I don t have to be inferior to others, so why don t I have what others have? Study, love

You can lack everything in life, but the only thing you don't lack is loneliness, and when you embrace loneliness, then you have the foundation to get everything.

If you work hard, you don't necessarily have it, and if you don't work hard, you won't get it.

You've been obsessed with what you want but you've never tasted what you have.

Because everybody's good fortune is different, karma is different. Maybe some people have a bad fate, but they stop evil and do good in this life, and they will get better slowly, and some people may be very blessed, but they do evil at the moment, and the result is less and less, and the so-called people who do good do not see the blessing but the disaster is far away, although the evil person does not see the evil, but the good fortune gradually disappears It is recommended that you take a look at the "Four Teachings of Lifan" to tell you how to accumulate blessings and change your destiny Believe me, you will understand after reading this book.

Don't always focus on what others get, everyone has their own blessings, do you get nothing? I don't think so! A lot of places are better than others?

In fact, everyone works hard, and you don't see what they are giving for what they get. And I don't think you've figured out what you want, not everything should be yours, no matter how good you are and how bad others are. Think about what you want first, and then work towards that goal, instead of watching what others get, then you will always have nothing!

If you can't figure out what you want for a while, try to be yourself, and when you find what you want, you can grab it directly! Be yourself! Have a good day!

Maybe sometimes you don't grasp those that should be held in the palm of your hand, and slowly learn to cherish, just when you are slowly losing, this is a process, maybe others are just a little earlier than you, you can listen to Wang Sulong's slow understanding, maybe you will like it.

But have you thought about it, what you have may not be available to others. And how do you know that others are not as good as you? There are a lot of people who are working on it, but you just don't see it. But I think there are many things that can't be compared with others, just compare with yourself, and make a little progress every day!

You ought to cherish what is in front of you.

Only now, you continue to keep; One day you will be satisfied.

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1 All for their own bright future, we must control, control, and control. Don't control falling in love.

It is difficult to achieve a double harvest of love and study, and it is generally lost after graduation that love is also wasted in school. Or just get one of them, which is very difficult to hold onto, and it is also very laborious. There is no need.

It's okay to talk about love at any time, and it's okay to talk about it when you have a success in school. But it's about studying, and it's difficult to study after falling in love.

It's not that you can't, but, as a student, if you want to really take care of study and love, it's more difficult, because there will always be some conflicts between the two that catch us off guard, but if you feel that you have the ability to grasp which is more important than study and love, and which one should be the main one, I think you can do what you want, but if you just care about love, and leave learning far behind, and protect love at the expense of learning, I think it's very unworthwhile, student, Of course, it's mainly academic!

Moreover, you can't bring these negative emotions to study because of any setbacks in love, that is very bad and will definitely affect learning!

If you are a junior high school student or a sophomore or junior high school student, please be sure to take your studies as the main goal, love, you are still young, there will be opportunities in the future, but the missed learning time will never be there again in the future, grasp it!

An inch of time is an inch of gold, and it is difficult to buy an inch of time!

If you are a college student, you can try to talk about it, it is very supportive!

It is necessary to put learning first, and if you don't succeed in your studies, talk about love

There is no love in middle school, you remember! Busy studying first, there will be a chance to chase her in the future, even if I like her now, I will hold my heart, for you and for her tomorrow! It's really not good, you keep studying, it's not too late to talk to her after the high school entrance examination, now you must study quietly and wholeheartedly!

Think about what my brother said to you on QQ.

Yes, help each other, and love improves.

I don't think it's a conflict, this question.

It's like when you study, you also have family affection, friendship.

Love is just a feeling.

But the problem now seems to be the same. She might not like you? Then there is no such thing as having love, many people will tell you.

Learning is more important than love, that's right. Oh, the valuable experience gained from growing up.

Love and learning can be shared at the same time, and it is best to be able to play a role in promoting each other, but this is difficult, it depends on the individual, and I can only talk about it.

Can be both.

But dear drop landlord.

You don't have that right now.

This is the reason why teachers and parents don't let you fall in love.

I'm not against puppy love if you can handle it well.

The question is that dear drops you can't handle it well ?

So choose one.

Which one to choose? Got it?

Learn! There is no doubt about it.

What kind of school are you, junior high school, love is flooded like this, child, study hard, don't be blind, you have to really love her, and after you have a good grade, you can boldly pursue her (after you reach the age)!

Also, you've never had her, so what's the point of losing it? Don't be too sentimental here, study hard! To tell you the truth, I'm just a freshman in junior high school, but our school is not so mature, and there is no love to talk about in junior high school, believe me!

Men can study badly, but they must be capable!! To put it bluntly, it's rich!! Have the ability to make money!!

Studying hard is the priority

If you are a man, I advise you to still focus on your studies, and there will naturally be love after you arrive. I think you're all looking for spiritual sustenance, not really not wanting to read. As long as the effort is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle.

