believe that this happiness belongs to you.

Stick with it. Otherwise, you'll regret it when you look back decades later. I wish you all the best.

Trust your choice. He will not live with his parents for the rest of his life. Bear with me. Look at the opening point,

Don't give up, don't give up. Believe in yourself. Trust you guys.

Haven't you heard of elopement. In ancient times, those love scriptures were commonly used....

His parents' thoughts are all external thoughts, and you are not married to his parents, you ask him what he thinks, he is a man, and ask him how he wants to solve this matter. If he can't be the master and doesn't work hard, you are an outsider, no matter how hard you try, you can't change his parents' minds.

Mobilize his mother with sincerity, the key depends on your boyfriend.

You can choose to rent an independent house and go for a break, time will dilute everything!

Communicate well, you can't hate you if you were born by your mother, where did you come from without her.

Do you want to find out how to make sure that she is your mother, who has ever seen such a mother, there must be some problem between you, you don't know, but she won't tell you, find it clear, the problem, why does your mother want to be like this, if it's no problem, have you ever seen such a mother?

Find out why she did this to you.

I'm ashamed of you! Either way, you don't have any right to hold a grudge against your parents!

You have entered the misunderstanding, every love is love at the beginning, the more you go to the back, the more you can't hold on, the choice is yours, do you think the person you love, can you be selfish, do you know you, how much you know him, how much he understands you, happiness is actually very simple.

It's not wrong with your parents If you want you to find a good condition, you can only persuade your parents You are true love You say to them You are not looking for conditions You are looking for someone you love Please don't introduce me to someone I don't marry him If life is not good, I will bear the consequences But I want to get the blessing of my parents and so on.

Why don't you share your thoughts with your parents about these questions?

It's stupid.

I think it's better to listen to your parents and keep a certain distance.

What does it mean to be too intimate? Can't you be intimate when you fall in love? Don't want to get married? Is there a brain disease in your family?

Don't be too close in front of your parents, no one cares how intimate you love when no one gets it.

As long as your hearts are together, face them together. Don't miss out on people who love each other, it's too hard to meet. Maybe you'll regret missing it. True feelings are inseparable.

That's if you don't do your family's job, communicate more with your family, and they will understand you.

The two of you have to do ideological work for your family.

You're not selfish, after all, you love each other!

You're better than what happened to me! I'll talk about me!

I'm a very single-minded person! Fell in love with my former classmates! She loved me too, judging by the things we dating! She loves me!

But she was opposed by her family!

Later, my mom started to oppose it too! It's like we lasted for a year, and there were probably more than 800 text messages in a year!

But I never touched her, I didn't even hold her hand, and then my mom let me marry someone I didn't love!

We're done! On the day it was over, I called her and said, "We can't do it anymore, I'm already married!" She cried! I hear her crying, and I also love her for me and can't have a result! Crying! ”

That's the end of a wrong love!

I married someone I loved! (Tell you!) I'm not happy right now! Although I didn't quarrel with my wife! But there is no emotion, she is very good to me! I treat her like a sister! Two people just don't have feelings! ）

So you should choose what you love! If necessary, you can choose to elope!

If you really can't escape the persecution of your family! Then completely ruin this love that is not recognized by the family!

Good luck at the end!

I feel that the landlord is still too young, and people who really start a family will not put love and responsibility on their lips, but put it into practical action. It is recommended not to let each other fall into that cycle of longing for the sake of momentary pleasure and can't jump out, you should find a good direction to look forward, don't delay each other anymore, you and her are not suitable is not suitable. After all, marriage and love are two different things, you must accept the family and social relations of both parties, on the contrary, the family and its social relations must also accept you, otherwise although you can break through the resistance together, but in the end you will find that it is very hard and hard, after all, the family is to be able to bring each other a stable and peaceful life, and the endless struggle will make everyone very tired, I hope you can handle all this, I wish you happiness! ~

If you love each other, you have to stick to it.

Our family doesn't agree either.

Don't you agree to it now?

It is necessary to do ideological work for parents.

It's your business to live in the future.

Make your own decisions about your own marriage.

No amount of talk from outsiders will help you, because you are only comforting yourself by asking questions here. I had this experience, and my mom didn't approve of me and my boyfriend at first, and also threatened with death. But I have always insisted on it, and it has been clearly stated that even if it is bad in the future, it will not affect my mother's family.

It's equivalent to forcing each other to death) but in the end, my mother still acquiesced. If you can't let go of the words of both parties, you should persuade her and grasp your love when you meet again.

If it's because of the birthday or something, it's not necessary. You should do your girlfriend's ideological work. Pick her up from the house.

There is no reason for parents to prevent others from loving each other, even their own children. (Unless it's a brotherhood and sisterhood like in Korean dramas).

You should stick to your path.

Friends sympathize with you! You have no failures and no selfishness, it is your family who is selfish? Why do they object to your marriage?

It's a very pleasant thing to break up a love alive. It's really depressing to love each other but not be able to be together! If you want to blame our parents for not being wise enough, if you want to blame love is too beautiful, if you want to blame it for the inability to marry independently...

What is the reason why her mom is against you? Birthday? Or something else, this date of birth cannot be changed, but it can be explained from another angle, if it is because of your conditions, then you should try to meet the expectations of the elderly!

After all, people are alive! If both of you love each other, such a test will make you go further in the future! Let's go for it!

Don't wait for the girl to convince her mother, take the initiative and be sincere! Touching the hearts of the elderly is real! ~

Since we can't be together, we can't do this. Be responsible for your future family and her future family.

If you truly love each other. What are you two doing now? As long as it's the two of you willingly. You can't say right or wrong. Because it's all reasonable. are all suitable.

Her mom doesn't agree? Superstition? What superstitions? The fortune teller says you don't agree?

Whoever started the trouble should end it. Find a better master or something. Say you're together.

You shouldn't give up. The most important thing now is not these problems between you and her. It's a problem between you and her family. Come on..Find a reasonable and appropriate way to help yourself.

It's not selfish, if you can't be together, don't delay others.