Interpersonal masters! A classmate who doesn t have a good relationship spreads rumors about me ever

You should start by thinking about your own problems....There's got to be a reason why she doesn't like you....And so many people listen to her and don't listen to you....Surely there is something unpopular about you....So find out the fault and correct it in time....They don't talk to you because you're the focus of the matter....They will definitely care about your behavior....When they see someone who is completely different from the rumor, the rumor will be self-defeating.

You are not afraid of crooked shadows, time can prove everything, endure this time, and use your sincerity to impress others (including those who listen to rumors), as long as you are really a good person, there will always be people who will believe you!

I was also slandered for a while, also in my freshman year of high school, but then I ignored it and studied hard, and finally someone believed me, and I was able to outperform them in my academic performance. Relationships in high school are not the most important, the most important thing is the grades, which make the college entrance examination. Think again!

At this time, the more you explain, the more embarrassed you become, you should be calm, silent to avoid it, and after a while you explain a friend you trusted. Let her help you explain, you can get out of this situation, time is the best way to break the lie**.

There is no need to explain the tough life, there are always some laymen in this world who don't understand the truth of the matter at all, and talk nonsense behind others, don't take it to heart.

Be brave enough to stand up and explain if they really don't believe it. Then leave it alone. Always don't do bad things, and don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. To support the upstairs, learning is key.

I'm just like you. Tell me to be careful!

Ha ha.. If you hit me. I have a reason not to read! I'll just play it for a few months! When you're in a good mood, you come back to read!

You're spreading rumors about her too!

Hitting someone will not solve any problems, you can only make the matter more serious, sit down and solve it well.

Think a little more rationally, and he'll understand.

Find a teacher.

Then talk to him.

Rumors, I've also been ostracized by the people in the dormitory, me. It's normal for others not to put their own things together with others. In school, some people spread rumors, and people spread rumors, and people are wrong, right?

How long have you been going on with this rumor. If it's for a short time, it's okay for a long time. Me, when I was in elementary school and junior high school.

I've also been spread rumors or something. I was also told by my classmates.,Pointing fingers, isn't it.,Hey.,It's good that it didn't spread all over the school.,Or I don't know where my face is.。 Because I also have the same self-esteem as you, and I'm a normal person, hehe.

You've been kicked out by the dorm guys, and you've kicked them out of the dorm outside. You're alone, aren't you? I'm a person, too, me.

Hehe, if you don't know any classmates outside, whatever. If you don't handle interpersonal relationships well for others, people will drive you away.

Why care what people think, it's good to be your own, it's impossible to make everyone like you. You try to talk to them about why they spread rumors like this, and of course, if you don't change what others say, you can encourage them, and just relax your mind.

Girls are like this, otherwise how could they say "three women in one play".

Don't care what others say, if you do the right thing, you are not afraid of anything, go your own way.

See if you're wrong, (change), and then talk to her Well, if you can't do it, find someone to talk to her deeply.

Over time, let time solve this problem.

Your personality has a certain impact on your ability to communicate and see problems. Since the birth of human beings, the pursuit and study of human beings has never stopped, and human beings are indeed complex, but if you don't understand and communicate, then you will lose even the few sincere people you have. Friends, don't push the whole with a few special people.

That way, it will be tiring.

You know you very well and are happy for you.

Yes, your analysis is correct.

There's no need to do anything, you don't care if she says it or not, you have to think about it, she makes rumors about you everywhere, if other people listen to her, then it means that other people are the same kind of people as her, and I don't think those people need to be friends.

Just be yourself, you don't want to be with them for the rest of your life, so it doesn't show that you are bullied, or weak, you just don't have the same knowledge as her, you have your style, you have your arrogance.

It's over with a smile

Hmph: That's the kind of person you have. You don't have to worry about anything. You're not wrong. It's them who are at fault.

Remember, let's go the way and let others take a hit!!

Whatever they do. That's when you can see who your true friend is! If you can't read it. Are they or some of your friends?

Then you have to find her and ask him why he is making rumors about you, and ask for the help of his classmates.

Ignore her, just be yourself! Don't be too weak, because others are sad or painful or something, anyway, it's not your fault, it's okay to do what you want, there is still a long way to go, and there are many friends, there is no need to be so painful for a friend who has hurt you.

I've been in a similar situation to you.

You fight it, this kind of person can't make sense with him.

If you can't hit it once, hit it twice until she apologizes to you.

Courteously stand. After a long time, when everyone understands her, no one will have anything to do with her, and then you will clarify the facts. It would be better if it was a different environment.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Depend on. Grass to death her, so naïve.

What is she doing, after a long time, everyone will naturally know who is right and who is wrong.

Can you give us an example? Why do people react so badly to the slightest bad thing?

I think the first thing is to face up to what people are saying about you behind your back. I've always believed that nothing is necessarily uncaused. After solving the current problem, gradually improve yourself.

Secondly, the mentality should be good. Who doesn't say anything behind their backs, and who doesn't talk behind anyone's back? People are talking nonsense, there is no need to rest assured.

Finally, communication between people is all about communication. No matter how introverted you are, you have to learn to get along with people and live. I hope you solve the problem soon and live happily.

I've been in this situation as well. But nowadays people just like to join in the fun, like to build other people's pain on their own joy, like this kind of person laughed off, there is no need to deal with him, let alone angry for this kind of person, it's not worth it, you want people like them to understand you, that's a fantasy. Do what you should do, and one day you will meet a close friend. Come on!

