How can I regain my confidence in college? 5

Learning always comes first, and you can't abandon the basics. To have your own plan, English level 4 and 6 and computer level 2 have to rely on their own silent efforts in ordinary times, indeed, this also needs to be assaulted, but with only assault, the risk is also a little greater. Have high-level requirements for yourself, and don't shout long live without hanging.

Admit that you are not smart and brave, so that you can be calm and praise from the heart when facing the excellence of others. Learn to forget something, those painful, embarrassing, remorseful memories to make room for sunny memories. Be confident, absolutely confident, unconditionally confident, confident at all times, even when doing something wrong.

When you are lonely, empty, bored, read some magazines, listen to **, and find something to do for yourself, it can be useless, but it can't be harmful.

Don't fall in love because of loneliness and emptiness. Don't fall in love with bigoted, extreme people. For example, those who chop off their fingers to show their love for you, or those who can die for you.

Don't think this passionate love is very touching. He doesn't love his fingers, and he might chop off your fingers one day. He could die for you, and he naturally thought that you must be able to die for him too....Ah, the consequences are unimaginable.

Breaking up with such a person can also be endlessly troublesome. Don't be jealous of the object of your best friend. You can like a lot of people, but don't fall in love with anyone easily.

Go with the flow, fate can't be forced.

The skills that should be able to be learned must be known. It's better to save money than to make money. Saving in moderation saves money more than making money. You don't have to wear a brand, but you must pay attention to the matching. Be yourself in the show.

Develop your own abilities, including psychological qualities, communication and analysis.

Find a girlfriend or boyfriend who appreciates you and encourages you.

Communicate more than others and treat others with sincerity.

The soundness of self-consciousness is the way of self-improvement and self-education of college students, and it is an integral part of the self-regulation system of college students' personality. When there is a deviation in our self-awareness, we also need to know some specific methods to adjust in a targeted manner in order to correct these deviations more effectively.

1. Discover the advantages and accept the disadvantages

God closes a door for me and opens a window for me" When we don't have a certain advantage, don't dwell on it, find out if you have other advantages, ask others if you may have advantages that others don't have. For your own shortcomings, don't blindly refuse, try to accept, try to change what you can, and treat it indifferently if you can't change it, everyone has helpless things.

2. Learn to look at things positively"Failure is the mother of success"There are two sides to everything

Even failure can help us see ourselves better. Find out where to improve. Even poverty can stimulate our sense of distress and fighting spirit.

3. Actively self-matching and eliminating my hints.

Psychological research has confirmed that positive autosuggestion tends to lead to positive behaviors and produces positive results. On the contrary, negative autosuggestion can easily lead to negative behaviors and negative results.

Therefore, when facing difficulties and challenges, you should suggest to yourself that "I can do it". When faced with failure, suggest to yourself "It's okay, I'll do well next time."

Fourth, try to experience success

First of all, set reasonable goals according to your own situation, and ask not to be too high, but to work hard and achieve success. Even a little bit of success can give us confidence. Then, little by little, we can break through on that basis, so that our confidence can build up little by little.

The key is not to retreat, not to evade and act in a down-to-earth manner.

5. Change your words and deeds.

Words and deeds can bring a sense of self-confidence, such as walking with your chest high and your head up, a brisk and steady step, a firm gaze, facing others, and the courage to express yourself. Change your words and deeds according to this, and after a long time, you will become more confident and celebrate the spring.

This is a very normal phenomenon, you can participate in more outdoor activities, learn more knowledge, to improve yourself and enrich yourself.

You just encountered difficulties, a little discouraged, people are not so smooth in this life, there are always this and that shortcomings, everyone must be psychologically prepared to face difficulties, maybe you have been very smooth in the past, you can't bear some difficulties, remember that there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, face it bravely, everything will be fine.

Find your own direction, set a goal, and work hard.