What do you think about college love?

College love is believable.

Because many people hold back the emotions of middle school, study hard, and are admitted to college just to fall in love, many college students only start their first love in college, and first love is the purest love.

But there is generally no ending, because college is not a society, college can be romantic, you can spend the moon, you can fantasize, but once you get out of college, the problem of money is in front of you.

Regret for three years If you don't talk about it, you will regret it for a lifetime: so to speak, because it is more innocent compared to the love of social people.

Basically supportive, I'm a sophomore, even though I'm single.

Basically, after graduation, they went their separate ways, and some of them persevered.

I feel that college love brings me good memories, and there are many memories that I will never forget, and every experience will be unforgettable.

In fact, there is a lot of love in college and there is no future, but life is incomplete without a vigorous love. Research data shows that marriages united on blind dates are 10 percent higher than those of free love. So what is the purpose of love now, isn't it for this friendship to experience the kind of youth, once in a lifetime, what will happen to you?

Do you want to feed all your youth to the high number line generation of Great Britain? I probably don't have anything to say.

So probably choosing love, that is, choosing him, taught me how to love someone. Teach me how to take care of a person, teach me how to get along with a person day and night, how to hone my own temperament, and how to move towards a better future together. Even if I subconsciously think that there is no future, but when we are together, we have to be responsible, and we have to be an adult.

College love is no longer just a matter of having fun like in middle school. Even if most of the dating time is to eat, drink, and play, walk all over the streets and alleys, walk through many Internet celebrity stores, a cup of milk tea in the middle of the night, and a meal after class next night, in addition to these, it is more about self-study, and more to think about the future life, buy a house, buy a car, the thoughts of parents on both sides have been pressed on the body, which is very realistic. The circle of friends of the two people has overlapped a lot, and they can no longer be irresponsible.

Probably, when you meet the right person, you learn to grow up and become a little princess only in front of the broad-skinned other party, he will love you with all his heart, and you can remove all your disguises in front of him.

1. Stay away from greasy and official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people. If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing. When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and become a nasty appearance in the eyes of those around you. When you fall in love in college, you can go to those who are capable of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent.

But you must not look for those who "have no ability and can only put on an official show", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and black who are close to ink. Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

2. It's best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I just advise you not to choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and the way you deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth. But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating. After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love.

When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love. Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years. If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become useless and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement. To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities. Don't look for someone who will only play with you, waste time and study, you will eventually realize that "the beating of society is all about paying off the debts you once owed".

And those who accompany you to slowly become excellent are the objects you should really consider and choose.

1.First of all, when you are in college, many people will still choose to fall in love, digging up a boy because he is not like being controlled in high school, he can only secretly, and then there is a heavy study, and it is very easy in college, if you have a partner, the family will generally not object. On the contrary, it will be more supportive, so it will feel like a righteous and bright fall in love, it will feel very relaxed, that kind of love is sweet, it does not involve some bride price or some family problems, it is just a very simple love.

2.And if you go out of college, you can go out everywhere, and then you can also ask for leave very well, and then you don't have to go to class at the end of the week, sometimes you may have a long vacation on weekends and holidays, and you can also go out to play with the people you like, or go to see some attractions, or go to the places you want to go, those are very beautiful and very exciting, so it's really really love, it's really beautiful, but if you want to meet those who often like to change objects, Then I feel like this is really the devil. 3.

Because some boys like to change people, and then judge Wang He may be ** air conditioning, it may be seamless, of course, there are some girls, she will also like to change, because their emotions are unstable, at the time they thought you were very interesting, just want to play friends with you, but after a period of time they don't have this feeling, don't have this like, they will want to break up with you, and some people feel that their feelings can't last so long, there will only be freshness, so This can lead to all sorts of situations. 4.But I think if I fall in love in college, I meet a boy, he is good-looking, and then the height is also the kind of height that everyone likes, but I think he is seamless, and he is in the ** air conditioner.

Not only is he good to me, he is very good to all the girls, and then he buys me something and buys the same for other girls, and I feel that this is really a small object? It doesn't feel like it, so I don't think it's a good experience, so I proposed this kind of breakup. 5.

But I also saw a lot of pure love in college, and of course there were many people who were very good to me, but I felt that since I was not far from marrying, I couldn't give the other party a result, so I didn't delay what the other party said, and I didn't fall in love after college. Since there is no result, then I don't care about the process, because I have left some bad memories for others, and if I delay the other party, I will feel that I can't get out, and I feel very guilty. So the love in college didn't give me a good sense of experience, I think it was just that I met an inappropriate person, and it really felt very bad to meet the inappropriate person at the right time.

I hope I can help you, I wish you a happy life and a happy day!