I didn t like school at the age of 16, and my father beat me up

Updated on parenting 2024-04-23
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Looking for a job now, without a diploma, at a young age, it is difficult to find. Ask yourself, if you were looking for a job, what job would you be looking for? Your dad wants you to fight you without regretting it in the future, change positions and think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your dad is still good for you.

    Now in this society, it's not good to study, and not a few people can live well.

    And you're only 16 years old now, and you don't necessarily have the stamina to support it when you work outside.

    I'll tell you as someone I've come from.

    I didn't want to go to school, and even if I did, I couldn't read it, and I thought it was a waste of time.

    I thought that if I didn't study, I could get ahead.

    I came out to work to realize how important knowledge is to a person.

    Even if you succeed, you're going to have to go through a lot of torture.

    It doesn't matter if you want to study now or not, but in school, you will definitely develop a temperament, which is not something that can be bought by any amount of money.

    Child, you should listen to your father and study well.

    Society is not a single family, nor is it a school that you hate, and when you need knowledge, you will regret it.

    You'd better think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to go to school, this is an era of knowledge, and heroes know how to accumulate and develop. In fact, university does not completely ask you to learn knowledge, but to give you a microcosm of society, so that you can learn how to study and how to face society. Your father's knowledge is not iron, maybe the method of education is not entirely correct, you also understand the hearts of parents in the world, family will never harm you, you go to school to make some good friends, or use the time to do to fulfill some of your wishes is also good.

    You can discuss it with your father, try to work, give you a chance, don't quit studying, you can take a vacation, you are still too young, maybe when you understand the hardships of society, I think you will be willing to go back to school. When you talk to your dad, you should be gentle, between family members.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. First of all, we must strengthen education, children must be persuaded and educated in a timely manner, tell children the harm of beating, especially should not hit their mothers, if there is a problem, they should communicate and exchange well, rather than solve it by force. Especially if the child encounters some setbacks and has the problem of beating, we must intervene in time to stop it in time, and at the same time inform the child that such behavior is wrong, and let the child deeply realize that it is not good to beat his mother through persuasion and education.

    2. Secondly, appropriate punishment and defense education, punishment is an effective way to solve the problem of children hitting people, when the child has a situation of hitting the mother, you can choose some punishment measures appropriately, such as letting the child write the examination, etc., so that the child understands that this is a very bad behavior in the process of writing the examination, and may even cause tension with the mother and other consequences, so we must let the child deeply realize that this behavior is wrong. Other penalties can also be used, such as appropriately reducing the child's pocket money, or even shortening the amount of time he spends playing games.

    3. Finally, seek the help of the child's father, because there are many children who may not be afraid of their mothers, but they will be afraid of their fathers, at this time, both parents need to give their children positive education, especially when the child hits the mother before the limbs, the parents need to intervene in time to stop it. The father of the child should also strengthen the persuasion education of the child, and even participate in the punishment education.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The so-called three-year-old beating mother will laugh to death, we will cry at the age of 16, in fact, the education is very late, he has laid a very tough and deep-rooted foundation, he beats you then you can only through some legal means, but this is some too professional, but you can call the police. Because he is already facing the things that the Qing clan needs to bear at his age.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If there is such a child in the hall, it may be caused by the parents who are too doting, of course, there may be other reasons, I suggest that you call the police in time and let the police deal with it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. It's understandable to be a parent, but the child is lawless, and it is a good thing that the police should educate him.

    I often play with my mobile phone, go to the Internet bar, ride an electric car and don't go home at night, sometimes I don't give him money, and I often beat me.

    You should talk to him calmly, and if you can't listen to him, call the police.

    It's understandable to be a parent, but the child is lawless, and it is a good thing that the police should educate him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. You tell him not to do it today because you are my son and I am afraid of hurting you, and today we will fight as two men, and then let him suffer a little but not too much.

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

    On the one hand, he is usually doting, and it is also possible that the mother does not respect the father at home, causing the child to be cowardly in his cognition of his father.

    My son is sixteen years old and beats me a lot.

    You tell him that today because you are my son Wuji, I am afraid of hurting you, so I won't do it, and today we will fight with two men as Song Ants, and then let him suffer a little, but don't be too serious.

    And then accompany him as a friend of the world to do what he likes at that age, and tell him that we can get along in the mode of brothers, which kind of boy Mu you think you like, he naturally has a contrast.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you! A 16-year-old child, after being beaten, it seems that he doesn't go to school

    First of all, we parents should figure out the ins and outs of the matter, try to find the reason from the child's oral statement, and then communicate with the teacher tactfully to find the reason. It is really the reason for the child, parents should guide the child from the teacher psychologically, especially the teacher should give greater care to make up for it, it is the teacher's reason, and parents should also put forward their own views and protect their children.

    A 16-year-old child, after being beaten, it seems that he doesn't go to school

    Hello, glad to answer for you! What should a 16-year-old child do if he doesn't go to school after being beaten: first of all, we parents should figure out the ins and outs of the matter, try to find the reason from the child's oral statement, and then communicate with the teacher tactfully to find the reason.

    It is really the reason for the child, parents should guide the child from the teacher psychologically, especially the teacher should give greater care to make up for it, it is the teacher's reason, and parents should also put forward their own views and protect their children.

    What to do if your child is beaten by a teacher and doesn't want to go to school: 1. Comfort your child and help him calm his emotions: hug him and kiss him, and tell him that you are by his side no matter what.

    2. Check the injury, whether there is any external injury or further examination for internal injury according to the child's performance. 3. Induce children step by step to restore the truth as much as possible. If the child is still young, parents should let themselves calmly understand the matter from the child's words and do not jump to conclusions.

    4. Find other classmates in the class who are good with the child and ask about the situation, so as to facilitate comprehensive judgment.

    5. Send a message to the teacher, give honest feedback on the child's situation at home, and make an appointment with the teacher for an interview. This is a buffer, which not only reminds the teacher but also gives the teacher enough face, and does not have to worry about other consequences caused by his anxious words when meeting and colliding with the teacher. 6. Interview.

    Parents should be present as much as possible during the interview to show that they are serious about the matter, and the child should not be present. In the process of talking, parents are neither humble nor arrogant, and have in-depth communication with teachers according to the work they have done in the early stage. It is necessary to affirm and understand the teacher's work, and then mention the main purpose of the interview as calmly as possible, and finally put forward hopes for the child's future.

    7. Finally, reach a unified opinion, and leave after proper handling. Children are wronged parents must not be impulsive to stir things up, children grow up on the road, will meet hundreds of teachers, how to communicate with teachers correctly, exchanges, so that children can grow up happily is our ultimate goal, but also teach children a gentle rather than sharp way to solve the problem, this is the best policy.

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