I want to be single during the day and fall in love at night, so distressed!

First of all, congratulations, you are a normal man, secondly, even if you are busy at work during the day, you have to have a girlfriend, because love will make you feel that everything around you is beautiful, because women you will have a lot of enthusiasm for life and work motivation, you will realize that someone cares about you and you are also concerned about others, there is someone to talk to you, look forward to the future, don't let life be boring as always, find someone to help you take care of your room and help you take care of your spirit, so believe me, hurry up!

Typical boiling water over three bowls: cold.

At the end of the day: the will is not strong, too affected by environmental factors.

It's a pity that the social circle is too small. A bug jumps in the bottle and finds something different. Maybe there's still a chance in the trees.

And also. I want to get it but I'm afraid to pay. Speechless.

You'll come across it.

It's all fate.

Look for. Go to Beijing City more, there will be. As long as you have self-confidence, what are you afraid of? Not necessarily. It's really not possible to find some time every day to go to the pedestrian street and look for it.

It's just lonely ... Don't joke with feelings, don't fill in the blanks with love.

It's all very contradictory, it hurts to love, and it hurts even more if you don't love

Fate has not yet arrived. Don't think about it.

There will be princesses thrown into your arms.

There are also a lot of single people there, why not find a person of the opposite sex first, just simply live together, busy during the day, and not lonely at night. Premise, don't find one that makes you more miserable, the rent in Beijing is expensive, it's not a problem to find a similar shared house, try it on the weekend!

Let your friends introduce you!

It's normal, everybody.

Study hard, don't think too much, open your heart and tell her your love, you can say anything with love, want to open a little,

It is no wonder that you do not have a big stone in your heart. The pressure of going to school, the psychological anxiety caused by the fear that your parents will not support your approach (maybe you are still hiding it from your parents), and the uncertainty of not being sure about your relationship have led to your current psychological and spiritual state, which is the "growing pains". Listen to your uncle, lad :

1. This is an inevitable process on the road of a person's growth, and everyone will go through it. So, you don't have to have too much psychological burden, you don't have to be nervous, and you don't have to care too much about what others say;

2. The time of learning is gone. Think about the same content you had when you were in elementary school as you are in junior high school now? It's not the same.

If you didn't do well in elementary school, is it possible to go back to school now? That's impossible. So, it is a must to learn the junior high school curriculum well in junior high school!

3. Doing the right thing at the right time is a work habit of a successful person. Study well first, be admitted to a good high school and university to continue your studies, and only after learning your skills can you have food. This is your task now, what are you confused about?

4. After being admitted to a good school, continue to fall in love.

You have to focus on your studies now, and your parents know how sad it is, you two are not introverts, so that's it.

Don't always rack your brains for these things ... There are some things that become more complicated the more you think about it. Don't dwell on one thing for long ... Want to open a little ... I wish you all happiness.

First of all, the two of you are very suitable together, complementary personalities, secondly, you want to find a way to solve the problem where she hates you, maybe make a little change, she will feel that you have changed a lot, you are a man, your life can't be all feelings, you still have your career, a man without a career is not attractive, even if she is now attracted by some of your specialties, but career is the long-term strategy. You can usually find more things to do, keep your brain in a busy state, work hard when you change your job, and stick as much as you love when you get off work, this is the manifestation of life.

Looks like she still loves you! (This shows that you have a lot of bright spots in you that deserve her love!) (Otherwise, she won't want to talk to you about this, she's long gone!) ）

The girl cares a lot about what she likes, he is a man who knows how to care and care, and can make himself feel dependent and secure. (Her language says it all!) ）

Then you should be more confident, pay attention to correcting your weaknesses while maintaining your strengths, and strive to make yourself mature and strong! (As long as you work hard, she will see it in her eyes and be happy for you!) (In the future, your relationship will get closer and closer!)

Everything you do has become her dependence, it is she who depends on you, for example, you say that she is like a mother, she cares about everything. This is already the best proof, if you suddenly change, she feels unaccustomed, strong people will talk back on one side, and the other side of their hearts will be soft, why bother about this? Have you ever noticed that she loves you more than you love her?

Do you still feel dependent on her?

Wouldn't it be better to be interdependent?

Girls mature earlier than boys, both physically and mentally, and this is normal. But it doesn't work, don't you realize that it's still men who rule the world. When you mature, she will still have to rely on you.

She won't want you, think about it, if you don't care about her, will you care about her? If you didn't care about her, would you take care of her like a child? It's the same all the other way around. Only when I care about you will I care about you, and if I care about you, I will be good to you like my mother.

Girls from the next life, there will be some maternal light, exuding different sizes, love you to take care of you, only to feel sorry for you, to hope that you grow up quickly, to mature quickly, and then take care of her like she takes care of you, like she cares for you, care for her.

So she won't want you, trust me.

People are always childish, both parties should be more tolerant, if the other party is always accusing you, the first thing you need to think about is whether you have a problem, if there is a problem, and you yourself are very agreeable, then you should work hard to correct. If you can't agree, then there are differences in your concepts, you should communicate with each other, once no, twice, three times, at least three times, if the other party is still not able to accept, then there is a knot between you, this is the time to test your attitude towards this love, if you feel that it is not worth it, then when it is broken, the sooner the better; If you think it's worth it, then you continue to look for ways to resolve the conflict, and persist until you find it, and it is the man who should be responsible for doing things to the end.

