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Anonymous users2024-02-10This is the difference between the East and the West, foreigners must be much more open than us Chinese. So as old drivers, if they start driving, we will definitely be unable to parry. We Chinese must belong to the kind of particularly conservative people, even the pictures of the male and female protagonists kissing on TV usually, parents will not let their children watch ah.
is when Sha Yi and Anji watch a TV series, every time there is a picture of a kiss in a TV series, Sha Yi asks Anji to pour water for him. Later, Anji couldn't stand it and asked him: Look at the kiss, are you very thirsty?
This embarrassed Sha Yi, and Sha Yi's behavior of breaking away from Anji was what Chinese parents did to their children. But foreign parents always take the initiative to teach their children about sexuality.
My mom is very taboo to talk to me about this kind of thing now, because she is too conservative. So in front of your boyfriend, you will appear to be very conservative. In fact, after a long time, you will accept this way of driving.
After all, the scale is too big, and we Chinese generally can't stand it. But in fact, you can talk to your boyfriend well, because you and his culture are too different, so if you don't coordinate well in advance, I think you can have a big conflict in the future.
But as an adult, it's not unusual to talk about this kind of sex. After all, this kind of thing is all about two people, and it's with your own boyfriend. Maybe you communicate often, and it will be beneficial for your sex life in the future.
It may be unacceptable for those of us who are not in a relationship now. But foreigners are so open, you just have to understand each other.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Foreigner boyfriends are also men, and men prefer to talk openly about sex more than women.
What I don't quite understand is what he talks about that you can't accept. Men all over the world are basically the same when it comes to sexuality, and of course they have their own special quirks. So there's no need to label your boyfriend as a foreigner.
Stripping him of all the labels and reverting to the man himself may help you clear the fog.
Also, if you really think what he's talking about is unacceptable to you, just tell him directly.
Instead of generating dissatisfaction in the heart, treating each other with sincerity between lovers will be good for each other in the long run!
Of course, foreigners' understanding and acceptance of sex are more open, they will not be ashamed to talk about sex, but feel very normal things, after understanding the difference between Chinese's views on sex and foreigners' views on sex, you can be more tolerant of your boyfriend's content about sex!
Therefore, everything is from the perspective of solving problems, a little more tolerance, a little more understanding, and I believe that your relationship will get better and better.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Different countries are different, and the customs of each country are different. You have to use your ideas to influence him slowly.
If he still loves you, you should make it clear to him, you can only choose one of the two of you, if he chooses an ex-girlfriend, it means that you are looking at the wrong person, if he still can't choose, or doesn't want to choose, I think you should be separated for a while, if he loves you in his heart, then he will understand who is his true love when he can't see you, then he will go to you himself, if not, then your fate is over, the boy is sometimes with his ex-girlfriend is not that he still loves his ex-girlfriend, It's just that he feels that as a man, he has a little guilt about his ex-girlfriend, and when he thinks it's over, he will return to you, don't worry, he loves you and wishes you happiness.
If he turns back, then he is still the person you liked at the beginning It's just because he mentioned it first, and then you realize that it's not the initial feeling It's because you don't feel it at first, but because you don't feel like it, if he treats you better, don't you feel like it, it's because he doesn't care about yourself, you feel this way, isn't it, you're just not used to it, but can you have the feeling you want when you are reconciled, you don't actually understand Your mind is still very hot, you say you like him, but what do you like about him, in fact, it's just that it's just lonely and unaccompanied, but suddenly I realize that his feelings give you a casual but unforgettable time, but it's all over, it's better to go with the flow than to worry, if because he missed the more desirable person in your life, maybe you will continue to regret it.
Although this society is very realistic, you have your ideas, but after all, you are immature, because you have experienced too little, you still have to consider the advice of your parents, discuss your thoughts with your parents, I don't know if you have watched a TV series "New Marriage Era", the male protagonist is also from the countryside, but he is a door-to-door son-in-law. You can take a look at the comparison. There is a saying called: >>>More
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Friends, fight for it, many people don't fight for it, just let love go by, maybe it will be much better slowly, take my mother to see first, my mother's heart is soft, and I will fight hard.