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It's not that you don't know how to live, it's that you're backing down when you're hit by difficulties.
You are only 18 years old, life has just begun, and there are still many ups and downs waiting for you to taste in the future.
When you become an adult, don't rely on your parents anymore, you are already an adult, you have to be responsible for your future life, go find a job and do it first, eat the food you earn, spend your hard-earned money, you will slowly understand what life is.
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Come out and work, society will make you mature.
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It's not uncommon to experience confusion in life, because it brings uncertainty and anxiety to turning points and challenges in life, such as finding a job after graduation, getting married, and having children. Here are a few reasons why you might get lost:
1.Changes in the social environment: Socio-economic, political, cultural and other changes can lead to problems where people do not know what to do, how to do it, and what to achieve.
These changes may have an impact on career planning, family development, personal growth, and more.
2.Unclear personal positioning: Some people are vague about their values and directions in interpersonal relationships, family, career, etc., and it is difficult to determine their position and future direction, which will lead to their confusion.
3.Uncertainty about the future: The future is not complete, and sometimes even if a decision is made, the outcome cannot be determined. Such uncertainties can lead to personal confusion.
4.Overthinking: Some people overthink and struggle with whether their choices, decisions, or ways of doing things are the right one, which can leave them in a state of confusion.
While the experience of being lost can be confusing and helpless, it also provides us with an opportunity to reflect and reflect. During this period of confusion, we can take a closer look at our values, interests, abilities and future directions, as well as look for new ideas and opportunities. The experience also teaches us to be confident, adaptable to change, and problem-solving, all of which are very important qualities in the long term of development and growth.
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When everyone is confused, I am also very confused now, and I am helpless in the face of my current job, I want to go through my own career, but I don't know what to do, and I just don't have any capital. I'm waiting, I believe that I will not be worth such a little value in my life, there are many people who feel lost like us, and when they are confused, they can't even recognize themselves, no matter what, don't give up what you want in your heart, even if the future is bumpy, you and I have to persevere, isn't it someone who said? Man's life is all about waiting.
It is honing your mind, grinding you to the thinness of a piece of paper, grinding you to life, to difficulties, to failure are fearless, grinding you even if you are bruised, you can still leak that slight smile.
Now I feel that life is very lost, and finding the direction is to first determine a short-term goal for yourself. Then follow your goals and go step by step, so that you can and will not be confused.
Be strong, and everything that is not good will pass. As long as you think about the better tomorrow that awaits you. Then the darkness will not crush you, think about the things that confuse you before you go to bedMaybe the good will start tomorrow.
Friends, you should continue to study, in fact, only students in school can't realize that school can also learn a lot of things, work in society or something, and have the opportunity to study in the future, but if you miss school reading, you won't have a chance. Since you are so hesitant, I believe that you are a little reluctant to read in your heart. Continue to study, even if you regret it for a few years, it is better than regretting it for a lifetime. >>>More
I knew it at work
That is, a colleague or someone with whom you do business. >>>More
First love is really hard to forget, but you can't hang yourself on a tree, the way to forget him is not to think about him at all, first of all, let your life and time be sufficient, don't think about so many things, and if you don't accept new feelings you won't forget him at all, you don't want to find shortcomings in others, people will have shortcomings, but if you want to really forget him, you have to start a new love life again, completely forget that person, I hope you will come out as soon as possible, The first love for 3 months will definitely not come out, it will definitely take a while, and you may never forget it for a lifetime, but at that time, you have to put your relationship with him in the deepest part of your heart, never think about it, and start your new life again!! A blow is nothing, don't accept new feelings because of one, I hope you can be happy!