Who helped me analyze family conflicts

I looked upstairs and said that it was my father's fault, but I don't think there was anything wrong with your father.

I can see that you are also very filial, so I will help you analyze it:

First of all, I didn't see your father's words"It's not that my son wants to eat, it's that you want to eat, and I don't know what I want to eat every day"Something is wrong. In fact, when the parents are old, they will seek harmony and warmth, they are both in their 100s years old, and they don't joke with each other so much at home, do you have any good suggestions, or how much time can you spend with them?

So your anger at this time shows that you are very ungraceful and do not understand the old man. Not to mention that your words are so ugly. At this time, not only your father is very heartbroken, but even your mother must be uncomfortable.

Secondly, to get to your reply: don't you just eat a rotten meal. In fact, at this time, I said:

I want to eat it too, and your parents will be happy to eat it. In the end, the key to developing into that situation is still up to you. Think about it, how do you feel when your own child says that?

Also, just such a trivial matter, you slammed the door and went out, which means that you are not very good-tempered and not mature enough.

There are several places where you write: You are very hot. Hehe, from childhood to adulthood, how much care and love did your parents give you to raise you to such a big age.

Your mother is crying and beating you, do you feel good? When parents are old, how many years do children have to fulfill their filial piety? Don't let your fiery temper break your parents' hearts.

Maybe that's not what you want to hear, but I think family harmony is what everyone has been pursuing.

Ordinary family conflicts do not form in a day or two.

Estrangement and suspicion are slowly accumulating.

It is not easy to resolve family conflicts, and it requires the joint efforts of the family as a whole.

I hope that the conflicts of every family can be resolved.

In fact, I think your psychology is to blame your father, your father is 50 years old this year, you shouldn't be so angry, he is 50 years old, do you think you should worry about him, he can say whatever he likes, maybe he is just joking, and you slammed the door and went out, and he didn't give him a step down, he couldn't get over his face, maybe you were fighting for your mother What you said is not very clear, what I said above is my own feelings, don't be surprised, to be honest, it is difficult for Qing officials to break family affairs, my father and my mother are often noisy, I don't know what to say. They all feel justified.

There is too much difference between the way words are expressed and the way they are expressed in words. No one else can help you with your family's affairs.

It's your father's fault You're so old that you need to take care of your mother, but you can't hurt your father, you're older, it's like this, it's very stubborn The next time you encounter this kind of thing, you will come to a smooth boat and say that you are hungry for hot pot, and if you go together, it will end up Sometimes you have to follow along.

Dad at home has been angry from time to time, if you are the same, what is the difference between you and your father, you should be better than him to your mother, instead of losing your temper, do you think of your mother's mood when facing the two of you? Isn't she afraid? You know your father's shortcomings, you have to avoid the occurrence of yes, you are a man and feel that you can't stand it, can your mother stand it, make your mother happy.

I feel that you should be a buffer, don't think too much about who to blame, the main thing is a family harmony, you say, a lot of things, almost on the line. It's true that the family is happy.

When menopause arrives, there is no way, people will be so upset when they reach age, and they don't like what they see, at this time, they can only endure it, even if their parents are wrong, don't quarrel with their parents, which will only backfire (they should not listen to it at the time), and wait for their parents to calm down and talk and enlighten. Buy some nutrients for your parents.

You're talking too generally, it's really difficult...