Children should not reveal their arguments to their parents

If this is the opposite of a thesis, then start with the thesis.

First of all, should it be? What should and should not be? What should and should not be done by children to their parents? Obviously, we shouldn't be talking about our parents.

Secondly, what is the relationship between children and their parents? Father-son, mother-son relationship. In this relationship, at the legal level, we have privacy, and this privacy will only be shared with others when we are willing.

Again, most of our parents are not qualified psychic teachers. If you are too honest, they will say that you are not doing your job, you are not learning. In their eyes there is only learning, learning.

Only grades. Grades. The parenting method of our country is either beating or scolding.

In this case, how much benefit does it have for the child to reveal his heart? Obviously, (this should be a top priority.) )

Talk about human rights! You can't ask about private matters, and you can't talk about it casually!

1.Children should also have their own space, and parents should not interfere too much.

2.Confiding in your heart is often not understood, and you don't get the answers you want.

3.Sometimes it has the opposite effect.

4.Of course, I also listen to my parents, but sometimes I don't show it because I want to think independently.

5.Don't worry your parents and don't add stress to them.

6.Friends share ideas and experiences with each other, and also keep other people's secrets.

7.Decide on your own way to solve your own problems, develop a sense of responsibility, and move towards independence.

Most children in childhood learn about themselves from adults. If parents often disrespect their children's ideas, ignore their children's minds and bodies, and deny their children, then the children themselves will deny themselves from the roots, and it will have an impact on the child's whole life and make the child fall into low self-esteem.

1. It will make children have low self-esteem. If the child is not recognized by his parents for a long time, it is likely to cause the child to have low self-esteem, and it is an inferiority complex engraved in the bones. Because the evaluation of parents to their children is very important, if the child is always not respected by the parents, always ignored by the parents, the child himself will not recognize himself, the child will feel that he is not good in the bottom of his heart, resulting in a very large psychological gap, affecting the child's life.

2. It will become very extreme. Children who are not respected by their parents for a long time will become very sensitive and extreme, because children desperately want to be respected by their parents, but they have not been able to get it, so they will become very introverted and reticent, if parents deny their children for a long time, and the children's grievances have nowhere to vent, they are likely to have violent tendencies, and even go astray. When a child has an emotional outburst, it not only hurts themselves, but also threatens the safety of others.

3. The potential is not being tapped. If parents often do not recognize the idea that the child does not respect the child, it will make the child's potential nowhere to play, and the child will gradually become unconfident, no matter what to do without confidence, even if there is a high talent and potential, there is nowhere to play to hinder the child's future development.

Children are willing to share their ideas with their parents, which is a manifestation of trust in their parents, and parents must give their children more affirmation and encouragement at this time, so that children are full of confidence, and after children have confidence, they can also face life and learning with their own mentality. If parents ignore their children's feelings for a long time, they will make them very sensitive and inferior.

Making a child have low self-esteem and make the child very negative may lead to depression, but also make the child very irritable, and sometimes make the child very painful. Influence your child's future development.

Parents who do not respect their children's ideas and ignore their voices will make children feel that they are not cared for and respected, which means that parents do not love themselves, so they may develop low self-esteem and sensitive character.

Hello! It will make your child not communicate with you about anything, and your parent-child relationship will get worse and worse. It will develop the habit that the child does not like to communicate with others, and it will also develop the child's self-righteous character.

It will make the child very sad, it will make the child very insecure, feel that the parents do not respect him, do not understand him, and do not like his parents.

It will have a bad impact on the child, the child will be ignored, feel lonely, will be frustrated, and will hate his parents, affecting his inner growth.

It may be related to the child's personality traits and the parent's parenting style. For example, when a child expresses something to his parents that he is interested in or has experienced, he does not pay enough attention to it, and will ignore his child's confiding.

In addition, this situation is also related to the judgment of parents in their daily upbringing; Children always need to be recognized by their parents psychologically, and if there are too many negatives in the daily judgments given by parents, children will have the worry of being denied, and their willingness to speak will be reduced.

So what should parents do?

1.In Keima's daily life, learn to listen to children. When your child talks to you about him, listen attentively, no matter how big or small.

2.Don't judge your child in the process of listening, try to understand your child, laugh and grieve with your child's emotions.

3.If the phenomenon of school bullying really occurs, parents must set an example for their children, parents should react rationally, understand things first, then adjust emotions, think of solutions to problems, do not be impatient, impatience will not help and will scare children.

4.If a child is often bullied at school, parents should learn to observe whether the child behaves appropriately and whether he expresses his needs. Will emotions be processed?

Do you manage relationships with children? Finding problems and shaping children through education or games is what parents need to teach their children and gradually permeate in their daily lives.