Why do you feel old when you re in your 20s?

Hello, I am Zhou Xiaopeng, the dean of the Baihe Marriage and Love Research Institute, a psychological counselor, and I use professional knowledge to solve complex emotional problems.

In a society that advocates youth and progress, the term "old" is often juxtaposed with decay, obsolescence, and disability; Feeling old when you are only in your 20s is actually a negative emotion that looks at yourself as useless, rather than positioning yourself in a state of maturity and harmony and outstanding ability. The long-term decadence and weakness in the heart, the lack of desire to change the external behavior, and the fear of taking risks bring a sense of aging.

Walking around the rivers and lakes, carefully observing, people who always like to shout about their old are usually old people who use "old" as an excuse, and prefer to stick to the conventional prevarication and prevarication reasons for delusional confusion. Sometimes if you are too lazy to walk a few steps, you will say that you are old and have no physical strength; Sometimes I don't have enthusiasm for superfluous activities and occasions, and I don't have an interest in them, so I say that I am old and not suitable to participate...Even when it is time to shoulder the responsibility, use old age to escape and refuse to put effort into it. And this kind of behavior of "shouting old" has been done too much, and it really has been ridiculed by the old fritters.

Generally speaking, in their 20s, they have not been in the society for a few years, their economic foundation has not yet been consolidated, their personal connections are not broad enough, and it is difficult to get started even in their own careers. During this period, it is inevitable to hit a wall and set backs, and it is natural to be hindered by the fact that the reality is not useful, or to actively change the runway, or to compromise, and wait for the opportunity. This should be full of vitality and potential, even if there is a comparison between the back waves of the Yangtze River pushing the front waves every year, it is inevitable to be afraid, but at least you must be able to turn to yourself.

Review yourself every quarter and every year, and then plan and set the next goal; Seek spiritual mentors and business partners to learn and grow together; Exercise regularly, develop fitness habits, and be healthy from the outside in.

In his 20s, he thinks he is old from the bottom of his heart, to put it bluntly, it is nonsense, self-hypnotic suggestion. No longer have the courage to dream, no longer have the ideal of taking risks, and lack of enthusiasm for anyone and everything. On the one hand, I feel powerless to change the status quo, but on the other hand, I will not put much effort and sacrifice for it.

As a result of long-term self-hypnosis, people age faster and are eliminated from reality sooner.

1.Feeling young and energetic: When you are 20 years old, you may feel very young and energetic both physically and mentally. You may have more energy and motivation to explore the world and try new things.

2.Living without a lot of responsibilities and worries: By the age of 20, you may not have taken on a lot of the weight of family, career, and financial responsibilities. You can live more freely and enjoy less burdens and worries.

3.More time to learn and grow: At a young age, it may be easier for you to learn and master new knowledge. You can be more free to take risks, broaden your horizons, and grow by exploring and trying new things.

4.There are more opportunities to try new relationships and experiences: By the time you're 20, you may not be in a long-term relationship or marital relationship yet. You can try new relationships and sexual experiences to understand your needs and preferences.

However, it is impossible to go back to the age of 20, every age has its own beauty, the important thing is to cherish the current life, and seize every moment to achieve your goals and dreams.

Hello, as the saying goes, when I reached the age of 30, I really realized that I was no longer young, and the reason why at this stage, I think that I am no longer young, is not just the change of age, or due to the following reasons.

First of all, when I reached the age of 30, I suddenly realized that my career development has also entered a bottleneck period, because those newcomers who have only stepped into the workplace in their early 20s often reflect more abundant physical strength and more avant-garde ideas in the process of competition with themselves, and also have more trendy ideas and more creative ideas, so that they are truly aware of their shortcomings and shortcomings, and also let themselves truly realize that they are no longer young, and even in some things have not kept up with the times.

In this case, I really realized that the responsibility on my shoulders is getting heavier and heavier, and I am no longer young, and I can no longer do what I want to do according to my own ideas as before, many times I have to take into account the feelings of my family, and I must fulfill my sense of responsibility, especially in terms of daily consumption. After all, the education and training of children in the future, as well as the pension of the elderly in the future, will cost a certain amount of time and material costs, so from this aspect I also truly realize that I am no longer a young person.