It depends on whether you work hard or not, people have to cross that hurdle for eight years of the Anti-Japanese War, what about you? Think about your current situation and see if you're making an effort. See if you're right about your parents?

The most important thing is that you are worthy of yourself? You have wasted a lot of time, in exchange for endless tears, and in the future you will say to your son: Son, you have to study hard!

Don't be like your dad. Now you can change that, you can talk to your son about how dad went from a man who didn't want to read to a man who was full of knowledge. This pride will be a little more tangible than it is now.

What do you think?

Think about your parents and loved ones, think about your future, start studying hard now, and only when you have a future can you give happiness to the people you like.

They are all people with their own thoughts, and they have to think twice before doing anything... Hope it works for you.

Then divide the time again, don't lose your wife and soldiers in the end.

Just allocate time for study and love.

No, as long as both people don't want to drag each other down, they both want each other to be good.

My boyfriend and I were together when we were studying for the high school entrance examination, and we both studied hard for each other, and I got the best results since I was in junior high school.

The problem of control, some people will turn it into a motivation to study harder, while others will become addicted to it and forget to learn.

True love can give a person a kind of motivation.

It depends partly on the loved one.

If you fall in love with a person who loves to learn, a good student with excellent moral character.

Then you will promote each other and your grades will be excellent.

But falling in love with a bad guy will only cause you bad influences.

Of course, it's best not to fall in love when you're a student.

Because in the lifetime together there are very few.

Don't risk experimenting with yourself.

But it's not that you don't be with girls.

It is important for men and women to communicate and control themselves.

The center of gravity is not the same.

Someone deals with objects just to make up for the emptiness of the heart, which will not affect learning, but some people get lost in love.

Grades dropped.

Depending on how you do it, it's not good to be too rigid, but if you can be happy about it, it will promote learning.

When you have truly experienced what love is, you will find that what she said is very simple but difficult to do. That is to say, only if you succeed, or if you are not equal to her now (one in the city, one in the country), and through your efforts to achieve equality, you will be possible, otherwise her sentence "Let me study hard, I hope I can succeed" is your parting words.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, but that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy. As for what you said about loving you anymore.

I think it's because I feel that I can't give the other person happiness and can't make the other person happy, so I choose to escape, and I choose to no longer love. But does that really work? I think you should know that very well.

I think the highest level of love is almost the one I copied above:"What you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? "Personally, I think this is the highest state of love.

One studies well, and it is good that two people who love each other can promote learning progress, so you can work hard, I hope you are together.

I'm the kind of person who memorizes things very hard, but it's not easy to forget when I remember, I used to be very difficult to memorize texts when I was a child, my dad taught me to memorize with association, I memorized him while helping me to compare the related things that I could associate with for a long time, quite effective, and it was easier to remember if it increased the interest. You can give it a try. In fact, the main thing is to pay attention to the method and not to memorize by rote.

And then there are external conditions, just eat more nuts and something to nourish the brain.

Could it be that the cerebellum is stunted like Dao'er ** said?

1All as long as the child wants to learn is a good thing, as long as you want to learn, there is no bad teaching!

The key to this problem is that the child's understanding and grasp of knowledge in the classroom is not very good. If you want to learn, you don't know how to learn it, which is a confusion for many students. Finding a tutor, twice a week, can radically improve a student's learning?

Anyway, I've been a tutor for all these years, and the improvement won't be great. So find a working teacher to tutor? Good is good, but how much does it cost?

These can only be solved from the outside, and the root of the problem is that children have been studying like this for a long time, and they have begun to doubt their own abilities, and they are about to lose confidence.

So, it is advisable to:

1.Find your child's teacher to find out how you're learning at school.

2.Listen to the teacher's advice for the situation.

3.Ask an experienced tutor to tutor your child, and more importantly, build your child's interest in learning and self-confidence.

4.Parents communicate more with their children, emphasizing self-worth to stimulate motivation for learning.

The above is a personal recommendation. There is no fixed way to teach! Every child is born a genius, but he is educated to be a mediocre talent in the process of growing up. So good teachers can change children's futures!

Let me tell you, as long as your child reads through every child in the book, after grasping the foundation, find some medium topics to do, and when you are proficient, you can find some intermediate topics to do, step by step!

Important points: listen carefully in class and rest well!!

Learning is a process, can not be too hasty, the child who has just entered the first year of junior high school has a process of adaptation, you have to guide, school is out, home should be easy, don't force the child anymore, how can she slip away, and don't compare with others, remember, your child is the best, think about Darwin, and then look at Edison who hatched eggs, I hope to enlighten you. May your child have a happy childhood.

I recommend asking a tutor to concentrate on one subject that she is more interested in, so that she can improve her self-confidence, and then add other subjects so that they don't get too bad. She has a good grade in one subject, which will increase her self-confidence