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It depends on your own feelings, you think about it so obviously that you have no confidence in this woman, hehe, that is, you have no confidence in yourself, can you take care of him, this question is not necessarily related to whether your parents are rich or not, you had better use your own efforts to prove that you have the ability to take care of him, your parents' property is a giveaway, dispensable, you have the ability to take care of him in order to really make people feel at ease with you, with the help of your father's strength, I dare not criticize you, but I am really embarrassed to praise you, You can come out and mix alone, I already appreciate you, and I also hope that you can mix well and be able to prove yourself to anyone, rather than relying on Lao Tzu's strength to prove that you have the ability to take care of him, in fact, this can't be proved, hehe! What you need most of this is your own strength!

Hope you understand what I mean! Wishing you happiness! Hehe! From the heart!

There is no need to deliberately emphasize whether you have or don't have money.

If you think she's someone who can be with you.

can show her.

You can also tell her about your attitude towards money.

Put it to the test. See if she likes your money or your person. Heh......

After all, you didn't deliberately try to deceive him in the first place, it's just that you're used to this kind of life. I won't go to live the life of a big young master.

You kid is not rich, but your parents' are nothing, and those who have the ability to earn it are counted as if they have the ability, do you have the ability?

You tell her that if you work hard, you will have a good future.

Not every girl has the pride and qualities of Cinderella.

At your age, feelings are unreal, and it doesn't matter if you tell or not.

The ministry can be done, too.

What is missing, what bai, what is dry. Because the poor are poor, they are afraid of being looked down upon by others, so they pretend to be rich to tell others that they can't look down on them.

within yourself. Rich people have gained fame and fortune, and they are no longer so concerned about the opinions of others, they understand that wealth is accumulated, and they are also afraid of causing some trouble because of their wealth (refer to Brother Dayi for details). So pretend to be poor.

Very poor poor people will not copy and show off their wealth, because they are so poor that they can't show off their wealth and still want to show off their wealth, that is, they will slap their swollen faces and become fat. Rich people don't need to show off their wealth, they are already so rich that passers-by know why they show off their wealth, it is better to keep their money in obscurity so as not to be remembered.

The people who show off their wealth are those who are not very poor and are not particularly rich. Showing off wealth is just to earn a sense of superiority, to see others envy and jealousy, Ya'er is very rich in the eyes of the poor, but in the eyes of the rich, Ya'er is still a poor ghost. It's just that poverty limits imagination, and you can only show off your wealth to satisfy yourself.

The earth is low into the sea, and the man is low into the king. He said, "Okay. ”

In human society, the truly rich and successful elites are almost all people who are good at "pretending to be poor". In the news, they are often seen wearing cloth clothes and shoes, eating coarse tea and light rice.

In the life around me, people who have strong work ability are almost always people who are good at "showing weaknesses". They are very humble and always tell others about their shortcomings.

What these people have in common is that they are well aware of the "underlying rules of socializing". Become sociable, improvised, and if it's not a sociable person who can help everyone, everything won't go smoothly and the bad guys will get involved.

Guiguzi has "The way of the sage is yin, and the way of the fool is yang." It is easy for a wise man, but it is difficult for a wise man. He said, "Okay. ”

The principle of things of the wise man is hidden, and the principle of things of the foolish man is hyped. So smart people tend to succeed, and stupid people often fail.

For example, Ma Yun said that "the biggest mistake in life is to create Alibaba", Ma Huateng said that "it is not only the size of the family, but also an ordinary family", and Liu Qiangdong said that "I don't know how beautiful my wife is". Shirts are closed.

A discerning person will know that these remarks are really exaggerated and empty. But why say that? In fact, they deliberately show their weaknesses, deliberately putting themselves on the same plane as the professional public.

Showing weakness is a very advanced wisdom of dealing with the world that can reduce and eliminate the resentment and jealousy of many people. Those who are successful in their careers, the lucky ones in life, jealousy is inevitable, however, show weaknesses in an appropriate way to maximize the resolution of these negative effects.

To be honest, people like Jack Ma are exposed on the front line and advertise how much money they have and how much ability they have, which will arouse the disgust of many people, and their careers will definitely be negatively affected.

However, they deliberately exposed some small shortcomings and showed some foreign appearances, which not only expanded the influence of their careers, but also enhanced their affinity, and won the favor of many netizens.

No need to install! The best way to pretend to be poor is to turn yourself into an ordinary person, and accumulate wealth in a place where others can't see it.

Buy fake clothes and shoes, cry poor from time to time, keep a low profile, etc.

We are all poor, how to pretend.

If you can, put on the rich.

Not better.

In real life, we will see such a strange phenomenon, the poorer people are, the more they like to package themselves as if they are rich, and the richer the more people like to be low-key, food and clothing.

The real rich people will not show off how rich they are every day, wearing gold and silver, only the poor will try their best to show off themselves, they are afraid that others will know that they are poor. But what they don't know is what a person shows off, he lacks something.

However, let me tell you a realistic truth, the rich can pretend to be poor, they can wear clothes for dozens of dollars, live in an ordinary house, and eat simple food, but the poor can't pretend to be rich. Do you think they can really afford to sell clothes and shoes for thousands of dollars, and can really go into that kind of luxury restaurant to spend, no?

