Why do people like to solve problems with a breakup?

One is to blackmail, and the other is to have enough.

It is impossible to generalize what the psychology of this kind of person is, and it can be analyzed from several aspects.

The first aspect: the psychology does not care about the relationship.

Some people often say that they break up because they don't care about the other party's feelings, they don't care about the relationship, or they don't love each other. In fact, when this kind of person gets along with each other, he will find that he may blindly take from the other party and not pay at all. Always enjoy the emotional comfort or financial support that the other person brings, or to be more precise, this person treats you as a spare tire, and when he meets a better and more financially capable person in the future, he may leave you and turn into another embrace.

After the breakup, he did not keep or be sad, but found other people of the opposite sex to comfort him, there are still quite a few such people in today's society.

The second aspect: knife mouth tofu heart.

This is talking about another kind of person, who actually gives a lot in the relationship and really loves each other. It may be because he was hurt in the previous relationship, or because he was hurt in his original family, in this case, when he finds that the other party does not love him a little bit (maybe there is a quarrel), he will say that he broke up, which is actually a sign that he is not confident, or does not want to be hurt again, and uses the breakup to protect himself. At that time, it may have been that he had a very bad mood to vent his emotions, but in his psychology he still loves each other, this is the person with a knife mouth and a tofu heart.

After the incident, he regretted it very much and wanted to save the relationship, you can see his emotions after the breakup to know what he thinks.

There may be more types, but the most people around me are these two kinds of people, all if your other half is like this, it depends on what he usually does for you, whether it is out of sincerity, you can slowly calm down with your heart, and carefully think about everything that happened to you in the past, so that you can judge what kind of psychology he said about the breakup, and avoid yourself from being hurt again because of a mistake in judgment.

Sometimes I can't help but suspect that it is two people who are not sincere enough in love. In fact, most of the reasons why two people who love each other break up is because one of them never thought that they would separate, so they are too unscrupulous in their relationship, and it is too easy to ignore that the relationship is a problem that requires two people to operate together.

You must know that once everyone takes the initiative, they will be tired, and they will be even more tired if they don't get a response for their efforts, and they can't expect the results they want. When the heart is tired, it is easy to get cold, and when the heart is cold, it is difficult to cover the heat.

When a person's heart is cold, he will have the heart to leave, and once he is determined to leave, he will not be able to pull it back in the end.

We often put the words "feelings need to rely on the joint efforts and joint management of two people" on our lips, but often in a relationship or marriage, some people always have no fear because they are loved, and they only know how to enjoy each other's love by accident, but they ignore their own share.

Enjoying love too unscrupulously will only make the people who love you less enthusiastic about you. Therefore, it is often seen that some people, when the other party is about to walk away, only to reflect that they have done much less.

1. Two people lack a common language.

In a relationship, it is very easy to break up without a common language, because two people get along together, nothing more than having something to say, if there is nothing to say with the other half, or there are many places where there are unspeakable, then the result of two people being together is a quarrel, and there are cracks in the relationship. In a relationship, each other will hope to be full of laughter, rather than "pantomime" every day! Everyone hopes that in the relationship, they can blend with each other and have no distance from each other.

It is precisely because of having a person who can say nothing that they can get close to each other's inner world and love each other more deeply!

2. Lack of trust in each other.

In a relationship, what aspects are most important, probably everyone's answer is different. Some people feel that the three views, family, and getting along are comfortable, and some people feel that the material, character, and feeling. But for the trust of the other party, the vast majority of them are in favor.

In a relationship, if there is no trust in each other, there is no communication at all. Due to the distrust of the other party, too many problems will be involved, which will lead to quarrels, and this point is also a very high breakup rate! The beginning of a good relationship comes from trust, if there is no basic foundation, then such a relationship will not last long.