She said that she didn t want to fall in love for the time being, said that she could be a good frie

Two ways, one is, take your time, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Slowly together, running-in, opportunities to be together, slowly getting to know each other, will come together naturally.

The second is that she may not feel good about you and reject you so tactfully. Then you can do it yourself.

The third is that girls are shy, and at first they say that they won't agree to find some reason, but as long as you chase after it, you can still win your heart.

She said she didn't want to talk about it, you can see for yourself if it's true, if she's the kind of girl who likes to dress up, then it's definitely a lie, if she's the kind of girl who is very honest and responsible, then it may be that she really doesn't want to talk about it now. Good luck.

Then be a good friend first, feelings can't be forced, follow her wishes. When you first get to know each other, people won't agree to you so quickly, after a long time. She'll naturally find the good in you (be genuine). That's how I slowly promise you.

It's impossible to agree to you so easily when you're just familiar with her, and if you agree so easily, it doesn't mean that you're too handsome. She must be watching you for a long time before she agrees. As long as you are sincere, you will succeed.

I think she likes you! But she may still have her previous sweetheart who hasn't forgotten it, or she has been injured before, she doesn't trust you very much, and she is afraid that she will continue to chase after an injury

Stalking is something that you only did at the age of 17 or 8, and people have already rejected you so badly, there's no need to stick to it, she's not interested in you, brother. , please forgive me for being direct.

Listen to me and leave quietly. Sometimes waiting to see happiness is also a kind of happiness ...

This is a tactful refusal.

If the girl just wants to be friends with you and doesn't want to fall in love with you. One reason may be that I don't feel good for you. If he says he's afraid of dragging you down.

Maybe it's an excuse, maybe it's a real situation. Why did she say she was afraid of dragging you down? Is she under a lot of pressure and difficulty?

If there are no actual difficulties, it may just be an excuse.

You have to accept this calmly, girls just want to be friends with you, and it's normal not to fall in love, make such an ordinary friend.

In the face of such a situation, you should agree to the other party's request, be friends with the other party first, and get along with the other party step by step.

What should I do if a girl wants to be friends with me, but doesn't want to fall in love? This could be a schoolgirl. I don't think you're the type of person she needs to find a boyfriend or she's not happy with you.

It's a tactful rejection of you. You can only be an ordinary friend, and you can't go further to be that kind of boyfriend and girlfriend. Hope you.

Quit when the going gets tough. I do. My emotional investment.

This will be a disservice to you later on. If you change, or if the girl changes her mind about you, you can be my girlfriend in the future. See how you perform in the future.

Girls need to slowly cultivate feelings before they can like you, maybe you don't have too handsome appearance or a particularly tall height, girls don't see your advantages, and there is no way to fall in love with you at once. But you can slowly let him understand you, show that you like him, show your strong side, let him know that you are very good, and slowly he will be moved by you and moved by you. If he wants to be friends with you, it means that he wants to get to know you, but he can't fall in love with you for the time being.

Give him a little time and be patient, and slowly he will know your goodness, as long as you give him your sincerity, he will definitely be moved by you.

In this case, you can take the initiative to pursue the girl. Impress the other party with your actions. Slowly, you can change the attitude of the other party.

First, it can be understood as a refusal. Persisting after declining can hurt.

Second, in the eyes of girls, you are a good person, but you are not suitable for a romantic relationship. Then let it be.

3. If you're going to fight, go on the offensive until she changes her mind. The result: either a partner or an enemy.

Friends and lovers are not the same.

If a girl doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, but can be friends, maybe she thinks you're not suitable.

Or if you don't know your situation at the moment, you can want to be ordinary friends, and then further develop your understanding, maybe you may still develop into a romantic relationship in the future.

The two parties can understand each other as ordinary friends first, and it is possible to upgrade to lovers with the passage of time.

Since the girl doesn't want to fall in love with you, she just wants to be friends, which means that the girl has no feelings for you, she just wants to be a good friend, then you don't have to force it, after all, you can't be happy, and you can't only have the same sex among friends, and friends of the opposite sex are also needed, so you can be good friends with him, and you can also eat and party, and you can also go out to play together, these are also to shorten the distance between friends, if you slowly feel after being friends, you can also develop further.

What if a girl wants to be friends with you, but doesn't want to fall in love? I think you just promised her that it would come naturally to start by being friends, and then gradually develop friendship and accumulate feelings. The specific reasons are as follows:

One reason is this: the prelude to free love is often developed by friendship. That is, love is based on friendship.