They use cheap potatoes, and they get them online or by unscrupulous means, and they buy them from the vegetable market, do you think he can go to a high-end restaurant to consume, can he afford to live in a villa.

Therefore, people should accept themselves honestly, especially the poor, and don't let greed lose their nature. You can live a life as much as you can, and you can know how to be happy, why do you care so much about external things. The reason why they are rich and low-key is because they have a sense of responsibility, they want to support their families, and they want to make their families live a little better.

Recently, I was watching Ode to Joy and found a very interesting contrast in it, that is, Andy's boyfriend Singularity and Fan Shengmei's suitor her old classmate Wang Baichuan. The singularity is Wei Wei, who was originally the CEO of the company and was worth hundreds of millions, but when he met Andy for the first time, he made an appointment in an ordinary hotel and took the subway to the appointment, pretending to be an ordinary person. Later, after everyone knew his identity, no one seemed to question his intentions in doing so, and he also relied on his own efforts to successfully pursue the beautiful Andy.

On the other hand, Fan Shengmei's old classmate Wang Baichuan, his pursuit process is more difficult. The small boss of Wang Baichuan's start-up company, he didn't have much money to develop in Shanghai for the first time, but he was really attentive to this big sister Fan, and as soon as they met, they made an appointment for dinner at a high-end hotel, sent brand-name bags, and rented a BMW for pick-up. Later, when it was known that the luxury car was rented, Qiu Yingying immediately called him a scumbag, and Fan Shengmei not only rejected his pursuit but also did not give him a step in public.

is also chasing girls, and they have also paid sincerely, and Fan Shengmei and Wang Baichuan have been classmates for many years, and they have a certain emotional foundation, which should be stronger than Andy's netizen relationship with Wei Wei. But why is the result so different? In fact, this phenomenon often appears in our real life or in many film and television works, and everyone involuntarily favors the rich people.

So the same is deception, why is the emotional gap between the rich pretending to be poor and the poor pretending to be rich so big?

Psychologically: Rich people pretend to be poor more because they are low-key and modest, and they tend to pay more attention to privacy and do not want to be noticed by the public. There is also an analysis of human nature, most people tend to sympathize with the weak and hate people who are better than themselves, which is the so-called gun shot and hatred of the rich, so the rich pretend to be poor for the purpose of protecting themselves.

And a large part of the reason why the poor pretend to be rich is because of low self-esteem, just like the book says that the more you show off, the more you lack something.

Emotionally speaking, the poor must pretend to be rich in order to realize some aspect of their own interests, and disguise themselves as gold to satisfy their vanity or gain the benefits of friendship and sparrows. The rich pretend to be poor, like gold disguised as stone, and more have a self-surrendering identity, approachable, and integrated into the public's purpose of not wanting to cause trouble.

Moreover, the poor pretending to be rich may bring early financial or emotional losses to the deceived person, while the rich pretending to be poor will not.

Although it is also deception, there is also a distinction between benign and non-benign.

As the saying goes, the poor are generous and stingy. Let's talk about poverty and generosity first, what is poverty and generosity? Even if you don't have money, you have to be rich, and many people are poor with money, but they don't want to lose face.

For example, when you invite a guest to dinner, you have to rush to pay for it even though you don't have a lot of money in your pocket. There are also courtesy exchanges between relatives and friends, obviously they don't have it, even if they borrow money, they have to be generous, there are many people who slap their swollen faces and become fat. And because of their limited economic conditions, they are afraid of being looked down upon by others and looked down on by others, so sometimes people don't fall down, and they have to die to save face and suffer crimes.

At the end of the day, the poor do it because of low self-esteem, and it is vanity that is at work.

There is another kind of person who likes to pretend to be poor even though he is rich? The reason is very simple, one is afraid of others borrowing, just imagine, in real life, in order to borrow money and not pay it back, relatives and friends make a fuss against the door god and face the enemy, and some simply cut off contacts, and it is not for nothing that they go to court for borrowing money and not repaying it, sometimes it is easy to borrow money and it is difficult to repay it. Therefore, those rich people pretend to be poor and do not borrow money is the best reason.

There are also rich people who pretend to be poor because they don't want to boast in front of others, because there are not no extortion people in real society, so they have to guard against it. And then these hard-earned money is hard-won, it is the result of their own hard work, spending money must be planned, living a long life, and will not learn from those who have wine today and are drunk today, and drink cold water without alcohol tomorrow. As the saying goes, people are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong, so why bother boasting in front of others and showing off themselves?

Another reason why rich people like to pretend to be poor is that their desires are endless, and no matter how rich they are, they will never be psychologically satisfied.

Speaking of pretending to be poor, I think of my classmates in college, her family joined a catering project on the Sanyi Wu Merchants Franchise Online, and there were more than a dozen branches at that time, but she always dressed very plainly, never boasted in front of her classmates, and every time she went out to eat, or had any activities, others always paid for it. Although her family is rich, she likes to pretend to be poor. Once I secretly asked her, your family is rich and poor is poor, why do you deliberately pretend?

Aren't you afraid that your classmates will say that you are stingy? She smiled and said that the reason why she pretended to be poor was that she didn't want to cause trouble because of money, let alone offend her classmates because of money, so she simply pretended to be poor and didn't have any trouble. Through this incident, I was deeply touched that rich people don't like to be public, and they all like to be low-key.