You don't have to care what others say, if you care too much, then life is no different from a pair of pants, you have to follow whatever other people fart, do what you can, just do what you can.

You're taking the wrong first step. You shouldn't sit idly by and watch some people say something false. Also, you shouldn't leave your old circle.

In fact, you don't have to deliberately alienate anyone, you can play together, so you can avoid embarrassment, and look at the problem maturely.

Say less, do more, no one will say anything about you, people who are easy to be attacked generally like to be in the limelight, and what they say is different from what they do.

Silence is golden. There is no need to explain much.

It's not easy for people to live, stay away from those villains, and get close to those who are good to you.

Prove it with your sincerity and actions. Have faith in yourself.

Changing the environment and starting all over again is a sign of immaturity. You have to learn to adapt to the environment, because the road is only ahead, and you can only go down.

I would like to send you a word: don't tell all the truth, don't say all the bad things.

As long as you have a clear conscience and have a few close friends, you can do it. How can everything be as it should be?

Communicate more with friends, communicate more with people, and everyone has their own rods and scales in their hearts for good and bad. Let them say it ...

As long as people have a clear conscience, what others think and say is out of your control, don't pay too much attention to these, you don't live for them.

= = 。If they go too far, just resist. Staying silent like this will only make them think you're a bully ...

Hello, I summarize in one sentence, no one can understand whom, there are just values, values are the same, you will walk together, values and ideas, then you have to go your own way, just be yourself, with a clear conscience.

This kind of thing is normal, leave it alone and be yourself.

Whatever he does, living his own life, what is love.

It's good to know what to do, and the mouth grows on others, and what they say is not something that others can control, and they will see people's hearts over time.

Be yourself and let others say go

Don't worry so much, you should live for yourself.

This is more common, according to my meaning, be more assertive, don't want the teacher and other people to discuss other topics, especially the topic of the company or something, originally the thing is not what you said, but the words that come out of other people's mouths will become what you say.

Why care what they think?

You came into this world for your own life, or for the people you love and your family, and only people with real low self-esteem will speak ill of others.

Courage is not not to be afraid, but even if you are afraid, you will face difficulties, even if you are in pain, you will face it directly, and you just need to be yourself.

Never trust rumors and stop at the wise, but if you can afford to wait, time may prove for you.

A good way is to find someone who is easier to contact, treat each other sincerely, and then gradually open up your circle. In this way, everyone will see the truth of the matter through their own eyes.

This is the open and secret struggle between girls, and this requires that kind of spirit: there is nothing in the first place, where is the dust...

Re-examine whether you have really done something annoying (because many times you don't know when to make others hate) If not,

Be yourself, other people's eyes are your burden, put these down, look away, be the best yourself, and only you know what you are like, empty on the other hand, look at yourself ** Something went wrong, why others would treat you like this, everything has a cause and effect.

As long as you have a clear conscience, in the end, others will eventually find out who is really speaking ill of you behind your back.

The rumors stop at the wise, let people say go and go their own way! What is there to be sorry for people who can be seduced by rumors, people who like you will understand you and like you! Why punish yourself for the mistakes of others!

The foot is not afraid of crooked shoes. Time proves that a rumor is not broken.

In a different environment, readjust your mindset and read some books on how to behave in the world.

No matter what others do, as long as you do what you do with a clear conscience, don't do bad things, and don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. It's good to know yourself.

Go your own way, let others do it, be a master, live the life you want, don't think about what others say about you, live for yourself, not to avoid gossip.

Be cautious in words and deeds. Rumors stop at the wise. If you do it yourself, there is nothing to criticize others, and naturally there is nothing to talk about you.

Know how to keep your distance from people who like to speak ill of you and stand your ground.

Those who are clear are self-purifying authors, don't care what others say, just be yourself.

Go your own way and let others do the talking. However, try to refrain from socializing.

Ignore them and treat them as shit.

But change places just the roof rolling.

The rumor stops at the wise, ignore it, and it fades after a long time.

Open your heart and live your life. Since everybody says so, now you can only let go and get back to yourself.

Go your own way and let others have no way out.

Seeing what happened to you, I feel very sympathetic for you, in fact, I am a person with a similar personality to you, relatively low-key, and do not want to conflict with others.

Your situation is actually mainly caused by the person who scolded you first, and the other children just thought it was funny, and they didn't know what the consequences of their actions would be.

I think your biggest problem is that you're not confident enough, and I don't really approve of your behavior: "I made a decision. Decide who calls me urinal, I'll hit whomever again.

Because I'm much stronger than all of them", and if this behavior continues, it may overly sensitize you and even cause delusions of victimization.

I don't think the psychiatrist you described is professional enough, and he doesn't dig into your fundamental problem, but just makes judgments based on his own experience and is irresponsible. You actually need a way to vent, and it's not about putting up with it, it's because you put up with it too much that the current problem is caused. But, to be clear, I am in no way in favor of your use of violence to solve problems.

I don't know how old the first person to scold you is, but he is certainly not a very high-quality person himself, and you don't need to be as knowledgeable as him. In terms of behavior, I agree with the psychiatrist's instructions, ignore them, but never endure it, but don't take it seriously, other people's words do not negate your value. I think you should find a field that you are good at to achieve your sense of fulfillment and develop your self-confidence, and I believe that this will be better for you.

Also, I think it's better for you to get out of this environment for a while, make some friends in a new environment that can support you, help you, and have a good relationship, which will be very beneficial to you.

I'm not a professional counselor, so don't worry too much about what you say wrong, I just hope it can help you.