It is normal for boys of the same age to mature later than girls.

Dependence is not determined by whether it is strong or not, but naturally formed after a period of running-in.

Everyone has their own unique strengths, and you definitely have something she relies on that is just untapped or not fully manifested for the time being.

It's hard to change your personality, she thinks you're naïve, and she'll always think you're naïve, unless you've experienced a big change and really grew up overnight. But in love, a woman is dissatisfied with a man, but she is still with him, it means that she really likes her, so as long as you really like her, rest assured, as long as you usually hug her more when you are with her, more physical contact, women like the feeling of being desired, it's OK, I wish you happiness!

That's a sign of caring for you and loving you, and you think too much, and your woman wants you to be mature, because you're out there, and he doesn't know how you're doing outside, and he's only reminding you through the little things in your life that make you mature.

You have to make yourself mature, independent, able to take ideas, think holistically, take care of her, think carefully for her.

But these are all slow, and it is impossible to eat a fat person in one bite. You have to mature yourself in your heart and think about it for her, this is today, and tomorrow you will care about that.

Then you make yourself mature, what's the use of just talking about it ... Women will get bored of facing this kind of man for a long time, and what women want to find is a man who will take care of themselves, not take care of others... So, dear, let yourself be mature, don't act like a child who doesn't grow up, or sooner or later she will break up with you because she can't stand you.

First of all, in this case, the main thing is to love her, and if you want to be with her for a long time, you must be tolerant Understand this attitude, in fact, many things are sometimes thinking about yourself, isn't it? This kind of emotion is not good, and it will affect your attitude towards your girlfriend in the future. Can you communicate with her about the current conflict, so that you can discuss it.

Don't care what she says and does, just be yourself, and if you love her, then don't care about anything, just love her. As for your own problems, don't worry too much, maturity is not a few months away, a few years away may not be mature, the main thing is not to change yourself for anyone, even if you change, in the end you can't hit what she imagined.

Whatever you say cares about you, so that you have a sense of existence... You just have to correct it ... Do what she says.

Allow yourself to mature quickly. What women want is to be more mature than themselves and be able to take care of themselves, not an old child.

Men are late maturing, women are precocious, and the natural chain is like this, don't pay too much attention to it.

Girls of the same age are more mature than boys, in fact, it's nothing, as you get older, things will slowly change, relax yourself, and think about things well.

It depends on the strength of the relationship between you, maybe your girlfriend will think you are cute because of it, you know, you can be yourself alone or not for others.

Oh, so many people say that he loves you, so I'll say the opposite, maybe he doesn't want you anymore, or maybe oh, pay attention to yourself, I think that if you always change for one person, it's not yourself, and it's best for both parties to change, and why do you still love each other now.

Personally, I think it's better to say it than not to say it, and if he really loves you, then he won't care, you know? Of course, you also have to be skillful to choose the right time. Tell him in a tactful way when appropriate.

For example, "You have a friend who has had heart surgery since he was a kid, and now he has a crush on a boy, and you ask him directly, if you were this boy, would you mind?"

You have to learn to tell a story, and no matter what his answer is, you're going to know what he thinks, don't you?

It's the 21st century, and scars shouldn't affect much, but not on the face.

What you care about is whether your heart disease will be **, and it is better to say it early than to hide it, because you can't run away.

Hello, I think you should have a good dialogue with your heart, if you really love B, then treat her with your heart, she will feel it, if she feels that you love her very much, and still feel that you are not suitable, then separate as soon as possible, don't waste the time of both parties. For C, you have to get to know her more after ending your relationship with B before deciding.

I don't know how old you are, if you read the text, it shouldn't be very mature, I advise you to focus more on study or work, as for feelings, at this stage, the more you go with the flow, the happier the result. Believe me, it won't take three years, and I look back and regret it now.

A should calm down and analyze what exactly is the reason between B and what is inappropriate. If it's because you can't change it (personality, family background), then it's better to give up. If it's just because of a small problem (bad habits such as smoking and drinking), then you should change it, for love!

C is just a good impression of A, and it is not something that can be chased overnight. There are risks.

You can try, but you have to deal with the relationship of B, because this is not **, there is a only ending, and no one knows who your real fate is.

In this way, A and B don't get along very well now, so there is such distress, but there is still a feeling of liking, and you can develop with C without letting B know, the most important thing is to follow your feelings, the important thing is to be happy, there is nothing right or wrong with your lover.

Develop C, hang B, whoever is more suitable will choose one!

Since Jun A has no choice to love each other, it is better to choose one who loves himself than he loves. You might as well try to develop with C, and maybe in the end you will find that you are the best with C!

Love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, have you started grinding?

Love is not for trying, sometimes a turn is a lifetime, if it were me, I would be with the person I love, love her to live a happier life, life is more real.

Love is a subtle change in feelings, choose according to your own feelings, and see which one is more suitable for you to develop with.