Therefore, you can be friends first and deepen your understanding and interaction with each other. Gradually develop in the direction of good friends and confidants. When you have a deep relationship, there is no obstacle to not wanting to fall in love.

The second reason is that the fact that a girl wants to be friends with you without getting to know you well actually shows that she likes you. Not wanting to fall in love is just a pretext, and it is also a reflection of her shyness and shyness.

You don't have to worry too much about it. Developing friendships, and gradually developing into love, is what you focus on.

In short, you can and should promise her to start as a friend first, and then gradually develop a friendship, and it will naturally come to fruition.

Love is mutual, if she just wants to be friends with you, is a heart of use, does not want to be in love, is she looks down on you, for such a girl, I advise you not to force, because even if you can't ask for it, if you force it, you won't be happy, because this girl is too assertive.

Girls want to be ordinary friends with you first, and if you can generate sparks during the relationship, you will naturally become friends in love. Feelings are slowly getting closer.

Summary. It means that you can be your best friend and confidant who has nothing to say, but you can't fall in love yet, which means that you haven't met the standard for girls to find a boyfriend.

The girl may not be satisfied with you enough, and wants to secretly observe you as a friend, when you are good enough, if you chase her, there is still hope, so don't be discouraged, make yourself better, and then boldly pursue the girl.

If you like a girl, you will chase it at that time, don't let yourself have regrets, work hard, maybe you will succeed, not succeeding is just a regret, but you will not regret it.

The girl said to me: I don't want to be in a relationship just yet, but we can be very good friends [naughty]What is the situation?

It means that you can be your best friend and confidant who has nothing to say, but you can't fall in love yet, which means that you haven't met the standard for girls to find a boyfriend. The girl may not be satisfied with you enough, and wants to secretly observe you as a friend, when you are good enough, if you chase her, there is still hope, so don't be discouraged, make yourself better, and then boldly pursue the girl. If you like a girl, you will chase it at that time, don't let yourself have regrets, work hard, maybe you will succeed, not succeeding is just a regret, but you will not regret it.

If you can't pursue it, you can stop in moderation, big brother, to avoid being fished.

I am your emotional mentor I hope it will help you Move your little hands and give a thumbs up Thank you

I still have a lot of hope, right, she said she was stressed.

I think you can try not to let yourself have regrets.

But you have to prepare for the bad yourself.

When you don't feel a response for her efforts, you can think about whether or not to continue.

Then be a good friend, maybe after a long time, they will have different feelings for you.

Real love is a very delicate thing, maybe from an ordinary friend will slowly understand each other, but also find out the spark of love.

Summary. Extended content: If you are courting the other person and the other person tells you to be friends like this, it means that your current pursuit strategy is not effective.

Since it is ineffective, the method must be changed, and it is certainly not advisable to insist in vain. She is willing to be friends with you, which means that she recognizes you and thinks you are very good, but the problem is that she has no feelings of love for you, so the relationship cannot be upgraded. Don't easily confess to a person, it's like playing cards, you turn over the hole cards to show him, and it's hard to win with open cards.

My advice is to snub out for a period of time after your confession is rejected, and the specific number of days depends on the degree of your relationship. During the snub period, don't forget to analyze the reasons for failure, self-growth, self-improvement, if you don't improve, why let the other party change their minds about you.

What should I do if a girl wants to be friends with me, but she doesn't want to be in a relationship?

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Big Red Scattered Flowers], girls want to be friends with you, but they don't want to fall in love, at this time, it mainly depends on whether you like him and want to associate with him, otherwise it is actually normal for a girl to want to be friends with you, and it is not quietly = to be friends with every person of the opposite sex is to confirm the intimacy of the relationship.

Extended content: If you are courting the other person and the other person tells you to be friends like this, it means that your current pursuit strategy is not effective. Since it is ineffective, the method must be changed, and it is certainly not advisable to insist in vain.

She is willing to be friends with you, which means that she recognizes you and thinks you are very good, but the problem is that she doesn't have the feeling of being in love with you, so the relationship can't be upgraded. Don't confess to a person easily, it's like playing cards, you turn over the hole cards to show him, it's hard to win with open cards. My advice is to snub out for a period of time after your confession is rejected, and the specific number of days depends on the degree of your relationship.

During the snub period, don't forget to analyze the reasons for failure, self-growth, self-improvement, and judge you for not improving, why should the other party change their minds about you.