The boyfriend s parents objected to whether to continue and begged for discussion.

This one... His mother has a lot of control, it's his son's business whether he looks good or not, his son can take care of her, she can pick you for not being sensible, family conditions are not good or whatever, she has the right to choose, but the matter of appearance has nothing to do with her. It's up to your boyfriend.

The key is your boyfriend, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, everyone wants their children to live better. Sooner or later, I'll understand, and I won't be so insistent anymore. Depending on your boyfriend's attitude, if he doesn't want to be with you, just cut it off, and if he likes you very much, that's another matter.

It's really painful not to be with the person you like and the person you love!

I think the key is to see your boyfriend, if he can give you happiness, his mother will accept you.

I think first impressions are important, so let's give it a try!

Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, since his parents don't like you, it must be because you still have shortcomings, and you are good at finding things that can make them happy, every parent loves their children, as long as you can communicate well with them, everything is for their sake, slowly, they will like you.

There is no need. Your boyfriend said that he doesn't mind the family gap and hopes to rely on himself, so he knows that he is a naïve person, and he can buy a house and raise a baby completely on his own? At that time, he was slapped in the face by reality, and he still had to bow his head and beg his parents, at that time, even if his mother made things difficult for you, he would only tell you to endure it for the sake of the overall situation.

Your boyfriend is short-sighted and only looks at the present and can't see the future, and you are also naïve and can't see what the future marriage will look like? Whether you have feelings for anyone or not, even if you break up, it doesn't matter which suitor you go back to. The point is that you first sort out the problem with your boyfriend.

One more thing, don't think too much, think that those suitors who promise back, you will definitely succeed? Will it come to the end? Maybe the person who is really suitable for you has not yet started chasing you, let alone appeared in your current life, the future is promising, deal with the present.

There are too many variables between falling in love and getting married, and then whether there will be a divorce, it is best to think about the things in front of you, and it is not interesting to think too much.

It is best not to risk a marriage that is not blessed by your parents, and if you break up now, the most you can do is to experience a broken love. If you marry him, you will have to experience a life-long conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, unless the money you earn can slap their whole family in the face, otherwise there is a high probability that you will be disliked by your mother-in-law for the rest of your life. If you can't stand this, or what kind of husband you think your boyfriend should become, but he doesn't become what you think he is after marriage, there is a high probability that you will have to experience the pain of divorce, and if you have a child, you will have to fight for custody.

Come to think of it, falling out of love is really just a small thing.

The elders oppose it because of their concepts or concerns, it must be for their sons to consider in the future, this is completely understandable, when the hearts of parents are the same, if you change to your parents, you may also have such ideas and practices, parents' suggestions may be listened to, but can not be completely considered, because the times are different, consider comprehensively, communicate and discuss more. After all, it is the two of you who will live together in the future, if you get along with each other and are similar in all aspects, you should insist on not missing it well, let your boyfriend do more ideological work with your family, and take everything that should be considered into place, so that the two families will be involved in the future to avoid a lot of unnecessary contradictions.

There is still a need to persevere, because it is the young couple who live in the end, and it has nothing to do with the boyfriend's parents, if the relationship between the two people is better, they should insist.

There is no need to insist, it must be because there are some problems in this relationship, and the parents have seen it, so they should still listen to their parents' thoughts.

There is no need to insist, because the parents do not agree at all, and such a love will not be blessed, so it is better to break up.

My attitude is: Zhisocks will not give up.

Parents, why are you objecting, why are you thinking about it in this way, and so on, and so on. But if the boyfriend doesn't have a better coping strategy,I think it's better to break up.

Should the boyfriend's parents oppose it and continue to collapse? It depends on the situation, because after the marriage is a matter of two families, you can try to date for a period of time, if your boyfriend is very good to you, you should not give up, if your boyfriend listens to your parents, in the end I think you still have to give up, and you will be the one who suffers at that time.

First of all, there must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I want to know what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I think you don't need to stick to it, because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, marriage is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in a fairy tale, The prince and princess lived a happy life in this way, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, and when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage is meaningless. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.

Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, if they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that even if his parents are picky, they will be satisfied with you. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!

Don't you dare to have a happy marriage.